

The Addicted Mind Podcast
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
"The Addicted Mind Podcast" offers hope, understanding, and guidance for those dealing with addiction, with real stories and research to inspire and show the journey to recovery is worth it.We're here to do more than just talk about addiction. We want to show you how to heal and recover.Our talks with experts and people who have beaten addiction give you important insights into how addiction affects the mind and how recovery can happen in many ways. Whether we're looking at new treatment ideas or sharing stories that inspire, "The Addicted Mind Podcast" is all about understanding the complex world of addiction recovery and showing that recovery is possible.If you or someone you care about is dealing with the challenges of addiction, let "The Addicted Mind Podcast" be your friend and guide. We aim to give you the knowledge you need, share stories that inspire you, and show you that the journey to recovery is worth it.Subscribe now to be part of a community focused on learning, healing, and changing for the better. Your journey to a healthier mind and life begins right here.
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Sep 19, 2017 • 23min
09: How Motivational Interviewing Changes the Brain with Dr. Tony Mele
As therapists, we hear about Motivational Interviewing (MI) all the time. It's a technique that therapists can use to bring forward the ambivalence that a person with an addiction has, towards resolving that addiction. It's well regarded and it's a fairly well-researched intervention for people with addictions, but still, a lot of the people looking for treatment, or even those who have been in treatment, don't really seem to know what it is, or why we would use it in a treatment setting. Today's guest, Dr Tony Mele, is the Chief Clinical Officer at Sovereign Health. He's on the show today because he came to our agency recently and did an incredible training on Motivational Interviewing, where he was able to really go in depth and look at how Motivational Interviewing actually works with the brain, to bring about change. Listen in to find out more about what Motivational Interviewing is all about and how it can be used effectively, within the treatment setting. Show highlights:
Dr Mele gives some important information about Motivational Interviewing.
Dr Mele explains the ambivalence within people with addictions.
Many people with addictions will describe a loss, when asked about what life without addiction would be like for them.
MI could be described as a language, to help the patient to begin looking at their own behaviour differently.
Dr Mele describes in practical terms, how one would converse with a patient, using MI to bring their contradictions to the forefront.
Dr Mele explains cognitive dissonance, which you will wind up facing, as a therapist using MI.
If cognitive dissonance doesn't come up in therapy, you will maintain the addiction, so as a therapist, you want the patient to feel the discomfort that it brings.
Working with the patient in the decision-making process.
The link between the emotional centre (the amygdala) and the memory centre (the hippocampus) in the brain.
Addiction produces a positive feeling, so as a therapist, you need to help the people to begin to think differently.
How MI differs from the 'old school' treatment.
Dopamine and addicted behaviour.
The assumptions that are associated with the MI technique.
There is a fair amount of cognitive skill, which is required on the part of the patient, to effectively use MI.
Some examples of Motivational Interviewing questions.
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Sep 12, 2017 • 41min
08: Combat Veterans: Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and Addiction with Dr. Jessica Naughton
Welcome back to The Addicted Mind podcast. This week, we are talking with Dr. Jessica Naughton, a Clinical Psychologists who has years of experience working with combat veterans dealing with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Many veterans struggle with addiction that also suffer from PTSD. Now we know that PTSD can be one of the underlying causes of substance abuse since addictions spring up as a way to deal with PTSD symptoms. So how can we care for veterans as they navigate PTSD symptoms? The good news is that the stigma around mental health disorders is rapidly changing. Now more than ever before, there are people like Dr. Naughton who have the resources to help veterans and their unique experiences of trauma and addiction. Help is here! Listen to see just how much we can do for our Veternas.
We talk a lot about PTSD, but what exactly is it?
Trauma for combat veterans cannot be processed in the moment.
Symptoms were actually an adaptive change to help veterans survive.
Diving in on why certain people deal with PTSD and others do not.
Treatment is becoming less stigmatized.
Dr. Naughton explains why trauma focused and addiction focused therapy is a delicate balance.
Learn the difference between exposure and cognitive therapy treatments.
If you or a Veteran you know is struggling, go to the VA. They have the resources and the systems in place to help you.
If you are a Veteran struggling with PTSD, please reach out to The Veteran’s Crisis Line at https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/ The Crisis Line Phone number is1-800-273-8255 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 5, 2017 • 23min
07: Quitting Addiction is Like Giving Up a Lover with Stephen Buckbee
Anyone who has worked in the field of addiction recovery will know that recovery is a long road, and often we as therapists and counselors will need to find ways to engage our client’s sense of thought and endurance. The work of Virginia Satir has been extremely influential in addiction recovery, and this week’s guest, Stephen Buckbee, has been using Satir’s methods successfully for years now. Stephen joins Duane Osterlind on the Addicted Mind this week to explain the transformative power of embracing change. Therapy, he says, is a process that the counselor and therapist can enter into with their client. Rather than striving to “fix” a recovering addict, we have the power to generate a place of safety and self-discovery. Therapy is at its most powerful when the slow change process is fully engaged. The Satir Method is very good at embracing change and paving the way to recovery. Join us this week as we celebrate recovery and empowerment through self-discovery! Also in this episode.
How Stephen employs the principles of Virginia Satir’s methods with clients who struggle with addictions.
A discussion of the foreign elements that begin the process of change.
This model meets the client where they are at so that they can begin the decision-making process.
The most difficult obstacle for recovery is forgiveness for past transgressions.
Moving on from the past into the future of recovery.
Using the Satir method to help addicts re-focus their thoughts away from the pleasure of addiction.
The huge importance of a support system.
The burdens of busy-ness.
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Aug 29, 2017 • 25min
06: Emergency Mental Health Care with Eric Osterlind
There’s a bit of mystery and uncertainty surrounding Psychiatric Hospitals across the country. They are staffed with caring professionals and the goal of today’s show is to sort of demystify the process of dealing with a Psych Hospital and also understanding some best practices for getting help to the folks who need it most. Our guest today is someone I have a personal relationship with because he’s my brother, Eric Osterlind! Eric is a psych nurse and he works in Psychiatric hospitals with acute patients. Eric also works in the ER, dealing with their psych cases. Most of the cases Eric works with are acute, so the first priority is to keep the patient safe, and then any treatment would come after the psych team is sure they are safe. Most of Eric’s patients come in on a 5150 psych hold, which lasts for 72 hours. If they are a danger to others or a danger to themselves, then they can be held on this hold. Reasons for this hold could be that a person becomes suicidal or homicidal, maybe they’ve had a psychotic break, or have somehow gotten to the point where they cannot care of themselves. Listen in as Eric explains the current conditions a psychiatric patient would encounter in a hospital situation. Show Highlights:
Safety comes first in the psych hospital.
Choose your ER carefully, as it could determine what the outcome is for the patient.
Unless a situation is acute, it may be best not to call 911 for help.
Visiting a psych hospital for the first time can be jarring.
When a patient is in a psych hospital visiting hours are severely restricted.
Psych hospitals try to mimic reality as closely as hospital, so it’s very different from a medical hospital.
Upon entering a psych hospitals a patient still has rights, so they are advised of their rights immediately.
Psych hospitals actually act as an advocate for the patient.
A 5250 is a 14-day hold that can be mandated by a Doctor.
The hospital has Patient’s Rights Advocate as a way of checks and balances in the system.
As a family member, you can approach the care team if your relative is in the gray area. Do not lie to the Psychiatric Evaluation Team, but give them useful information.
An entire team is available to help the patient in a 72-hour hold - Psychologists, Marriage Counselors, Recreational Therapists, Movement Therapists, Pet Therapists, and others may all be part of the team.
When dealing with a child patient, take them to an ER with a juvenile (adolescent) psych ward, otherwise, it will take awhile to get transferred
Always get help - help is available to everyone!
Suicidal? Help is available. Please reach out! National Suicide Hotline: 800-273-8255crisistextline.org Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 22, 2017 • 23min
05: Using Mindfulness to Overcome Addiction with Robert Cox
Robert Cox, Mindfulness Master with experience and success stories, discusses the brain-transforming power of mindfulness in addiction recovery. Topics include defining mindfulness, building resistance to cravings, current research on treatment, changing brain chemistry, and simple grounding exercises.

Aug 15, 2017 • 24min
04: Understanding Emotion Using Mindfulness and DBT with Dr. Debbi Kooyman
“Dialectical Behavioral Therapy” is one of the many tools we have tucked away in their tool belt to help people overcome their addiction, trauma, and behavioral disorders. While it might sound complicated at first glance, the true power of DBT comes from its practical applications. This week, we take a close look at DBT and discover a simple, non-judgmental way to understand human emotions. Mindfulness, practical action steps, and a new understanding of the brain combine to make DBT a powerful tool to beat addiction. This week’s guest is Dr. Debbie Kooyman. Her 20 years of work in Psychology have shown her just how important it is for adults dealing with addiction, abuse, and trauma to be able to take a step back from their emotions and learn how to think again. Dr. Kooyman shares her wisdom in this episode and dispels some misconceptions you might have about DBT.
Specializes in adults who were abused as children. DBT is a resource for people dealing with addiction as well as those dealing with abuse.
Dispelling the myth of using DBT. It’s not only for Borderline Personality Disorder.
A breakdown of the three components: Dialectical, Behavioral, and Therapy.
How we can move between the competing needs of companionship and alone time.
Using DBT to give clients concrete tools to beat addiction.
Normalizing your experiences to conquer addiction.
The difference between primary and secondary emotions.
The mindfulness component of DBT—knowing how to pay attention to the moment without judgment.
Learning to change the way our brains operate.
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Aug 7, 2017 • 24min
03: Explore the Amazing Work of Virginia Satir with Teresa McClellan
Welcome back to The Addicted Mind Podcast. This week, you will have a chance to explore the amazing work of Virginia Satir with Teresa McClellan. Teresa has been in the field for 18 years, and she’s worked with just about everyone: Couples, families, men, women, co-ed groups, and more! Thanks to her range of experience, she knows a thing or two about how we as human beings respond in therapy, and Virginia Satir’s methods really made an impact on her. Now, Teresa is employing the model for addiction recovery in a men’s prison and seeing amazing results. Satir was ahead of her time in some of her practices, so this is a chance to really shed some light on the impact she has made. Combined with what we know now about the brain and human psychology as a whole, it is easy to see that Satir’s emphasis on human connection is exactly what an addict in recovery needs to experience. Teresa shares her wealth of wisdom and more this week, so you won’t want to miss it!
Discover Virginia Satir, and her incredible methods for therapy.
Growth models rather than the pathology of people and problems.
Experiential part of the Satir Method.
Emotions are felt in the body to fill in the gaps.
How the Satir model and addiction recovery comes together.
How Satir shows up in more “current” therapy practices.
Using imagery and experience to allow addicts to be themselves.
To learn more about the work that Teresa and her colleagues are doing, head on over to www.satirpactific.org If you like the show, you can support it directly on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/theaddictedmind Thanks for rating and reviewing on iTunes! Every little bit makes a difference. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 7, 2017 • 32min
02: Food Addiction and Eating Disorders with Janet Whitney
The more we learn about the addicted mind, the more we can begin to understand how trauma, disorders, and addictions really are interrelated. Today, we are thrilled to take that exploration to a personal level through the eyes of Janet Whitney. Janet is a Licensed Family and Marriage Therapist, but she is also a devoted mother. No mom would ever want to walk with their child through a life-threatening illness, even less so when it is something as slippery as an eating disorder. Since she was very young, Janet’s daughter, Hannah, has battled anorexia and eating disorders in a slow fight to recovery. By supporting her daughter through a long healing journey, Janet now wants to share her unique insight into the inner-workings of recovery and therapy. Recovery from eating disorders and addiction is similar: so similar that Janet has used her own life experiences to inform and shape her own practice. Today, it is time to get out of the theoretical exploration and into the personal. The insights to be learned here are not to be underestimated.
Exploring the similarities of food disorders and other addictions.
Janet shares her daughter’s story and struggle with an eating disorder.
Changing the narrative around eating disorders.
The time it takes to get through a disease like eating disorders.
The role of trauma in addiction.
A close look at the Conscientious Dissenter study to see the effects of starvation in the body.
Self-care and dealing with your own anxiety while being a safety zone for loved ones.
The factors that played a role in Hannah’s recovery.
A call for parents to help their child while they can! Tough love can save their life.
Link up with Janet onlinehttps://www.janetwhitneymft.com/ Check out Janet’s book: Facing Your Fears and Following Your Dreams If you like the show, you can support it directly on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/theaddictedmind Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 7, 2017 • 4min
01: Introducing the Addicted Mind Podcast - My Mission to Help
Welcome to the “Addicted Mind” Podcast hosted by Duane Osterlind. Duane is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist who is passionate about helping people overcome addiction. Through years of experience and witnessing the real life change brought about by modern counseling practices, Duane developed a passion for the process. That passion led him to begin the “Addicted Mind” Podcast, built on what he thinks are the most meaningful aspects of beating addiction.
Research: what is the current evidence about addiction treatment? What brain processes can we use to overcome addiction?
Treatment: In what ways are we treating addiction? What’s working? What might not be working?
Recovery: What does it look like for someone to overcome addiction?
Along the way, experience how so many people have been able to create a life that is meaningful to them. Addiction can be beaten. Let’s learn how. Don’t forget to Subscribe on iTunes! Learn more at http://theaddictedmind.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 20, 2001 • 38min
190: Living on the Other Side of Addiction with Dana Golden
Whether it's divorce, job loss, addiction, or being the spouse of an addict, we're all going through recovery from something. We can make our own path – and that’s what recovery is all about. You’ve just got to learn how to pick up and move on. On today’s episode of The Addicted Mind Podcast, Duane speaks with certified recovery and family addiction coach, Dana Golden, who talks about living on the other side of addiction. She shares what it was like living with a partner struggling with addiction and how she found her own freedom through that.Growing up, Dana's dad had a process addiction – gambling, sex, alcohol, you name it. From that, she learned some very maladaptive behaviors to cope with, which she carried over later on with her other relationships, including her then-husband. She eventually got sick and tired of being sick and tired. Having been brought up with the idea that she needs a man, she finally understood that her whole recovery journey was all about advocating for herself and celebrating her independence as a woman.Fast-forward to today, Dana and her ex-husband have come full circle, having co-authored the book “Addiction Rescue: The NO-BS Guide to Recovery,” and maintaining a great relationship, now as business partners and certified recovery coaches, helping other families heal.In this episode, you will hear:
Going into a cycle of dysfunctional relationships
How her ex-spouse gambled everything away
Learning how to separate the person from the addiction
How she came full-circle with her ex-husband
Setting boundaries for yourself
What happens during an intervention
Key Quotes:[04:30] - "I thought by dumping his cocaine down the toilet, or emptying his bottles of booze in the sink that I can control his use... I quickly learned I wasn't going to cure him and I needed to cure me."[06:56] - "Just like an addict that's sick and tired of being sick and tired, I was sick and tired of being sick and tired."[10:31] - “We can make our own path and that's what recovery is all about. We have to recover from everything in life, whether it's divorce, job loss, addiction, or being the spouse of an addict. We're all in recovery from something.”[13:44] - "It doesn't matter how many times you fall down, it's just about picking yourself up again, and how many times you can get up – because anything's possible."[18:45] - "Relapse is a part of addiction... every time there's a relapse, it's an opportunity for growth."[20:55] - "Boundaries are so important. And before you can set them, you have to know that it's a boundary you can keep."Subscribe and ReviewHave you subscribed to our podcast? We’d love for you to subscribe if you haven’t yet. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.If you really enjoyed this episode, we’ve created a PDF that has all of the key information for you from the episode. Just go to the episode page at www.theaddictedmind.com to download it.Supporting Resources:NovusMindfulLife.comwww.DanaGolden.comwww.liferecoverycoach.com Email: dana@danagolden.com Addiction Rescue: The NO-BS Guide to Recovery by David Marlon and Dana GoldenFind out what maladaptive role you've taken on in your relationship: www.danagolden.com/quiz. Episode CreditsIf you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-addicted-mind-podcast/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


