

Stand Firm Parents
Stand Firm Ministries
Christian parents do everything they can to help their children come to faith and follow in that faith, but statistically we are failing miserably—most children raised in church and Christian homes leave the faith by age twenty-two and often before that. It's time for a change. It's time to flip the script. Stand Firm Parents is doing just that. Pastor and author Jake McCandless has been on a unique journey of helping believers across the world stand firm in their faith for the past ten years. Before the radical changes to life and especially church in 2020, Jake had been encouraging believers to prepare so that they would just survive but strive in difficulty. This journey has led to relationships around the world, learning from the persecuted church, and learning from the leading experts on the topic. Jake now brings that unexpected journey full circle to help families have a faith that lasts. Stand Firm Parents goes against the grain presenting parenting with a fresh perspective that has the end game in mind. Join the community and embark on a journey of seeking the answers that will help our children develop a faith that lasts as new episodes drop bi-monthly.
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Nov 7, 2025 • 21min
Hello to Emotional Health: How Emotional Awareness Can Go Too Far
Emotional health matters. But when emotional awareness turns into accusation — families start to fracture. In this final episode of the Hello to Emotional Health series, Jake McCandless delivers a needed warning for parents trying to navigate a generation fluent in therapy language but starved for truth. More and more young adults are embracing a "therapeutic gospel" — one that redefines pain, boundaries, and even relationships through self-diagnosis instead of Scripture. Jake calls Christian parents to hold the line with both grace and truth. This isn't a rejection of emotional health — it's a reset. Emotional maturity and faith aren't opposites; they were designed to work together. When we anchor our emotions in God's Word, we find balance, healing, and the strength to disciple the next generation. 🎧 Listen to the full finale now. 👣 Take your next step as a parent: Parents Commit Challenge https://parentscommit.standfirmjake.com/ #StandFirmParents #FaithAndHealing #ChristianParenting

Oct 28, 2025 • 19min
Hello to Emotional Health: The Anxious Generation (Part 2)
Anxiety is rewriting the story of a generation — but it doesn't have to win. In this second half of their conversation, Jake McCandless and licensed therapist Temple Carson go deeper into what parents can actually do to help their kids face anxiety with faith and strength. Temple brings years of clinical experience and ministry insight to talk about what happens after the diagnosis, after the overwhelm — the daily rhythms that shape resilience. This episode is packed with practical tools, spiritual grounding, and real talk for parents who want to lead their kids through anxiety instead of around it. 🎧 Listen to Part 1 here: The Anxious Generation – Part 1 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hello-to-emotional-health-the-anxious-generation-part-1/id1426077556?i=1000732666620 👣 Take the next step: Parents Commit Challenge https://parentscommit.standfirmjake.com/ #StandFirmParents #TheAnxiousGeneration #FaithAndHealing #Parenting #SpiritualResilience #ChristianParenting #GuardYourHeart #ParentsCommit ✅ Temple Carson Bio (for reference) Temple Carson is a Licensed Professional Counselor–Supervisor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist–Supervisor, and Registered Play Therapist–Supervisor. She teaches in the graduate counseling program at John Brown University and has spent years walking alongside children, teens, and parents navigating trauma and anxiety. She's married to Dan Carson, host of the Student Ministry Matters Podcast https://studentministrymatters.podbean.com/.

Oct 20, 2025 • 19min
Hello to Emotional Health: The Anxious Generation (Part 1)
The anxiety epidemic isn't just affecting adults anymore. It's showing up earlier, hitting harder, and shaping how kids see the world. In this episode, Jake McCandless sits down with Temple Carson, a licensed therapist and professor with deep experience walking alongside kids and families. They break down what's driving this rise in anxiety — from cultural pressure to digital overload — and how parents can respond with strength, faith, and practical tools. This isn't just a conversation. It's a call to action. 👉 Parents Commit Challenge: https://parentscommit.standfirmjake.com/ https://parentscommit.standfirmjake.com/ 🎧 Student Ministry Matters Podcast: https://studentministrymatters.podbean.com/https://studentministrymatters.podbean.com/ #StandFirmParents #TheAnxiousGeneration

Oct 1, 2025 • 11min
Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication – Part 2
You've prayed. You've quoted the verses. Maybe you've even gone to counseling. And yet — you still feel off. You're not broken. You're human. In this honest follow-up to Part 1, Jake McCandless gets real about what emotional health looks like for Christians who are tired of pretending they're fine. This isn't about being "fixed." It's about letting God form you into someone who can stand firm when life hits hard. Jake unpacks what Scripture really means when it says to guard your heart and renew your mind. Because emotional health isn't a buzzword — it's discipleship in real time. 💥 Watch Part 1 on YouTube: Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication – Part 1https://youtu.be/LI3200mHkSM?feature=shared 👣 Take the next step: Parents Commit Challenge https://parentscommit.standfirmjake.com/ #FaithAndFeelings #ChristianParenting #StandFirmParents #EmotionalHealth #SpiritualResilience

