

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jun 4, 2022 • 28min
Are You Paying An Ignorance Tax?
Episode #518 Are you scared of getting out of your comfort zone? Ask yourself... What helps you grow as a man? If you want to change something in your life that you are unhappy with, start taking a leap of faith to step out of your comfort zone and build a strong character that allows you to grow. In this episode, Tim and Jake talk about how to know when you are paying an ignorance tax and what to do to leave your comfort zone so you can step into your growth zone. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 2, 2022 • 19min
Stop Making It Hard!
Episode #517 Why do men fall into the trap of making life hard? What happens when you stop doing things that you love? It's important to remember that you don't have to do everything and get to spend your time on what makes you happy. In this episode, we'll get into why you're making life harder and what you can do to eliminate what's draining your energy in your five territories. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 31, 2022 • 19min
"I've Done The Work On Me, It's Her Turn"
Episode #516 Are you doing your best to be a better husband to your wife? Or are you waiting for your wife to take action? Stop giving your power away and start taking responsibility for your life. It's time to step up... you have more control than you think. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about why you need to stop playing the victim role and how to reexamine your actions as a leader of the family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 28, 2022 • 35min
The Alpha Recap #6
Episode #515 Are you an Alpha who knows what's best for you? Are you willing to join a program that will transform your life? If you feel something is missing in your life, then you might be looking for a program that can change your life and save your marriage. In this episode, we're sharing some stories of men in the program and the phenomenal results after the Alpha Reset with the brotherhood. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 26, 2022 • 23min
Revisit: "Every Time We Talk, We Argue"
Episode #514 Every relationship book, podcast, or video you consume tells you communication is key. That to get through your problems with your partner...you have to talk about it. But every time you try to talk to her, it seems like you end up arguing. The good news is....there is another way. When we have problems in the relationship, talking about it sometimes will just make the situation even worse. As a man, we feel that it is an attack on our capabilities to provide and as a man. It is difficult for us to communicate and talk about it because we don't understand what's going on inside us. Get out of that situation by focusing on building the connection first with yourself so that you will be able to build a connection with your wife. You should reset and reclaim. Know yourself, and understand what's going on inside you so that it will be easier to understand what your partner really needs from you. Have fun with yourself so that you will be able to have fun with your partner. Build a deeper connection with yourself and your wife and as a result, communication will become a lot easier. In this episode you will learn: The alternative to "talking through" your problems with your partner. How showing up for yourself makes all the difference What your partner is really looking for from you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 24, 2022 • 23min
Revisit: Your Story Equals Your Identity
Episode #513 What is the story you have about yourself? A learned behavior becomes our stories and our stories become our identity. You have to be really careful because your stories are going to dictate how you are feeling. The idea of being a powerful man is about claiming your own rights and stories. In this episode, we are going to talk about our stories and identities, the game of awareness, and how to become powerful to be able to rewrite your stories into anything you want. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 21, 2022 • 20min
Sitting In Your Discomfort
Episode #512 What will you do to comfort someone who is struggling emotionally? How will you distract yourself from the pain? Acknowledge your emotions by letting yourself feel the agonies such as greed, anger, shame, loneliness, and uncertainty. Don't be scared of facing your dark sides because you will learn to accept yourself fully. In this episode, we'll get into how to be comfortable with your uncomfortable feelings and what to do to create a safe space for people you love. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 19, 2022 • 24min
Finding The Right Time With Your Wife
Episode #511 Do you want to connect with your wife, but she's constantly unavailable? What happens when you don't spend quality time with her? Start expressing small but romantic gestures to show your love. Be proactive in managing your time for yourself and your family. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about the reasons you're getting disconnected from your partner and how to figure out a good time to build a strong connection with her. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 17, 2022 • 23min
What To Do When Resentment Builds
Episode #510 Are you frustrated because you're starting to resent your family? What are the signs of resentment? If you're feeling guilty because everything is going well, then stop sabotaging yourself and be aware of what your unconscious commitments are. In this episode, we're talking about some signs of resentment and what you can do to break the cycle of negative emotions so you can keep improving yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 14, 2022 • 22min
Revisit: The Power of Leaning In
Episode #509 There are many times in our life when we get uneasy, angry, frustrated, and depressed... And what we usually do is avoid facing it. We tend to transfer the frustrated energy to other things or people we have relationships with. We stress eat, we drink alcohol, we don't go to the gym, we watch porn, or we get angry with our wives for no valid reason, etc. How many of us are guilty of this? How does it feel after doing these things? Most men we talk to say it doesn't feel good...in fact it feels worse than before they did anything. In this episode, we talk about how to find inspiration in times of chaos. How to LEAN INTO IT + be with it until the unrest turns into inspiration... And heaviness turns into lightness... ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.