The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Jan 14, 2023 • 25min

Revisit: Don't Let The Shame Eat You Alive

Episode #614 How can you learn to share and open up more? How do you reach out without worrying about the shame around it? Most men don't have the courage to ask for help...or even to ask for directions. You can't solve your own problems from the same perspective that you are currently in. If you are struggling in any area, reaching out is the way forward. When we openly and freely ask for help, we travel more efficiently and enjoy the journey - all without stress, worry, or shame. In this episode, we talk about the struggles many men are facing, how we're able to deal with them, and how important it is to ask for help without worrying about the shame around it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 12, 2023 • 17min

Stop Saving People!

Episode #613 Do you feel good when you're solving other people's problems? If you find yourself gaining some worth from helping other people, it might be a good time to check in and see if you have a Savior Complex. It's important to let other people solve their own issues, because if you don't, you may be hindering their growth and holding them back. Instead of focusing on helping other people, focus on yourself so you can more effectively lead with love. In this episode, you will learn how saving others affect your relationship and what you can do to stop saving others so you can save yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 10, 2023 • 21min

Revisit: My Wife Hates Me

Episode #612 Does your wife hate you? How can you turn that look of hate and disgust into a look of admiration, respect, and desire? When a woman says that she hates her husband, what she is saying is she hates the version of her husband that's showing up. She doesn't hate the guy himself, she just doesn't like the person he's showing her. She doesn't hate you, but she's sick and tired of who you've let yourself become - this lesser version of yourself. A lot of men lose their dreams, desires, energy, and the bravado that they had along the way. Things start to slide - they start doing less and drinking more, and the fire within them starts to die. Over time, his wife will start to do the same thing. And she'll resent that within herself. A lot of guys will try to gain back their wife's love and respect by doing good things...by being a good guy, and by being a good husband. However, they're usually doing this strictly for validation - which makes them an even lesser version of themselves. Thus, she loses even more respect - and she hates him for that. In this episode, we're talking about some of the causes of divorce, why your wife might hate you, and what you can do when you find yourself in this kind of situation. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 7, 2023 • 22min

What To Realistically Expect From Your Wife

Episode #611 Do you know what happens when you show up as an Alpha in your relationship? This is exactly what we teach in The Activation Method because it changed everything. If you want to find the Alpha within you, then start standing up for yourself and be a leader who wants the best for your family. In this episode, you will learn why you shouldn't expect anything from your wife and how to set clear boundaries with your partner. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 5, 2023 • 29min

The Routine Cycle

Episode #610 What are the 3 key components of routine? What are the 4 E's in taking action? Align your routine with your goals and allow yourself to grow if you want to get what you deserve. It's time to make changes that improve your progress. In this episode, we're sharing the importance of having a routine and what you can do to establish a routine so you can make your days more productive. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 3, 2023 • 18min

Revisit: Groundhog's Day - Repeating The Past

Episode #609 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't solve a problem with the same level of thinking that creates it." If you want to make sure this year is different, change your filter and shift your thinking. The fastest way is to hire somebody and find a coach or a mentor to give that outside perspective. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being honest with yourself about where you are currently and the value of getting a fresh perspective from a coach or mentor to change your thinking. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Dec 31, 2022 • 22min

The Mind-Blowing Revelation About The Illusion Of Control

Episode #608 What are the two areas of your life that you want to control? The only person you can control is yourself because you have the power to choose how you respond in every situation so move forward to engage in personal growth. In this episode, we will learn why control over others is an illusion and how to let go of what's uncontrollable in life so that you can achieve positive results. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Dec 29, 2022 • 26min

Revisit: What's The ONE Thing Your Wife Would Change About You?

Episode #607 If your wife could change ONE thing about you, what do you think it would be? What does it mean to be a man of your word? A lot of guys make commitments and promises to their wives, to their families, and to themselves - then constantly break them or fail to follow through. Your identity to her will become a man she cannot trust. When you lose these "micro-commitments" and someone can't trust you, it's like the emotional bank account is bankrupt. Recognize the pattern you're in, stop trying to do more to be better, and realize that you're on the right path with The Activation Method. In this episode, you will learn how to have better communication, how to be the man of your word, how to make your wife feel taken, the power of the Triad of Connection during The Activation Method, and the 3 key action steps to take today. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Dec 27, 2022 • 23min

Revisit: Roommate With A Ring

Episode #606 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't work either. Before you know it, you and your wife have become more roommates than you are lovers. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a roommate with a ring, the reasons why you start feeling like roommates, and how to reconfirm your commitments to each other. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Dec 24, 2022 • 27min

You Won't Believe What These Successful Businessmen Are Doing On Christmas Eve!

Episode #605 Do you remember your last holiday? What are the three things that your wife wants from you during the holidays? If you want to enjoy your holidays with people you love, then focus on leading the family as a Chief Fun Officer because you deserve a great marriage. In this episode, we're talking about why holidays are so stressful and what you can do to make the holidays more meaningful with your family. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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