The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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May 26, 2022 • 23min

Revisit: "Every Time We Talk, We Argue"

Episode #514 Every relationship book, podcast, or video you consume tells you communication is key. That to get through your problems with your partner...you have to talk about it. But every time you try to talk to her, it seems like you end up arguing. The good news is....there is another way. When we have problems in the relationship, talking about it sometimes will just make the situation even worse. As a man, we feel that it is an attack on our capabilities to provide and as a man. It is difficult for us to communicate and talk about it because we don't understand what's going on inside us. Get out of that situation by focusing on building the connection first with yourself so that you will be able to build a connection with your wife. You should reset and reclaim. Know yourself, and understand what's going on inside you so that it will be easier to understand what your partner really needs from you. Have fun with yourself so that you will be able to have fun with your partner. Build a deeper connection with yourself and your wife and as a result, communication will become a lot easier. In this episode you will learn: The alternative to "talking through" your problems with your partner. How showing up for yourself makes all the difference What your partner is really looking for from you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 24, 2022 • 23min

Revisit: Your Story Equals Your Identity

Episode #513 What is the story you have about yourself? A learned behavior becomes our stories and our stories become our identity. You have to be really careful because your stories are going to dictate how you are feeling. The idea of being a powerful man is about claiming your own rights and stories. In this episode, we are going to talk about our stories and identities, the game of awareness, and how to become powerful to be able to rewrite your stories into anything you want. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 21, 2022 • 20min

Sitting In Your Discomfort

Episode #512 What will you do to comfort someone who is struggling emotionally? How will you distract yourself from the pain? Acknowledge your emotions by letting yourself feel the agonies such as greed, anger, shame, loneliness, and uncertainty. Don't be scared of facing your dark sides because you will learn to accept yourself fully. In this episode, we'll get into how to be comfortable with your uncomfortable feelings and what to do to create a safe space for people you love. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 19, 2022 • 24min

Finding The Right Time With Your Wife

Episode #511 Do you want to connect with your wife, but she's constantly unavailable? What happens when you don't spend quality time with her? Start expressing small but romantic gestures to show your love. Be proactive in managing your time for yourself and your family. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about the reasons you're getting disconnected from your partner and how to figure out a good time to build a strong connection with her. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 17, 2022 • 23min

What To Do When Resentment Builds

Episode #510 Are you frustrated because you're starting to resent your family? What are the signs of resentment? If you're feeling guilty because everything is going well, then stop sabotaging yourself and be aware of what your unconscious commitments are. In this episode, we're talking about some signs of resentment and what you can do to break the cycle of negative emotions so you can keep improving yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 14, 2022 • 22min

Revisit: The Power of Leaning In

Episode #509 There are many times in our life when we get uneasy, angry, frustrated, and depressed... And what we usually do is avoid facing it. We tend to transfer the frustrated energy to other things or people we have relationships with. We stress eat, we drink alcohol, we don't go to the gym, we watch porn, or we get angry with our wives for no valid reason, etc. How many of us are guilty of this? How does it feel after doing these things? Most men we talk to say it doesn't feel good...in fact it feels worse than before they did anything. In this episode, we talk about how to find inspiration in times of chaos. How to LEAN INTO IT + be with it until the unrest turns into inspiration... And heaviness turns into lightness... ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 12, 2022 • 20min

Revisit: Are You The Partner That You Want?

Episode #508 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line of being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask these questions to most people, 9 out of 10, the answer is NO. What should we do to flip the script? In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some insights into how we can be the partner we most want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 10, 2022 • 19min

Revisit: Dropping Everything for Your Wife

Episode #507 How do you gain admiration and respect from your wife? You begin by respecting yourself and your own time. Don't let her take the dominant role and don't let yourself be sacrificed for her. In order to gain admiration and respect from your partner, always take care of yourself and take a stand for who you are and what you want. Put yourself first and honor your boundaries. If you put yourself last, you are going to get drained and emptied out. You'll feel depressed, angry, lonely, resentful...eventually, you'll explode. So stop dropping everything for your wife! You only have one shot at this game called life. Get activated and take charge. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop dropping everything for your wife and the key steps on how to do it carefully and gracefully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 7, 2022 • 28min

The Nice Guy Vs. The Good Man

Episode #506 What is a nice guy? What are the differences between a nice guy and a good man? A nice guy focuses on what makes other people happy so he will get affection in return. A good man is surrounding himself with people who support him to be the best version of himself. In this episode, Doug and Arthur talk about some qualities of a nice guy and a good man - and how to be more decisive in your daily life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 5, 2022 • 22min

Revisit: Life After Divorce

Episode #505 What does life look like after a divorce? The activated male is a natural Alpha leader. A lot of men are coming to the Activation Method to save their marriage - or at least make their marriage better. For men who haven't gone through the program and find themselves in the middle of a divorce, they feel very caught off guard. They're stressed out because they don't know what to do. They lost themselves along the way and the fire and burning desire that was once inside them has dissipated. What happens to these guys who go through a divorce is it takes them a long time to get back on the horse. Dating will not be easy for them. Their behavior becomes self-destructive. They are trapped at a level of stress, loneliness, and depression that is unsustainable - and the only way that they can find even the illusion of solace is by sharing their victimhood. In this episode, we are going to talk about what life can look like after divorce, the differences between the two viewpoints on the path of divorce, how to be a 'rare catch' in the marketplace, and how to step into becoming a Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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