RAISING HER CONFIDENTLY | Connecting with Teens, Parenting Styles, Family Communication, Raising Teen Daughters

Hey sis!   Today I am sharing what I believe is the number one way to show your daughter you are here for her; for anything and everything - The hard and not-so-hard conversations.   It's being vulnerable!!  It's the key to having open conversations with your teen daughter.   In this episode, I am going to share how vulnerability has help my relationship with my teenaged daughter.  What vulnerability can do to help bring you and your teen girl closer in relationship and in deep conversations.  How vulnerability will impact your relationship with your daughter so that she will want to go to you even if she is scared.  And start the path towards open communication with her.    Link to Brene Brown book The Gifts of Imperfection   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero  

Hi friend!     We are talking Generation Z (and gen alpha for our tween girl moms) and your teens growing up in this generation.  We will dig into what your teen girl thinks about, what matters to your teenage daughter, her mentality and passions.  We will discuss how this helps us understand the challenges we face as we raise them through a generation of social media, technology, social justice and more!   Link referred to in this episode: WORK WITH ME   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hey Mama!   Trust is so easy to have but once lost, it's so hard to rebuild.  Today I am talking about 5 ways you can build a trust-worthy relationship with your teen daughter.  You want to understand your daughter and she wants you to understand her as well.  Trust is at the center of it all.    Whether you have an amazing relationship with your daughter or one that ebs and flows, we desire one that is built on trust and so does your daughter no matter what she says to you or shows you.  She wants someone who knows has her back and that she truly can be herself. She wants someone who is in her corner and is confident in it.  You do! Now how can we show her that?   In this episode, I give you 5 ways I’ve continually and most times consistently implement in building a trusting relationship with my daughter.   Are you ready to tune in?   Link referred to in this episode: WORK WITH ME   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero  

Hey friend,   You’ve probably heard or seen people claiming their Word of the Year and declaring it on Social Media.  Maybe you have a personal Word of the Year and haven’t really thought about having one for the family.   In this episode,  we are going to talk about what a Word of the Year is, why it matters, and how it can be a focal point to help your teens be on the same page. How a simple word can help your teenage daughter be anchored, be responsible, be held accountable and communicate better.   Are you ready to declare yours? Come & listen in!   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hey Mama! Are you guilty of mom guilt too?  It can definitely stop us in our tracks, guide our decisions and our reactions towards our teenage daughters. It's a cycle that doesn't seem to end.    This episode is going to unload some heavy stuff that may be uncomfortable to listen to, but hear me out.  I had to come to the same realization as well for myself in order to shift my perspective on how I parent my teen daughter.    I'm sharing 3 reasons why we have them, how they actually get in the way of a healthy relationship with your daughter and how to release it or at least simmer it down.   You'll leave with direction on how to lay the guilt down so you can raise your girl with what she needs most,  a guilt-free YOU!   Link to book Untangled by Dr Lisa Damour, Ph.D   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hey mama, In this episode we are talking having fun with your girl.  It’s time to reconnect.  You may have asked yourself,  "what is she into?"  Or have even said, "I don’t know what she wants to do."  Don’t worry!  I will be giving you 5 ways to have fun with your teenage daughter!! Having fun is key to connecting better with her.  You'll let down her guard a bit and show her how much you care.  What matters to her, matters to you!! Plus, you can show her how much fun YOU really are! Grab your notebook, you’ll want to write them down!     Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero    

