Honeydew Me

This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover: Expanding your definition of foreplay How to turn yourself ON Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage How to feel ENTITLED to your needs How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨ Low-stakes ways to initiate sex How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY Connect with Haylin:On her websiteWatch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexpert Tyomi Morgan discusses pet play, a form of animal role play, in kink culture. Topics include engaging in pet play, dom/sub dynamics, props, communication, and dealing with awkward moments. Learn about the transformative impact of adopting pet personas and the importance of communication and boundaries in intimate role play relationships.

Sex educator and coach, Midori, shares her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. She defines BDSM and discusses why being bound is erotic. She covers types of restraints, body parts to restrain, and dominance and rope games. Connect with her via her website or Instagram.

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover: Sexual communication basics How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires Navigating shame around sexual interests How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried How to make these conversations more fun Connect with Stella:On her websiteGet her booksWatch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix, shares tips on being a good domme, setting boundaries, building confidence, and working through shame and embarrassment. They discuss the unexpected poetic nature of dominance, exploring shame and fear, observing emotions, overcoming fear of mistakes in the bedroom, the impact of apologizing when asking for favors, and valuing time and attention.

We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover: Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions All the rules and why we LOVED them The set up of the club What we saw and what we DID Major takeaways and tips for other first timers Watch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover: What cuckolding is and how it all works Why it's a turn-on The different roles in a cuckolding scene How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding Figuring out if cuckolding is for you How to navigate opening your relationship Connect with Jen:jenmeyertherapy.comWatch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect: Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them Positions for threesomes What to do when you're feeling left out IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that What it feels like to be double-penetrated Finding a third Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it Navigating sex parties Being a "good" slut Resources from the episode: betterlover.com ecstaticbirth.com Connect with Susan: susanbratton.com On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover: What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory) Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want What the BENEFITS of polyamory are What polyamorous relationships can look like How sex can work in polyamorous relationships Boundaries, rules and COMMUNICATION Connect with Dr. Liz: Their website Their Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTubeKeep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices