

The CPS Podcast
Ross Greene
Dr. Ross Greene, originator of the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions model and author of The Explosive Child, Lost at School, Lost & Found, and Raising Human Beings, provides guidance to parents on understanding and helping kids with social, emotional, and behavioral challenges...along with his co-hosts Kim Hopkins-Betts (Director of Outreach at Lives in the Balance) and parents Jennifer Trethewey, and Stella Hastings.
Episodes
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Nov 2, 2021 • 46min
Working Out the Plan B Kinks
Navigating parenting challenges can be tricky, especially with children facing ADHD. The hosts share insights on creating interim family plans and establishing new routines to manage conflicts. By employing Plan B strategies, they discuss how to handle behavioral issues during bedtime with toddlers. They also tackle the complexities of having tough conversations with kids using innovative methods. Listeners gain practical advice for fostering collaboration and empathy, ensuring a supportive and positive family dynamic.

Oct 5, 2021 • 44min
There Ain't No Good Guys...There Ain't No Bad Guys
Well, aside from providing guidance to a few parents on diffiuclties they're experiencing with their children, we also heard from a parent who feels strongly that government shouldn't tell parents how to parent. While we didn't agree completely, it gave us a good opportunity to listen, something that seems in short supply these days...

Sep 7, 2021 • 45min
Plan B Troubleshooting
On our first program of the fall, we heard from a mom who's having trouble engaging her son in Plan B...and having trouble keeping her energy up to stick with the process. Hopefully the guidance of our panel was helpful.

May 4, 2021 • 46min
Finding Your Window In
Does behavior belong in step 2? How do you find your "window in" with a reluctant older teen? Dealing with guilt over giving in...all these topics and more were covered on today's episode.

Apr 6, 2021 • 45min
Finally, the "F" Word Makes Its Way Onto the Podcast!
But probably not the "f" word you're thinking of. And, when it comes to wording unsolved problems well, even "f" words are relevant.

Mar 2, 2021 • 45min
Clarifying Kid & Adult Concerns
Two callers provided lots of great conversation today - everything from sibling strife, can an adult's concern be "I feel disrespected," and how to revisit a solution that isn't working.

Jan 5, 2021 • 45min
Parenting During the Pandemic...and a Mom Who Was More Successful Than She Knew
Findings from the Lives in the Balance survey on Parenting During the Pandemic are now available on the Lives in the Balance website, and were discussed at the beginning of the program. Then we heard from a mom whose first attempt at Plan B went a lot better than she realized.

Dec 1, 2020 • 45min
If You Need A Good Overview Of the CPS Model, This Podcast Is It
Thanks to four parents who emailed us with questions, this podcast provides a great overview of the basic components of identifying and solving problems collaboratively and proactively. Nothing beats real life...

Nov 10, 2020 • 44min
Solving Problems Collaboratively Versus "Accommodating"...Not the Same Thing
After helping a mom sort through the ins and outs of doing Plan B with her son, we turned our attention to email, including one from a mom who was concerned that doing Plan B meant she was always going to be accomodating her son's problems. Good to get that cleared up.

Oct 6, 2020 • 45min
What's Going Wrong With This Plan B?
On today's program, we responded to a mom whose son was having difficulty participating in the Define Adult Concerns step and Invitation step of Plan B, prompting some hopefully helpful words of wisdom from our panel. Also covered: should consuquences be used in tandem with Plan B...and should parents explain Plan B to kids before doing it?