
Lust is Boring
Lust is Boring is hosted by Jason Evert, a bestselling author of more than fifteen books, including The Dating Blueprint and How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. Listen as Jason interviews special guests and delivers straight answers to tough questions submitted by the listeners on dating, singleness, marriage, and sexuality.
Latest episodes

May 20, 2021 • 1h 15min
46. Modest Is Not Hottest w/ Leah Darrow
In this episode, Jason Evert interviews Leah Darrow, a former contestant on America's Next Top Model. Leah shares the story of her dramatic conversion experience and how women can live out their love for faith and fashion together. In this show, she and Jason answer: Why is "Modest is Hottest" the wrong message? Why are women so resistant to the message of modesty? What is male modesty? If a guy has a bad imagination, shouldn't that be his problem? What is modesty, beyond clothing? How can you know what's modest? What can a woman do if she can't find modest outfits? How can you start over? And more... Leah Darrow: https://www.leahdarrow.com Listen to the podcast at https://chastity.com/podcast/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Visit https://www.chastity.com

May 13, 2021 • 1h 6min
45. Ask Fr. Mike Schmitz Anything!
On this week’s episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews Fr. Mike Schmitz on YouTube live, as the two tackle a wide array of questions on dating, vocations, and sexual ethics, including: How can I discuss masturbation with my adolescent? How can I discern my vocation? Why does the Church allow NFP? How can a wife explain to her husband why porn isn’t “normal?” Is it okay for a girl to make the first move? What’s wrong with In Vitro Fertilization? What do you think about unfair female gender stereotypes? And lots more…. Register for the Catholic Love Life Conference THIS WEEKEND, May 14-16: https://go.virtualcatholicconference.com/lovelife Listen to the podcast at https://chastity.com/podcast/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Visit https://www.chastity.com

Apr 15, 2021 • 56min
44. Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati and Chastity
Join Jason Evert, Wanda Gawronska (the niece of Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati), and Fr. David Bellusci, O.P., as they reply to questions from young adults and the JP2 Project. Together, the trio discuss: How can young adults practice the virtue of chastity? What was Blessed Pier Giorgio’s deepest passion? What do Pier Giorgio’s personal letters tell us about his struggles? What’s a person to do if he or she keeps failing at chastity? What’s the latest on Pier Giorgio’s canonization process? How can a dating couple strive together to be saints? And more… JP2 Project: https://jp2project.org Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity

Apr 8, 2021 • 1h 8min
43. I’m not "Gay," I’m Loved.
Manny Gonzalez joins Jason Evert in this episode of Lust is Boring, sharing how he discovered—as a man who experiences same-sex attractions—why living out the Church’s teachings on chastity is the sure way to happiness. Together they discuss: · Are Gay-Straight Alliances helpful or hurtful? · Should people try to “pray the gay away”? · What does authentic masculinity look like for men who experience homosexual desires? · How can you persevere in chastity when everyone tells you it’s just a phase? · How can leaders in the Church more effectively reach out to individuals who identify as LGBT+? · And more Connect with Manny on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callmemannyyy/?hl=en Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/lustisboring

Apr 1, 2021 • 33min
42. Ask Jason Anything #3
Listeners sent in the questions, now hear the answers. In this episode of the Lust is Boring podcast, Jason replies to a variety of questions from you, including: Why can’t gays marry if infertile heterosexuals can? How do you know when it’s time to get engaged? How would you counter a sex-ed teacher who is promoting safe sex? How do you tell the person you’re dating that you’re saving sex for marriage? Why does the church preach abstinence if no one really listens? And more… Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity

Mar 25, 2021 • 58min
41. Idolizing Virginity w/ Rachael Gieger
Is your virginity the greatest gift you can give someone in marriage? You might be surprised by our answer! In this live broadcast of the Lust is Boring podcast, Jason Evert interviews Rachael Gieger about her recent blog on the topic and the impact of "Purity Culture." Together, they explain why you’re not valuable because of your virginity, but rather your sexuality is valuable because of you! In this episode, we unpack the seven negative effects of Idolizing Virginity: Leaves non-virgins feeling as if they’re damaged goods. Contributes to the myth that virginity = purity Contributes to the myth that the absence of virginity = the absence of purity Puts undue emphasis (and blame) on women Exacerbates feelings of betrayal between potential future spouses Contributes to reverse objectification Can lead to feelings of anxiety or frigidity within marriage Idolizing Virginity Blog: https://www.magdalaministries.org/blog/idolizing-virginity Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Come with us on Pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/

Mar 18, 2021 • 60min
40. The Thorn: 7 Effects of Suffering & Temptation w/ Devin Schadt
Have you ever begged God to take away a particular cross or vice, and yet it never seems to leave? What if the very thing you think is leading you away from God is actually leading you to Him! In this episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews the author and founder of The Fathers of Saint Joseph, Devin Schadt. Together, they explore: The 7 surprising effects of temptation and suffering Why our world needs St. Joseph now more than ever How Saint Joseph shows men how to be fathers and husbands Why devotion to Saint Joseph can help us overcome temptations Fathers of Saint Joseph: https://fathersofstjoseph.org Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity

Mar 11, 2021 • 53min
39. Jason & Crystalina: Relationship Q&A
Jason and Crystalina are back to answer a host of dating, marriage, and parenting questions in this Lust is Boring podcast, including: How do you break up with someone who you don’t want to hurt? Is it ok to date a non-Catholic? Could God ever send us a partner who’s not as spiritually mature as us? How can you distinguish a mature love from a superficial one? What should I say if my daughter wants me to approve of her bad relationship? What is a good age to date? How do you tell a guy to stop when you’re going too far? How come a guy will act interested in a girl, but after they sleep together, he acts like he doesn’t know her? Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity

Mar 4, 2021 • 16min
38. Saint Joseph, Guardian of the Virgin: A Meditation
In this year of Saint Joseph, take fifteen minutes to contemplate him as the “Guardian of the Virgin.” In this unique episode, rekindle your devotion to this great saint, discover new insights about his love for the Virgin Mary, and even learn how to debunk the false claims that Mary had other children. Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Feb 25, 2021 • 49min
37. Jason & Crystalina: LIVE Q&A
Jason and Crystalina go LIVE for this episode of the Lust is Boring podcast, answering a wide variety of questions from listeners, such as: How do you deal with jealousy? Is sex OK if you’re planning to marry? What if a guy thinks you’re too independent for him? How do you heal a broken heart? Where can I find a good Catholic woman? How can guys avoid coming on too strong? Is it wrong to use secular dating advice? How do you keep boundaries without feeling guilty? How can you love your husband better? Is it ever okay to cohabit? Where does the bible say sex before marriage is bad? Go with us on pilgrimage: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support Us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Hallow 14-days free: https://hallow.com/lustisboring/ Covenant Eyes: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity