

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jul 17, 2021 • 27min
Get More Sex Without Being Needy
Episode #380 Thinking about asking for more sex, but afraid of seeming needy? How can you initiate without putting everything on the line? There are two types of initiation. Physical and verbal. Touch her in ways and in places that are sensual and intimate. Make her feel that this is not just some kind of movie you are making. The big takeaway here is to enjoy being sensual with her. You can touch a woman in a way that makes her feel connected and feel cared for. Sex is about both arousal and comfort, so make sure she feels comfortable and safe enough first. Initiate the touch without expecting to go any further. In verbal initiation, compliments are the big ticket. Be specific with your compliments so that she's really feeling your appreciation and your shared connection. Flirt, have fun, be silly! Focus on how you can get intimate without being sexual - whether on the physical or verbal side. Have fun with it. Find ways to meet your needs and meets her needs. In this episode, how to get more sex without seeming needy, and what you can do when you want to have sex with your wife. Based on the two types of initiation, we discuss things you can do to get her in the mood and to create chemistry. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 15, 2021 • 27min
Best Hour Of Their Day With Jason Ackerman
Episode #379 How can you be a successful business owner while also taking care of your health and nutrition? Jason Ackerman spends a lot of his time training successful people to take better care of themselves. Focus on one thing - put all your efforts into it, do your best at it - then move on to the next thing. That key concept is what allows me to maintain my health and fitness at a high level. Don't let your own health and fitness get sacrificed - 80% of how you look, feel, and perform is in your nutrition. Having your priorities straight allows you to focus on the right things. In this episode, we're talking with Jason Ackerman about his background, what he helps people with, the concept of filling your cup first, priorities, and how to balance the four pillars of health. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 13, 2021 • 33min
How To Master Stopping Self-Sabotage
Episode #378 When things get really good in your life and when everything is going so right, a lot of guys get scared of what could happen... ...and they self-sabotage. Think of The Five Territories - you have a vision of yourself of what you believe you can do and you believe you can be. That is your upper limit. Until you readjust that thermostat, whenever you go above that limit, it'll crash back down. When you start to grow and supersede that limit, the thermostat kicks off. This happens in all areas of our lives. In this episode, we are going to talk about why we self-sabotage and the steps on how to master stopping self-sabotage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 10, 2021 • 33min
The Alpha Recap #4
Episode #377 What happened at the recent Alpha Reset? The Alpha Reset itself is the key that unlocks the door to the man you are inside. That key is access to the Alpha that is always inside of you. If you own that key you will be able to unlock the door and keep it open - or closed if you want - and that's what makes it so powerful for these guys. True power is about harnessing the power that is lying dormant inside of you. If you decide to harness it, it creates an energy and a presence that arrives in a room before you do. In this episode, we are going to talk about the before and after of the guys who attended the Alpha Reset, a quick recap on what The Alpha Reset is, what happens at an Alpha Reset, why to go, and who it's for. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 8, 2021 • 25min
Revisit: How To Not Be Needy In A Relationship
Episode #376 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 6, 2021 • 29min
Revisit: Overcoming Depression
Episode #375 What are the best ways to deal with depression? A lot of men battle with depression, especially when they get older. The higher up the ladder men climb, the more present depression seems to be. This is not something to be shameful of. We all get depressed, but it's how you deal with and handle the depression that shifts everything. In this episode, we are going to talk about the signs and causes of depression and the ways to overcome it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 3, 2021 • 29min
Revisit: What If The Problem Isn't What You Think It Is?
Episode #374 Do you ever wonder how you can fix your marriage? The truth is....the problem isn't the marriage. The disconnection that happened in your marriage is more of a symptom rather than the root cause. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to determine what the problem really is and how to focus on yourself first, be admired by your wife, and fix your marriage. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 1, 2021 • 33min
Revisit: Bringing Your Marriage Back From the Brink of Divorce
Episode #373 How is your relationship with your wife? Is it growing stronger or is it getting colder and colder? Is it still fulfilling or becoming a great burden? The idea of losing your wife is probably one of the hardest things to handle. But if you want to save your marriage, there is still a chance to make it right. In this episode, we will talk about the experience of one of the men in the brotherhood and how he was able to save his marriage from the brink of divorce. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 29, 2021 • 31min
Revisit: The Real Cost of Divorce
Episode #372 How can you improve your marriage? Where do you need to practice to improve your game and deserve the success that you want? We spend so much time looking at the market, stocks, real estate, and thinking about financial investment and the financial side of things, that we often forget what our number one asset is. YOU are your number one asset so do not put your business first and your needs last. Make an investment in YOURSELF for your own growth and become a better man. You are the only thing that people can't take away from you. In this episode, we are going to dive deep into how you can improve your marriage by understanding that you are your number one asset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 26, 2021 • 28min
Revisit: Why Some Men (And Women) Have Affairs
Episode #371 Why do you think men, in general, seek comfort from a woman outside of marriage? What are the things that you can do to reignite your relationship with your spouse? People change so it's important to always find ways to reconnect with your wife + focus your attention on doing things you both enjoy. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to get admiration, respect, and closeness, how to get the possibility of divorce thrown off the table, and what you can do to feel more connected and loved. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.