

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Sep 11, 2021 • 31min
Revisit: How To Be A Magnetic Leader At Home And In The Office
Episode #404 What makes a great leader in business AND at home? A great leader is a person that is always in the front drawing their team to where they are going to and inspiring others through their action and their communication. The first step to becoming a great leader is to take inventory of yourself. The best way to do this is to have smart people around you give you honest feedback. You need to understand where you are succeeding and where you are failing both as an individual and a leader. Once you have that feedback, you then get to take massive action and be the inspired leader that you know you can be. You get to take care of yourself and put yourself first. When you are sacrificing yourself for others, that will put a lot of pressure on your life. The secret to being a great leader is to be a great self-leader first. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 9, 2021 • 1h 1min
Revisit: Clean Things Up With A Clearing Conversation
Episode #403 What is a clearing conversation? Who should you have a clearing conversation with? It's about getting on the same page and talking out your unspoken thoughts and feelings, to see and understand each other more clearly. You can do this for all kinds of people. Start with the people who are closest to you. It's a simple process. Ask them about the things that aren't working for them about you...and then do something about it. If you want your relationship to be crystal clear, you must ask and act. In this episode, we are going to talk about what a clearing conversation is, how to have clearing conversations, why we need to do it, who to have a conversation with, and how powerful these clearing conversations can be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 7, 2021 • 42min
Revisit: The Myth of Unconditional Love
Episode #402 Do you feel like your wife is working against you instead of working with you? Are you craving unconditional love from your wife? When you get married, everything seems perfect. But if things start to go wrong, most women start to find their way out. That's why women need emotional security from their partners. As men, we want to have someone who will stay with us through the ups and downs, who will stay until the finish line, who will love us unconditionally. In this episode, you will understand the reasons why we crave unconditional love from our partner. We will also talk about how can we regain the respect and loyalty of our partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 4, 2021 • 32min
Revisit: How To Know Whether To Save Your Marriage
Episode #401 What if your wife is attracted to, or flirting with, someone else? How to know whether to save your marriage? Remember, don't fix your marriage just because of your kids. You don't want your kids going through life watching a relationship like yours, a shitty one. That's the worst thing you can do for your kids. You should show your kids how to value themselves, love themselves, and that they should be in a loving, caring, and intimate relationship. If you are struggling with the decision to try and fix your marriage or not, you have to first figure out how things got to this broken place, and what you can begin to do about it. Invest in yourself. Go to The Activation Method. Work on bettering yourself and raising your value to bring your woman back. Women are attracted to physical appearance and growth, women find that incredibly sexy. If your love her, if you are in love with her, and if you are willing to work on it, you should fix your marriage. But she has to stop looking outside your marriage immediately. If not, tell her you're out. End it. In this episode, let's have a deeper conversation about your relationship...about your marriage. Learn if it's worth saving, or if it's better to move on. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 2, 2021 • 13min
How to Forgive Yourself
Episode #400 "Whatever you did, you're not the same man." What do you do if you've hurt someone who's dear to you? Will you admit fault? Will you take responsibility? In this episode, we'll talk about some strategies on how you can stop punishing yourself. Now is the time to improve yourself more - because you are stronger than before. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 31, 2021 • 41min
The Stages of Manhood
Episode #399 What stage are you in? Are you in the stage where you're earning and building your vision for your career? Are you in the stage where you need some space other than work? Why do you think you're at that stage? In this episode, we'll get into the seven stages of manhood and we'll help you to identify what stage you're really in. It's time to take the right path and be a more Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 28, 2021 • 18min
What To Do When Your Wife Puts You Down
Episode #398 What are you going to do if your wife offends you? Would you confront her? "That's not cool. That's not acceptable." Do you feel good as a man? In this episode, let's talk about what makes us upset in a relationship and some points on how to compromise with your wife. It's time for you to rebuild your confidence and give her a peaceful mind. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 26, 2021 • 19min
What To Do When Your Relationship Is 'Tit-For-Tat'
Episode #397 Are you aware of what's going on in your relationship? Or are you ignoring the problem? Does this sound familiar? "Whatever the reason, she feels the need to defend herself." How can you avoid misunderstandings with your wife? In this episode, we'll get into the three levels of a relationship, and some methods on how to convey your message to her in a better way. Make her understand that you want to stay connected with each other and grow together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 24, 2021 • 20min
Setting Boundaries In Your Business & Life
Episode #396 "When you constantly make and break promises to yourself, your worth can start to become kind of meaningless to yourself." Have you made a lot of promises to yourself? How many of those promises have you not kept? Why didn't you keep your promise? Is it because you don't have time? In this episode, we discuss some tips on how to manage boundaries in business and relationships. This is an opportunity for you to recognize the things you really want to do in life and make them happen - because you are a man of integrity. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 21, 2021 • 20min
Are You Doing The Basics?
Episode #395 What are you doing to please the people you love? And are you really doing the right thing? We always want to help our loved ones - even when our plates are full - because we know how strong we are and we know that we can do it. Eventually, however, the weight of this drains us. We feel burdened by the help we provide. Why? Let's talk about the effects of putting others first. We keep taking care of people we love, but we're forgetting someone who really needs help. This episode will give you a better insight on how to live your life to the fullest and how to be a more responsible man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


