

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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May 23, 2023 • 25min
159. Amazing Vacation Destinations You Should Put On Your Bucket List
We don't get to travel as much as we would like to, but the past couples of years we have had the opportunity to travel to a couple pretty amazing places that exceeded our expectations, and were very affordable compared to other options. Amazing food, accommodations and fun things to do you will never experience anywhere else!In this episode, Nick and Amy share a couple amazing places you can visit together as a couple for pretty inexpensive. They also share some things you can do to find even better deals for your travel.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 19, 2023 • 22min
158. How To Get A Long With Your In Laws And Not Let It Negatively Impact Your Marriage
Getting along with your in-laws is an essential part of building a healthy and happy marriage. When things aren't going well with the in-laws, it works it's way into you marriage and can cause serious issues between a couple. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss things you can do to get along better with your in laws, which will in turn help you have a better relationship with your spouse and in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 16, 2023 • 28min
157. Why You Should Do This One Thing As A Couple
We have been watching a really fun show called "Bahama's Life." The show is about couples looking for their dream property or retirement home in the Bahamas, and they look at several different properties and then decide which one is for them. The fun thing to see is how so many couples talk about how they are accomplishing their dream that they have worked together for so long for. A lot of them say that they put a picture of the house they wanted, or the property or lifestyle somewhere they could see everyday, and they worked toward that goal for many years. That picture of that house, or the beach motivated both of them to work toward the common goal(s) until they were in a position to make their dream/goal come true.This got us thinking about how important it is to have a vision/goal board in marriage to help you work toward common goals and dreams together, and all the other great benefits this has for your relationship. It truly is a powerful way to accomplish dreams and goals you have and it works for MANY couples.In this episode Nick and Amy discuss what a vision/goal board is, the reasons you should make a dream/vision board together, and how to make one that works.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 12, 2023 • 19min
156. The Emotional Intimacy Workbook.. And All The Ways It Can Transform Your Marriage
We have been working on the Emotional Intimacy Workbook for about 6 months and finally got it completed! This workbook covers so many topics that can help couples connect on a much deeper level, and also break down barriers that are keeping them from discovering Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship.In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the different topics in the workbook and how the workbook can help your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Emotional Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 9, 2023 • 34min
155. Is Marriage Really Hard? Or Do Our Own Issues And Other Outside Things That We Bring Into It Make It Hard?
We all know marriage can be hard at times, but have you ever considered what makes it hard through those times? Sure, we can have financial difficulties, health issues, and many other things that can cause significant impacts on our marriage, but at the end of the day, we get to determine how we react.Just because life can really kick our butts sometimes doesn't mean that marriage is hard. It is life that is hard that often causes significant issues the bleed into our marriages.In this episode, Nick and Amy share past experiences they have gone through and outline the things couples can to do NOT make their marriage hard :)If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 5, 2023 • 32min
154. What Is "Ultimate Intimacy" And How Can You Obtain It In Your Marriage?
You hear us talk about "Ultimate Intimacy" all the time! We even branded our company that. But what exactly is ultimate intimacy, and how can you obtain it in your relationship?In this episode Nick and Amy dive into what Ultimate Intimacy means and how couples can find it in their relationship. And yes, it is possible for couples to obtain it!If you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 2, 2023 • 32min
153. Is Social Media A Major Addiction For Your Wife?
Social Media is destroying peoples marriages, and on average, it can be more addictive to women than to men. Although porn and social media are quite different, they both are very addictive and can cause a lot of the same consequences. Many people believe social media is the porn for women.In this episode, Nick and Amy pose the question "is social media the porn for women" and discuss statistics as to how it impacts women, they share poll answers from the audience to find out what all of you feel, and they discuss the things that can be done to break the addiction (for both men and women.)Social media and phone addictions are one of the leading issues in marriages, and improving in this one area can make all the difference in having a happy and fulfilling relationship.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Apr 28, 2023 • 31min
152. Why It's So Important For The Lower Desire Spouse To Initiate Sex (Once In A While)... And 12 Fun Ways To Do So!
So often in marriage it is the higher desire spouse that is ALWAYS initiating sex with the lower desire spouse. However, it is so important for the lower desire spouse to also initiate sex in the marriage to show their spouse how much they love and care about them.In this episode, Amy (and Nick) share 12 fun ways the lower desire spouse can initiate sex with the higher desires spouse. Nick shares the reasons sexual intimacy (and the lower desires spouse initiating) is so important. Nick and Amy also share the "connection challenge" instant download to help couples connect on a deeper level. This challenge can be found in the resource section of the Ultimate Intimacy App under "Coupons and Printable's." You can download the app for free HEREIf you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Apr 25, 2023 • 36min
151. Don't Know What Your Wife Needs From You To Connect Emotionally? Don't Worry, Neither Does She...
We were sitting in the marriage retreat talking about sexual and emotional needs in marriage and a husband asked, "How do I emotionally connect with my wife? What does that even mean?"We all looked at the wife to hear her answer and she says "I don't know!" Which is actually a typical answer. A lot of husbands want help in this area, and many women don't even know what they need! What is emotional intimacy and how do we do better at connecting in this way if it is so important to a marriage?In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the best ways a husband can connect emotionally with his wife. Personal examples from their marriage, and tips to bring back the connection that every marriage needs to have! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Apr 21, 2023 • 32min
150. Are Men And Women Really That Different When It Comes To Emotional And Sexual Intimacy?
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the typical stereotypes of men and women when it comes to sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy differences. We know that not all couples fall into the typical stereotypes, but we feel that yes, we are created completely different, but at the same time we are so much more alike than we sometimes think we are.Both husbands and wives want to feel emotionally connected, spiritually connected, and sexually connected to each other, we are just different in the ways we feel and show that desire. Filling that gap can be tricky in marriage. Nick and Amy share their tips on how finding that balance between sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy in marriage can be a little bit easier! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!