Caring For Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 18Talking to Your Parents About Moving into Retirement LivingDelve into the intricate journey of long-distance caregiving, drawing from my personal experiences while supporting my father through his battle with stage four cancer. This journey opened my eyes to the challenges many face when discussing retirement living options with aging parents. Throughout this episode, I share practical advice on navigating these sensitive conversations with empathy and respect, aiming to preserve dignity and maintain strong relationships.Tackle the hurdles of long-distance caregiving, weighing the financial and logistical aspects of home care versus assisted living. Drawing from my book, "Sensible Senior Solutions," I share effective communication strategies designed to honor your parent's independence while also addressing their fears. Discover how to create win-win scenarios, like encouraging your parents to give up driving without feeling a loss of autonomy, and explore the benefits of retirement living communities.I emphasize the importance of building a supportive network of trusted allies and prioritizing self-care as a caregiver. I also cover how to start the appropriate conversations early, research options in advance, and maintain organized notes for productive discussions.(00:19) - Conversations on Caregiving and Aging(13:11) - Effective Communication Strategies for Caregivers(18:38) - Supporting Aging Parents With DignityPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcareConnect with seniors on the Helperly websitePodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

How to Know It's Time for Senior CarePodcast Episode ScriptIntroduction (2-3 minutes)"Welcome to Caring for Your Aging Parents, I'm Lynn Smargis, and today we're tackling one of the most common questions I get from adult children: How do you know when it's time for senior care?This is such a crucial topic because timing is everything. Wait too long, and you might be facing a crisis. Move too early, and you might face resistance. So today, I'm going to share some real stories and practical guidance to help you navigate this challenge.**The Geographic Challenge (3-4 minutes)*** Many of us live far from our parents now* The world has changed - families are spread out* Distance makes it harder to spot decline* Why daily phone calls aren't enough* Story time: Let me tell you about a client who lived just 10 minutes away...**The Reality Check (4-5 minutes)*** Living nearby isn't always enough protection* Share the story of the client's mother who fell* 24 hours before she was found* The devastating impact of delayed care* Sepsis and long recovery time* The emotional toll on both parent and family**Common Misconceptions (3-4 minutes)*** "My parents take care of each other"* Why this can be dangerous* Story about the couple who both fell* The domino effect of delayed care* What happens when one parent tries to help the other**The Stroke Story (3-4 minutes)*** Share the St. Petersburg story* Eight-hour delay in care* Permanent consequences* How this could have been prevented* The five-minute response time in assisted living**Warning Signs to Watch For (5-6 minutes)*** Physical decline    - Mobility issues    - Balance problems    - Recent falls* Cognitive changes    - Memory issues    - Confusion with daily tasks    - Getting lost in familiar places* Personal care decline    - Hygiene issues    - Household maintenance    - Medication management* Emotional changes    - Depression    - Isolation    - Mood swings**The Holiday Wake-Up Call (3-4 minutes)*** What you might notice during visits* Why phone calls can be deceiving* The "I'm fine" syndrome* What to look for when you visit* How to assess the situation objectively**Modern Senior Living (3-4 minutes)*** Not your grandmother's nursing home* The cruise ship analogy* Activities and social life* Medical support available* Quality of life improvements**Action Steps for Listeners (2-3 minutes)*** Start looking at options before crisis hits* Research communities in advance* Understand wait times can be 6+ months* Get on waiting lists if needed* Have the conversation earlyClosing (2-3 minutes)"Before we wrap up today, I want to emphasize that seeking senior care isn't giving up – it's often giving your parents a better quality of life with more social interaction and immediate access to help when needed. If you're seeing any of the warning signs we discussed today, don't wait for a crisis. Start exploring your options now.If you need help assessing your situation or finding senior care options in your area, you can reach me at 503-830-1812 or visit my website at [website]. And don't forget to subscribe to this podcast for more tips and guidance on caring for your aging parents.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 16A Son's Journey: Navigating Parkinson's Caregiving and AdvocacyIn this heartfelt episode, we delve into the inspiring journey of George, a dedicated caregiver who supported his mother through a 15-year battle with Parkinson's disease. George candidly shares the emotional and practical challenges he faced, from the early symptoms to later stages marked by delusions and hallucinations. His story is a powerful testament to resilience and the impact of Parkinson's on patients and their caregivers.Join us as we explore how George transformed his grief into advocacy, creating "Together for Sharon" in memory of his mother. He emphasizes the significance of raising awareness and educating communities about Parkinson's, drawing inspiration from figures like Michael J. Fox. George also discusses his transition from caregiver to author, offering insights from his book "A Son's Journey," which captures the essence of his experiences and cherished memories.George sheds light on his upcoming project focused on educating law enforcement about Parkinson's symptoms. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize self-care and contribute to the collective efforts in the ongoing fight against Parkinson's. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that reminds us of the strength found in shared experiences and the ongoing journey toward hope and action.(00:19) Caring for Parents With Parkinson's(11:54) Celebrating Advocates in Parkinson's Fight(16:16) Global Parkinson's Advocacy Through Books(28:54) Continuing the Fight Against Parkinson'sPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePlan your senior loved one’s care with my new book Sensible Senior SolutionsPodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 15Navigating Senior Care Planning with ConfidenceJoin us for an insightful episode from Pacific Northwest Senior Care, where we delve into caregiving through proactive planning. Discover how my new book, "Sensible Senior Solutions," can transform the challenging journey of caring for aging parents into a manageable and compassionate experience.Let me guide you through the crucial aspects of anticipating health conditions, assessing daily routines, and understanding future care needs. Learn how to effectively communicate with healthcare providers and explore the benefits of hiring certified dementia practitioners for empathetic care. I also clarify the differences between palliative and hospice care, highlighting their roles in managing complex symptoms and providing emotional support.Gain practical advice on accessing essential services, navigating Medicare, and ensuring legal paperwork is in place. This episode equips caregivers with the confidence and resources needed to handle the intricacies of senior care. I also offer compassionate strategies and a comprehensive approach to make caregiving less stressful and more fulfilling.Whether you're a seasoned caregiver or just starting your journey, this episode will empower you to provide the best care possible for your loved ones. Tune in to embrace the journey of senior care with confidence and compassion.(13:22) - Understanding Healthcare Planning for Seniors(17:26) - Understanding Palliative and Hospice Care(21:37) - Proactive Planning for Senior CarePodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePlan your senior loved one’s care with my new book Sensible Senior SolutionsPodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 14Top Misconceptions Surrounding Senior LivingJoin us for an enlightening episode as we challenge common misconceptions about senior living. Discover how modern retirement communities are vibrant hubs of independence, offering an array of activities and meaningful social connections. I’ll share insights on the extensive amenities available, from art studios and music classes to convenient transportation and luxury personal care facilities, redefining what it means to thrive in retirement.Let’s explore the crucial role these communities play in nurturing emotional, mental, and physical well-being. Learn about engaging cultural initiatives like weekly professor-led talks and fun social activities such as themed barbecues and walking groups. Learn how bundled pricing offers financial predictability, freeing seniors from caregiving burdens and allowing them to pursue new skills and friendships.Whether you're seeking guidance on senior care placement or exploring housing options, Lynn provides valuable advice and real-life stories to help you navigate these important decisions with confidence. Don't miss the opportunity to transform your understanding of senior living and uncover the joy and enrichment these communities can offer.For personalized support, reach out through my website, and embark on a transformative journey in senior living.(12:16) - Retirement Community Amenities and Activities(19:06) - Senior Living Amenities and Options(28:13) - Benefits of Senior Living Communities(34:09) - Senior Care Placement Services OfferedPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePlan your senior loved one’s care with my new book Sensible Senior SolutionsPodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 13Embracing the GEMS Model: Transformative Strategies for Compassionate Dementia Care with Teepa SnowIn this insightful conversation, Teepa offers practical strategies for navigating the complexities of dementia care. She highlights the importance of adapting caregiver expectations, fostering compassionate relationships, and addressing challenging behaviors with empathy and understanding.Teepa has worked with those living with a wide variety of neurodivergent conditions. Her philosophy of care is reflective of her education, work experience, medical research, academic instruction, and first-hand caregiving experiences. She has been an advocate in dementia care and has developed the GEMS® State Model for understanding the progression of brain change along with the Positive Approach to Care® training strategies, which are effective techniques for anyone seeking to optimize care and support for those living with neurocognitive degeneration. Positive Approach to Care (PAC) improves care for those living with neurodivergent conditions. PAC provides services, training, and products to organizations, professionals, family members, the lay public, and people living with brain change.Listeners will gain valuable insights into recognizing the communication needs and physical limitations of those with dementia. Teepa’s strategies, such as using visual cues and gentle guidance, offer a roadmap for more effective caregiving. Additionally, the episode introduces the Gems Workbook, a resource to aid caregivers on their journey.Teepa’s wisdom and the GEMS model provide essential tools for crafting connections and maintaining dignity and respect for individuals with dementia. Tune in for an episode filled with transformative strategies for compassionate dementia care.(03:36) - The Gems Model of Dementia Care(09:14) - Exploring Dementia Through Gemstone States(16:00) - Understanding and Navigating Dementia Care(25:32) - Understanding Dementia Through Gemstone States(30:41) - Caregiving for Dementia and ParentingPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePlan your senior loved one’s care with my new book Sensible Senior SolutionsPurchase the The GEMS Model Workbook which comes with a bonus video series!Dementia care resources for family and friends

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 12Recognizing Dementia Symptoms in Aging Parents: A Guide for the Holiday SeasonGet ready for an insightful episode, where we explore the critical topic of recognizing dementia symptoms in aging parents, especially during the holiday season. With families gathering around during the Christmas and winter holidays, these weeks become an opportune time to observe any changes in your loved ones and address potential concerns.In this episode, find out how to distinguish between normal aging and early signs of dementia, such as significant memory loss, difficulty with familiar tasks, and mood changes. Understanding these differences is vital, as early detection can lead to more effective management. I always emphasize the importance of consulting specialists like neurologists or gerontologists for proper diagnosis, steering clear of general practitioners for such specific evaluations.We also talk about the importance of caregivers prioritizing their well-being, offering practical advice on maintaining balance while managing caregiving responsibilities. For those seeking further guidance, grab my new book, Sensible Senior Solutions, available on Amazon, as a comprehensive resource for navigating elder care challenges.Look forward to expert insights in future episodes, including a special guest appearance by dementia specialist Teepa Snow. As the holiday season approaches, empower yourself with knowledge and strategies to support your loved ones effectively while taking care of yourself.(00:20) Recognizing Dementia Symptoms in Parents(11:04) Identifying Warning Signs of Dementia(19:36) Early Detection and Care for DementiaPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcareRequest a delirium/dementia/depression tri-fold card by contacting Julie.Moore@va.govFor more information on dementia go to http://www.va.gov/geriatrics/brainPodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 11How Assisted Living Empowers Aging ParentsWhat if assisted living could actually enhance your aging parent's independence rather than limit it? Join me, Lynn Smargis, on this enlightening episode of Caring for Your Aging Parents, where we shatter common misconceptions about assisted living facilities. These communities are designed with the goal of fostering an active and engaged lifestyle for seniors. From offering assistance with daily activities like dressing and medication management to organizing social and recreational events such as book clubs and scenic tours, assisted living provides a supportive environment that promotes both independence and a higher quality of life for your loved ones.Discover the multitude of benefits that assisted living offers, especially for seniors who have experienced falls. We'll discuss how these communities provide comprehensive care, a built-in social network, and 24-hour emergency assistance, all of which contribute to peace of mind and potentially lower overall costs compared to staying in a paid-off home. As a caregiver, your well-being is crucial too, and we'll explore why prioritizing self-care is essential for providing the best care possible. Reach out to me for resources and guidance, including finding a senior advisor in your area. Tune in for valuable insights and practical advice to support you on your caregiving journey.(00:23) Assisted Living Maintains Senior Independence(10:50) Benefits of Assisted Living for Seniors(15:37) Support for Caregivers in Finding ResourcesPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 10Real Estate Solutions for Funding Long Term Senior Care with Rachel CookUnlock the secrets to funding long-term care through real estate with our guest Rachel Cook, whose inspiring story will leave you motivated and informed. Discover how Rachel's family overcame financial challenges after a traumatic accident left her mother disabled, requiring extensive and costly nursing care. Learn the strategies they used, from settlements and social security benefits to smart real estate investments, to ensure Rachel's mother received the best possible care as her health declined.Generating Long Term Care Income from Real Estate RentalsIn this episode, Rachel shares her hands-on experience with generating income through Airbnb rentals, a faster alternative to traditional real estate investments. Hear about her journey managing a riverside cottage, from selecting the perfect location to balancing upfront costs and quality to attract steady bookings. Rachel's practical advice on maintaining short-term rental properties and securing reliable income streams is invaluable for anyone looking to support long-term care needs through real estate ventures.Lastly, Rachel provides essential tips on managing and scaling vacation rental properties as a serious business. Gain insights into researching local demand, setting strategic pricing, and building repeat clientele to maximize profits. Plus, learn about the importance of robust business systems and financial planning to secure long-term funding for senior care. Rachel's no-nonsense approach offers a wealth of knowledge for both business owners and caregivers striving to navigate the complexities of long-term care funding. Don’t miss this enriching conversation with Rachel Cook that blends personal experience with expert advice.(04:45 - 05:30) Financing Full-Time Nursing Care(08:30 - 10:26) Cash Flow Strategies for Long-Term Care(18:05 - 18:59) Comparison of Airbnb and VRBO Fees(25:14 - 26:17) Real Estate Investing StrategiesPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcareFind out more about Racheal’s CEO CoachingFollow Racheal on InstagramPodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

Caring for Your Aging ParentsSeason 02 Episode 09The Benefits of Using a Senior AdvisorDiscover the invaluable role of senior advisors as Lynn walks you through the critical stages, from understanding your loved one's medical needs and lifestyle preferences to the intricacies of facility availability and care types. Learn how a senior advisor ensures that every aspect—from pet accommodations to desired amenities—aligns perfectly with your parent's unique requirements, whether they need independent living, assisted living, or memory care.Join us for an insightful journey into the myriad benefits of partnering with a senior advisor. Lynn shares her expertise on everything from scheduling and attending tours to navigating contracts and ensuring a smooth transition post-move-in. You'll also gain insider tips on why timing your tours is crucial and how these professional services are typically covered by the retirement communities themselves. Tune in to learn about the extra value offered by certified senior advisors, especially those with specialized certifications in dementia care, and make the best-informed decisions for your aging loved ones.(00:21) Finding a Senior Advisor for Retirement(06:16) Benefits of Using a Senior AdvisorPodcast Resources Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTubeVisit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging ParentsCaring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest SeniorcarePodcast disclaimerThe information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.