

Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck Less
Misty Stinnett & Lisa Linke
Self-help feels like a bit of a dumpster fire, doesn't it? Whether you've binged every self-help book out there or are just getting started in your journey – Go Help Yourself is your source for calling bullsh*t on toxic positivity, turning your existential dread into actual growth, and getting it together without losing your soul (or sense of humor) in the process. Misty loves self-help and is earnestly trying to improve her life, while Lisa hates anyone telling her what to do. Together, we bring a much-needed critical eye (and healthy dose of humor) to the wildly-unregulated world of self-help, sharing what we learn along the way. Because we believe that, even though life is hard, personal development doesn’t have to be. Welcome to your podcast to make life suck less!
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May 29, 2020 • 1h 14min
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner
This week Lisa and Misty cover the renowned classic and New York Times bestseller The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner. Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, contributor to psychoanalytic concepts regarding family and feminist theory and therapy, and the author of many books. From 1972 to 2001 she was a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic in Topeka, Kansas, and a faculty member and supervisor in the Karl Menninger School of Psychiatry. During this time she published extensively on the psychology of women and family relationships, revising traditional psychoanalytic concepts to reflect feminist and family systems perspectives. In this Dance of Anger book review, Lisa and Misty cover the chapters in this 2014 edition: New Introduction to the 2014 Edition THE CHALLENGE OF ANGER OLD MOVES, NEW MOVES, AND COUNTERMOVES CIRCULAR DANCES IN COUPLES: When Getting Angry Is Getting Nowhere ANGER AT OUR IMPOSSIBLE MOTHERS USING ANGER AS A GUIDE: The Road to a Clearer Self UP AND DOWN THE GENERATIONS WHO’S RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT: The Trickiest Anger Question THINKING IN THREES: Stepping Out of Family Triangles TASKS FOR THE DARING AND COURAGEOUS EPILOGUE: Beyond Self-Help If you want to know more about the author, visit her website. If you like what you’re hearing, you can buy the book here. And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 26, 2020 • 33min
GHY Minisode 071
This week, Misty is joined by very special guests Frank and Matt who had their house tidied by Marie Kondo! If you'd like to watch their episode of Tidying Up with Marie Kondo, check it out on Netflix; it's episode 5. You can find Frank on instagram @Frank.Arthur.Smith and on Twitter @FAS4US And you can find Matt on instagram @Matt__Hartman And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 22, 2020 • 59min
Love Is Not Enough by Mark Manson
This week, Lisa and Misty cover Love Is Not Enough by Mark Manson. Here is a bit about the author in his own words, right from this audible original: "My name is Mark Manson. I’m the New York Times bestselling author of THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK and EVERYTHING IS FUCKED: A BOOK ABOUT HOPE. Most people don’t know this about me, but before Subtle Art took off and I became a huge, fancy author, I primarily gave relationship advice. 12 years ago, I started a blog. It was a blog about my own dating life. I didn’t expect anyone other than my guy friends to read it. I just wanted a place where I could write out some of my own confused experiences and figure out what the hell I was doing wrong. To my surprise, other young men started following along and reaching out to me. As it turned out, they had similar issues and insecurities as I did. They asked questions, and being a good little blogger, I went in search for answers. Those answers brought more readers and more questions, which brought more answers, and more readers, and so on. Fast forward seven years and I was making a full-time living writing relationship advice to millions of readers across the world. It was like I was the millennial Dear Abby who happened to say 'fuck' a lot.” Well, there you have it folks. We cover every chapter in this Love Is Not Enough book review: The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of Pain Boundaries Power Struggles Choosing Reality Over Fantasy Vulnerability The Courage to Be Loved Simple but Difficult If you like what you're hearing, you can grab the book here or check out the author's website here. And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 19, 2020 • 29min
GHY Minisode 070
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty shares an article from The New York Times about Why You Should Stop Being so Hard on Yourself. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 15, 2020 • 47min
For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank (Part Two)
This week, Lisa and Misty bring you the second part of For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank. Liz Plank is an award-winning journalist and the Executive Producer of several critically acclaimed series at Vox Media. Liz was ranked as one of the 50 most influential women by Marie Claire and was named one of Forbes' 30 Under 30 in Media. Before becoming a journalist, Liz worked as a researcher and behavioral science consultant at the London School of Economics, from which she holds a master's degree in policy with an emphasis in global gender politics. In the final part of this For the Love of Men book review, Lisa and Misty cover Part II: PART II. I Love Men The Great Suppression Bromance Amuse-bouche: Glen’s Story Waffles Are His Love Language The Mancession If Patriarchy Is So Great, Why Is It Making You Die? The Making of Men Compassion As the Antidote to Hate Conclusion: The Case for Mindful Masculinity If you’d like to learn more about the author, you can visit her website. If you like what you’re hearing, you can buy the book here. And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 12, 2020 • 20min
GHY Minisode 069
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty shares an article from The New York Times about The Case for Doing Nothing. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 8, 2020 • 50min
For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank (Part One)
This week Lisa and Misty cover For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank – the first of a two-parter! Elizabeth Plank is an award-winning journalist and the Executive Producer of several critically acclaimed series at Vox Media. Liz was ranked as one of the 50 most influential women by Marie Claire and was named one of Forbes' 30 Under 30 in Media. Before becoming a journalist, Liz worked as a researcher and behavioral science consultant at the London School of Economics, from which she holds a master's degree in policy with an emphasis in global gender politics. In the first part of this For The Love of Men book review, we cover Part I: PART I. The Lies We Tell About Men You’re Not Born a Man Manhood Is Never Fully Earned and Needs to Be Renewed Over and Over Again Masculinity Is Under Attack Men Are Slaves to Their Bodies and Their Nether Regions Men Don’t Need Intimacy Male Shame: What Is It Like to Feel Like You Need to Prove Something You Never Quite Feel Like You Have? Tune in next week for the second part of the book! If you’d like to learn more about the author, you can visit her website here. If you like what you’re hearing, you can buy the book here. And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 5, 2020 • 15min
GHY Minisode 068
On this episode of the Weekly Beef, Lisa asks Misty a thought-provoking question: if you had to choose between self-help or self-care, which would you pick?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 1, 2020 • 47min
The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss
This week, we cover the #1 New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and BusinessWeek bestseller The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss. Tim Ferriss has been listed as one of Fast Company’s “Most Innovative Business People” and one of Fortune’s “40 under 40.” He is an early-stage technology investor/advisor (Uber, Facebook, Shopify, Duolingo, Alibaba, and 50+ others) and the author of five #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers, including The 4-Hour Workweek and Tools of Titans: The Tactics, Routines, and Habits of Billionaires, Icons, and World-Class Performers. The Observer and other media have called Tim “the Oprah of audio” due to the influence of The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, which is the first business/interview podcast to exceed 100 million downloads. It has now exceeded 400 million downloads. We share something from every section in this 4-Hour Workweek book review! If you like what you're hearing, you can buy the book here or visit the author's website here. And if you haven't already, please subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 28, 2020 • 13min
GHY Minisode 067
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty reads an article from McSweeney's about 17 real-life would-you-rathers.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands