

Now That We're A Family
Elisha and Katie Voetberg
Culture has reduced the modern family to a joke -- informing parents they are only capable of shuttling their children from expert to expert who experiment with untested agendas. Katie and Elisha lean on their experience growing up in large families of 10 and 11 kids, to encourage parents to take back control, stop listening to popular relationship advice, and embrace their God-given role as their children's primary authority.
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Mar 15, 2022 • 40min
149: When Your Spouse Fails To Meet Your Expectations
Welcome back to the Now That We're A Family PODCAST!
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Mar 1, 2022 • 41min
148: Elisha's Biggest Insecurity and What Katie's Most Proud Of
Welcome Back! - Top 5 Tuesday Join our weekly email list to keep up to date with the highlights of what is going on in our family life. (scroll to the bottom) https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/site/about - Looking for more Now That We're A Family resources? We got 'em! Website: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily/ - OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com - Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Check out Katie's: https://getitalldoneclub.com

Feb 22, 2022 • 1h
147: Victory Over Pornography // Interview With Chad Johnson
I got to interview my father-in-law, Chad Johnson, father of 11, and husband to Jenise for 28 year.
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Feb 15, 2022 • 44min
146: What Nobody Tells You About Sex and Romance After Four Kids
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Feb 8, 2022 • 56min
145: Our Love Story // Our First Meeting, Our First Kiss, Our Engagement
Katie was eight and I was 12 when we first met. It was far from smooth sailing to get to marriage but boy are are glad we made to our wedding day.
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Feb 1, 2022 • 42min
144: A Rebellion Against Mediocre Motherhood // Advice from a mom of TEN with TWO SETS of Twins!
Today I'm honored to have a conversation with Abbie, and hear how she went from growing up with one brother, to being a mother to TEN with two sets of twins! We talk about overwhelm, sibling arguments, cultivating relationships with teens, and teaching the gospel to your children. Regardless of what stage of motherhood you're in, I know you will find Abbie's wisdom in this episode true gold! You can order M.Is.For.Mama anywhere books are sold! https://amzn.to/3AQWXBd Follow Abbie and learn more from her here: https://www.instagram.com/m.is.for.mama/ https://misformama.net/

Jan 25, 2022 • 48min
143: Getting Rid of Our Smartphones . . . for good! (How it's been going
Today we are talking about what convinced us to be an iphone-free family and how that practically looks for us on a day-in and day-out basis!
Because social media is a leg of our business, we talk a lot about the different factors that influenced us via apps. But in this podcast Elisha touches on some of the other reasons he got rid of his phone a year and a half ago . . . even after he deleted his personal social media accounts!Youtube. Random Google searches. The weather. Tasks. Reminders. Email. Blurry work/home boundaries. Sports team updates. Being constantly accessible by everyone and everything at ANYTIME . . . it's not a part of our life anymore. I'm so thankful for the new rest and peace we didn't think was possible in a 21st century home, and we're excited to continue questioning "necessary evils" and determine if they are truly necessary. Of course, smartphones have greatly blessed us as tools and resources (we have no personal convictions against technology) and they may be in our home again in the future. But we found the ability to efficiently and instantly shop, research, communicate and interact with the entire world in the cracks of our day became more of a curse than a blessing.So far, intentionality and a slower pace of life has only enriched our home. We are thankful for fewer options, decisions, distractions, and opinions in 2022.

Jan 18, 2022 • 36min
142: How To Make Your Spouse Fall More In Love With You // Interview With Trey And Lea of Stronger Marriages
Trey And Lea from Stronger Marriages unloaded nugget after nugget and their experience of coaching over 2,000 couples really showed.
Check out all of the amazing resources Trey and Lea have available at https://strongermarriageworkshops.com/Welcome/
We LOVE all of the free content that Trey and Lea put out on their various platforms. We've listed and linked them below.
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stronger-marriage-podcast-with-trey-lea/id1497029410
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stronger_marriages/?hl=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TreyAndLea

Jan 11, 2022 • 42min
141: Why We Started Taking A Sabbath
Our Sabbath rest has been such a blessing in our home we're excited to share why we started taking one, what that looks like for our family, what is "allowed" and not "allowed" and how to practically rest with four toddlers and the mundane tasks of a household pausing for 24 hours! We'll do a Q&A at the end as to why we chose Saturday as our Sabbath day instead of Sunday, and whether or not we plan on celebrating other Jewish holidays. Side note: When I mentioned "communion" in this episode it was referring to the special bread and wine the Jewish community uses for their Shabbat dinners reminding me of communion in Christian services. Clearly, it's not communion. :) JOIN THE TOP 5 TUESDAY NEWSLETTER! (Elisha is hilarious . . . I promise you won't regret it.)https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/top-5-tuesday-newletter

Jan 4, 2022 • 34min
140: Going From Brokenness To Leading // Interview With Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes is a Christian author, speaker, and the founder of Dad Tired, a non-profit ministry focused on equipping men to lead their family well. He is the best-selling author of “Dad Tired & Loving It” and the host of the weekly Dad Tired Podcast, downloaded over 3+ million times by men from around the world.
-Listen to the Dad Tired Podcast Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dad-tired/id1090567756
-You can check out the plethora of resources that Jerrad has available at https://www.dadtired.com/
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