Sep 24, 2025 • 16min
Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication (Part 1)
Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication – Part 1 Therapy and medication matter. But emotional health is also forged in the ordinary, daily choices we make. In this episode of Stand Firm Parents, host Jake McCandless unpacks how parents can model emotional resilience in real time—when anger hits, when stress rises, when discouragement shows up. Emotional health isn't just about us—it's about the legacy we pass on. 💡 You'll Learn: Why emotional health is about everyday choices, not just therapy How to regulate emotions before they explode Why kids mirror their parents' emotional patterns How faith and emotional health work together in disciple-making 📲 Take the next step: Parents Commit Challenge 🌐 Learn more: StandFirmMinistries.com 💡 Key Takeaways Emotional health is shaped in small, daily decisions. Parents must model regulation, not just talk about it. Kids inherit our reactions—our rhythms become their reflexes. Scripture calls us to take thoughts captive and renew our minds as a daily practice. Discipleship and emotional health are inseparable. 📖 Bible References 2 Corinthians 10:5 – Take every thought captive. Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by renewing your mind. Proverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart, for everything flows from it. Ephesians 6:17 – Helmet of salvation to guard your thoughts.

Sep 16, 2025 • 38min
Hello to Emotional Health: Can Christians Even Talk About It?
Emotional and mental health have been taboo topics in many churches for too long. In this powerful episode of Stand Firm Parents, host Jake McCandless talks with Dr. Mark Dance—pastor, author of Start to Finish, and new Executive Director of the Arkansas Baptist State Convention—to challenge that silence. 💡 What You'll Learn Why emotional health is a biblical priority, not a trend The connection between Sabbath, boundaries, and resilience How to talk about mental health at home with honesty and grace Practical steps to build rhythms that sustain your soul and your family's faith Mark shares his personal journey with depression and the humility it took to ask for help, offering encouragement and practical wisdom for parents and leaders. 🌐 Resources: MarkDance.net | About Mark Start to Finish Book ABSC Announcement StandFirmMinistries.com 💡 Key Takeaways Emotional health is essential for discipleship and leadership. Sabbath, hobbies, and boundaries are God's protective rhythms. Parents modeling emotional honesty create spiritually resilient homes. Wise counsel and therapy are biblical strategies, not last resorts. Healing your own wounds stops generational cycles of pain. 📖 Bible References 1 Timothy 4:16 – Pay close attention to your life and teaching. Proverbs 11:14 – In an abundance of counselors there is safety. Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted. Mark 12:30 – Love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. Isaiah 58:13–14 – Delight in the Sabbath.

Sep 11, 2025 • 27min
Hello to Emotional Health: I Have a Therapist
Faith and therapy aren't enemies—they're partners. In this episode, Jake McCandless talks with therapist Corretta Woodard about: Why wise counsel is biblical Emotional health as the product of mental health Grounding, regulation, and practical tools How healing your wounds shapes your family's future Guest Bio: Corretta Woodard "I'm not perfect. But I'm whole. And I'm here to make sure you know you can be too." Corretta Woodard is a licensed therapist, U.S. Navy veteran, and the founder of The People Place Counseling Center in Bentonville, Arkansas. She's the creator of BalancedME., a faith-fueled course that combines therapeutic tools with biblical wisdom for real-life emotional healing. Coretta also leads the thebestME. community, a sacred online space for women to grow in faith, wellness, boundaries, rhythm, and identity. 💛 Learn more / sign up: 👉 BalancedME. Course 👉 thebestME. Community + Brunch & Bloom events 👉 The People Place Counseling & Wellness 👉 Psychology Today Profile

Sep 5, 2025 • 25min
50th Episode Celebration: The Top Lesson So Far
🎉 50th Episode Celebration: The Top Lesson So Far After 50 powerful episodes, we're pausing to ask: What's the one lesson that's changed everything? In this special celebration episode, Jake McCandless shares the top takeaway from 50 conversations, interviews, and experiences — and how it can reshape your parenting from the inside out. 💡 You'll Learn: The #1 thing your child needs most How to disciple when you feel like a mess Why presence beats performance Jake's most honest parenting moment yet Whether you're new here or have been with us since episode 1, this one's for you.

Aug 29, 2025 • 22min
Persecution is Coming
Persecution Is Coming Guest: Pastor Andrew Brunson, Author of God's Hostage He spent two years in a Turkish prison for preaching Christ. Now he's warning the Church: you're not ready. In this gripping episode, Jake sits down with Pastor Brunson to talk about suffering, faith, and preparing the next generation to endure. 🎧 Listen now. 📘 Get God's Hostage: Buy on Amazon » 🌐 Learn more: andrewandnorinebrunson.com

Aug 22, 2025 • 25min
Real Life Standing Firm
Real Life Standing Firm: Andrew Brunson's Story of Faith Under Fire When persecution isn't just possible but personal—what does faith look like? Dr. Andrew Brunson, falsely imprisoned for over 2 years in Turkey, joins Jake for a vulnerable and bold conversation on: The cost of standing firm Preparing the church for suffering Why parents need to disciple their children for trials—not comfort What he learned about faith in the fire 📚 Book: God's Hostage 🌐 More: wavestarters.org