HI Mama, I am answering a question from a fellow mama I work with who asked, "What can I do when my daughter freaks out over everything?". Freak outs get the best of us!  They happen.  It's emotional. It's offensive.  It's disrespectful, and straight out rude! You can find yourself deep in your daughter's emotional storm, and feel bad about it later. Your teen girl may know how to push your buttons, but you can equip yourself with the 4 strategies that get you off that crazy cycle.    AND help your daughter get through hers. The drama doesn't have to get bigger than it is! Link to resources mentioned in the episode: Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown   Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero   You can find me here: Learn: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hey friend! In today’s episode I give you 4 things you need to know about your tween/teen girl and the changes you are getting on the receiving end.  I’m talking about the attitude, the emotional outbursts, the shouting and even the silent treatment.   We are talking about what I call "the change" during puberty in the adolescent stage.  We cover topics that will help you understand your daughter's changing mood and freak outs.  Why she may be closing that door in her room, answering you back with a little attitude or even asking you to leave her alone. This episode will help you feel less overwhelmed and less confused about what's going on with your teen girl. You’ll want to listen in! Links to resources mentioned in this episode:  Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown      Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero   You can find me here: Learn: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hi Mama! This is the very first episode ever for the RAISING HER CONFIDENTLY podcast. WhooHoo!! In this episode, You’ll get to know a little bit about me. Why a podcast about raising teen girls and your relationship with her as well as the impact your relationship has on her becoming a woman.    If you are find yourself googling: "How to fix my teenager’s attitude" "How to talk with my teenage daughter" "Why is my daughter freaking out over everything?" "How to have a better relationship with my daughter?" Or "Ways to have fun with my teenage daughter"   This podcast is created for you, Mama!  I hear you! In this podcast you will gain relationship building tools, tips to establish boundaries, and ideas in creating a supportive community for you and your daughter. You’ll want to listen to this! I’m about to become your new bff!   Are you looking for a mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero   You can find me here: Learn: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

Hey Mama, Have you ever asked yourself these questions when it comes to parenting your teen girl? Why doesn’t she cuddle with me like she used to? She’s always in her room, is there something going on? She says I don’t understand her, what am I doing wrong? You may have even thought, “I don’t even know who she is anymore!”.      You found yourself googling for answers to your questions like, How to fix my teenager’s attitude How to talk with my teenage daughter Why is my daughter freaking out over everything? How to have a better relationship with my daughter?   Or Ways to have fun with my teenage daughter This roller coaster of emotions your teen is experiencing has you feeling frustrated.  You are starting to feel like you are the only one dealing with the drama your once sweet girl is suddenly creating in your home, and you have no clue how to parent your teen.   You don’t feel equipped with the right tools to raise your teen girl. Stricter rules and discipline are not working.  They actually make it worse.  And forget about putting your foot down, she might even walk right over it. Ah!    You lack the confidence in relating to your teen daughter. Maybe it is the lack of a role model growing up that has you feeling lost, or maybe it is not being familiar with the changes happening to your daughter.     What worked for your mom may not be working for you in raising your teen girl.  Maybe it’s because you want more than just telling her what to do. You want a healthy Mother-Daughter relationship.   The problem is, this is unfamiliar ground for you and may feel guilty or last about it.  You want the best for your daughter, but there is so much information thrown at you, you don’t know where or how to start.    Hi, I’m Jeannie Baldomero.    I was that teenage girl you are googling about!  I think back to when I was 13.    Whew.  I don’t think I would like myself. LOL! I was rebellious, full of attitude, and so hard to relate to.     But honestly,  Why 13? It was the year my mom said, “I don’t know who you are anymore”.  It was the year I made so many dumb mistakes which led to a cascade of other mistakes into my adult life.  I was that young girl that needed guidance; that needed help even when I rejected it. I needed a mentor to guide me, not my inexperienced friends to lead me.    This is why my heart is here with young teen girls.  I partner with you, a mom full of unconditional love, and help you guide her towards recognizing the identity that is uniquely handcrafted for her.   I’m a wife and mom of 3. A teenage daughter and young adults.   I must say parenting has been a roller coaster ride of twists and turns and unpredictable dips that can throw us off our feet.   My passion for healthy families as a former educator and as a homeschooling family for several years, and zeal to impact young teen girls has led me to partner with moms like you and guide them to create healthy relationships with their teens.     In this podcast I share tools and resources to help reconnect you with your daughter confidently. I’m providing you relationship-building exercises to make intentional connections,  establish boundaries, and build a community to confidently get you through this season of raising a teen.   Mama,  I’m here to tell you, you are not alone.  Raising a teenage daughter is hard.  But don’t let this season rob you of the joy of having a daughter.  Coming from the mouth of my own teen daughter, mothers & daughters are DYNAMIC together.    So grab your coffee and fuzzy throw and let’s dig in to Raising Teen Daughters Confidently.   Are looking for a mom community?  The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.  If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join by going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero   You can find me here: Learn: www.jeanniebaldomero.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero