The Next Big Idea

Hook-ups, sexting, friends with benefits, ubiquitous porn — sometimes it seems like boys today are growing up in a world of easy sex and mindless gratification. But sit down and talk to them and you get a different story. Rufus speaks with Peggy Orenstein, who interviewed hundreds of boys about how they navigate a minefield of sexual rules and expectations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lydia Denworth, a journalist and author, dives into the fascinating science behind friendship and its crucial role in our lives. She reveals insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, highlighting how friendships contribute to happiness and longevity. Denworth explores the impact of social media on our relationships, showcasing both its potential downsides and its ability to strengthen bonds. Additionally, she addresses the challenges of fostering adult friendships and emphasizes that meaningful connections, regardless of age, are vital for emotional and physical well-being.

We all face fork-in-the-road moments in our lives. In his 2005 bestseller “Blink,” Next Big Idea Club curator (and this episode’s guest interviewer) Malcolm Gladwell famously argued that snap judgments can be just as effective as meticulous planning. In this lively conversation, author Steven Johnson (“Farsighted”) disagrees, arguing that big, complex decisions require careful thought and scenario-building. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the cacophony of modern life, it can seem that talking, scoring points, and being heard are more important than paying attention to what others have to say. But journalist Kate Murphy says listening — really listening — can strengthen our ties to the people closest to us and create new connections in our lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Neuroscientist and musician Daniel Levitin challenges age stereotypes in 'Successful Aging'. He discusses keys to a fulfilling older life, cultural perceptions of aging, and inspires with stories of late-life success. The podcast also delves into memory decline myths and emotional well-being in older age.

For the grand finale of our stay-at-home miniseries, Rufus talks about work-life balance, the future of education, and the addictive nature of generosity with author, podcaster, and Next Big Idea Club curator Adam Grant. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In “The Art of Gathering,” conflict resolution specialist Priya Parker writes that “Every gathering is an opportunity to create a world we wish existed.” But sometimes we have to make do with the world we’ve got. She tells Rufus that we don’t have to be in the same place to come together in meaningful ways. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kickstarter co-founder Yancey Strickler has never felt comfortable with an economic system that values short-term profits over long-term human needs. In a quarantine conversation with host Rufus Griscom, he shares his ideas for moving from a me/now world to one that cares about us and the future. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How will the pandemic change the way we organize our days? Our sense of purpose? Our commitments to others? So many questions! Who better to answer than Next Big Idea Club curator Daniel Pink, author of six books about motivation, leadership, and the changing nature of work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Last season, author/designer Ingrid Fetell Lee taught us about joy spotting. It’s the practice of going out into the world and finding ordinary objects that make you feel extraordinarily happy. But what about when you can’t leave the house? Well, it turns out joy lurks in all sorts of unexpected places — you just have to know where to look. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices