

Still Becoming One
Brad & Kate Aldrich
We deeply desired a marriage based on God's design: two people coming together as "one flesh," but we had no idea how to do it. We tried and fell flat many times, going through many dark seasons. We wondered when the oneness was supposed to begin. Renewing grace and love in our marriage wasn't an easy process, but now, more than 20 years later, our marriage is thriving, and Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach. We work with couples and individuals who want to discover what building a one-flesh marriage means, helping them uncover and understand their stories and the unique challenges that keep them stuck. We invite you to journey with us as we are Still Becoming One.
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Oct 11, 2023 • 36min
Rediscovering The Intimacy of Joy
Send us a textWhat if your marriage could be as joy-filled and light-hearted as it was when you first started dating? What if the key to reconnecting and reinvigorating your relationship was simply reintroducing the joy that initially brought you together? Let's unwrap these and discover how to find or rekindle the intimacy of Joy in your marriage. A joyous relationship doesn't just happen; it's created intentionally - let's create together.Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Oct 4, 2023 • 35min
From Stress to Strength: A Marriage Guide to Navigating Stress
From handling external stressors to prioritizing self-care as a couple, this podcast offers valuable insights on navigating stress in marriage. The speakers discuss the significance of communication, understanding, and mutual support, as well as the importance of validating feelings and developing coping skills for both partners and children.

Sep 20, 2023 • 31min
Weathering Grief Together: Becoming One Through Grief & Loss
Send us a textGrief is a storm we all must weather. Yet, it's a journey as distinct as the individual. This comforting and insightful conversation explores how this universal emotion can uniquely impact a marriage. From unmet expectations to the diverse ways each partner processes it, we delve deep into this intimate territory of how we are navigating grief as a couple presents its own set of challenges. How we each express and experience this powerful emotion can vary widely, making it challenging to remain present for our partner. In our discussion, we explore through our own stories how couples can support each other in these testing times. Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Sep 13, 2023 • 37min
Battling the Shadow: Building a Marriage through Depression
Send us a textWalking with a spouse who is struggling with or living with depression can be taxing on your marriage. We share our personal experiences and offer you a toolbox on how you can continue to grow in a healthy marriage through depression. Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Sep 6, 2023 • 39min
Navigating the Storm: Addressing Anxiety in Marriage
This podcast explores anxiety in marriage, discussing triggers, changes in behavior, and the importance of personal and marital responsibilities. They debunk myths about anxiety, share grounding techniques, and highlight the need for compassionate engagement with difficult emotions. The hosts emphasize creating a safe haven amidst the storm and navigating challenges together.

Aug 30, 2023 • 26min
Journey through the Peaks and Valleys: Mental Health in Marriage
Send us a textStruggling with mental health issues within a marriage can feel like tackling a mountain without a roadmap. But what if we told you, you're not alone, and there are ways to navigate this rocky terrain together? Welcome to our conversation about the realities of mental health issues within marriage and the tools to traverse this landscape as a unified team. Drawing on our experiences and expertise as a licensed marriage counselor and relationship coaches, we take you on a journey that promises hope, practical advice, and some hard-earned insights. This is the start of a 5 episode seriesSupport the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Aug 23, 2023 • 45min
Exploring Desire and Sexuality with Jay Stringer
Send us a textWe are thrilled to bring you a compelling conversation with our special guest, Jay Stringer. As a renowned therapist, minister, researcher, and author, Jay brings an enlightening take on the profound connections between our sexuality and healing. We deep dive into his book "Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Path to Healing" and discuss how our sexuality is more than just a physical experience; it's an intricate weave of our journey towards connectivity.Take the Holistic Desire Survey or visit Jay's website for more information!Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Aug 9, 2023 • 31min
Am I Being Spiritually Abused?
Send us a textSpiritual Abuse. The manipulation and coercion that all too often happens within the church. Neglecting people's stories and the damaging tendency to invalidate people's experiences. The church's stance on avoiding divorce often induces manipulation and outright trauma - even from well-meaning pastors.Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Aug 2, 2023 • 33min
Open The Window: Using the Window of Tolerance in Marriage
Send us a textWe all have a window of tolerance, and understanding your own and your spouse's can give you good insights into your marriage conflicts. Brace yourselves as we delve into this fascinating concept, exploring how it significantly impacts our ability to cope and our entire family dynamic. Have you ever wondered why we react so differently when plunged into stressful situations? In this episode, we dissect the four key emotional responses when we exit the wind of tolerance - fight, flight, freeze, and fawn - and why they are important to understand in your marriage. Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Jul 26, 2023 • 33min
Admitting It vs. Owning It : Taking Marriage Resolution Deeper
Exploring the shift from admitting to owning mistakes in marriage, including the importance of genuine honesty and accountability. Highlights of future dreams, distillery visits, and dining with Zacchaeus. Emphasizes the need for active communication and collaboration to promote relationship growth.