
STRONGWILLED
DL and Krispin Mayfield host conversations about the personal and political impacts of Religious Authoritarian Parenting.
Latest episodes

Sep 21, 2023 • 57min
Bonus episode: Reaching for the Invisible God by Phillip Yancey (Books from the Bad Place episode)
We're releasing last month's patreon-only episode on the main feed today. We talk about Yancey's book that came out in 2000 that validated doubts, disappointments and insecurities, while urging people to stick it out in Christianity, even if it didn't feel right. Krispin shares about how this book shaped his journey. Together, Krispin & DL reflect on it in the context of what we know from Yancey's memoir that released in 2021. We mention Yancey's interview with the I Was a Teenage Fundamentalist Podcast and their follow-up episode after the interview.We have a patreon-only episode up today about The Strong Willed Child by James Dobson. Become a patreon member to hear it! Joining patreon, you'll gain access to two extra episodes each month (like this one), our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more.Leave us a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here.

Sep 7, 2023 • 54min
Doomsday Crisis
Spoilers in the episode! DL and Krispin talk about S1 E5 titled “Category 55 Emergency Doomsday Crisis.” We talk about unjust systems that we call good, how groundbreaking Hamilton was when this episode aired, and more!We use the audio from The Good Place Podcast.Here’s the first episode of the series where we talk about the Adventures in Odyssey episodes that feature Marc Evan Jackson’s voice.Wanna hear more about fascism? Check out DL’s substack. Also, here’s a link to The Food Place.Leave us a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can Join our patreon comamunity to support this podcast and gain access to two extra episodes each month, our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more.You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here. Head to our website for transcripts of the episodes.

Aug 24, 2023 • 55min
Mr. Music the DJ
DL and Krispin talk about S1 E4 titled “Jason Mendoza.” We talk about self-acceptance, shame, and systems that create hierarchies of who is considered good and bad. And we laugh a lot because of Jason Mendoza.We use the audio from The Good Place Podcast.Krispin mentions Best in Miniature (which unfortunately you only watch in Canada, or with a VPN)Leave us a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can Join our patreon comamunity to support this podcast and gain access to two extra episodes each month, our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more. You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here. Head to our website for transcripts of the episodes.

Aug 10, 2023 • 53min
60 Billion Dollars
DL and Krispin talk about S1 E3 titled "Tahani Al Jamil." We talk about what makes a person good, directional insanity and what could be done with 60 billion dollars.Leave us a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can Join our patreon comamunity to support this podcast and gain access to two extra episodes each month, our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more. You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here. Head to our website for transcripts of the episodes.

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Jul 27, 2023 • 49min
Questions & Fears
Is flying the most selfish super power? And can people change? This episode, DL and Krispin talk about S1E2 (“Flying”) of the Good Place and the philosophical questions that come with it!DL mentions Half a Soul by Olivia Atwater.Leave us a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can Join our patreon comamunity to support this podcast and gain access to two extra episodes each month, our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more. You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here. Head to our website for transcripts of the episodes.

Jul 13, 2023 • 54min
Everything is Not Fine
This is the FIRST EPISODE of This Is the Bad Place, a recap podcast of the NBC's Good Place TV show.We’re covering the pilot episode, and talking about ethical conundrums, anxiety about the afterlife, religious trauma, and whether Ted Danson’s character is some form of Billy Graham. DL mentions The Good Place: the Podcast. They also mention How to Be Perfect by Michael Schur.Also, Kesha’s song is actually just called Sleazy. Leave a voicemail at (503) 912-4130 or send a voice memo to propheticimaginationstation@gmaill.com.You can Join our patreon comamunity to support this podcast and gain access to two extra episodes each month, our facebook community, as well as the backlog of patreon-only episodes covering evangelical media, spiritual abuse, and more. You can follow The Bad Place Podcast on Twitter and Instagram. You can follow Krispin on Instagram here and Danielle on Instagram here. Head to our website for transcripts of the episodes.

Jun 26, 2023 • 50min
Image Management Strategies (Recap of Ep4 Shiny Happy People)
TW: religious abuse, sexual abuse, family cover-up of abuse, psychological abuse, retaliation for abuse allegations.Most of this episode discusses sexual abuse and child pornography. There's a short section 13:55-22:55 that discusses the plan for Christian homeschoolers to go to Washington and republican politics, and also current youtube Christina influencers. Then, 39:40-end is free of triggers around sexual abuse, and discusses the hope of survivors of IBLP. The episode talks about how the Duggar family and friends respond to Josh Duggar's charges of child pornography and his previous allegations of sexual abuse. There's also discussion of abuse charges and also legal retaliation. There's a short portion about how conservative Christians are trying to hold cultural power through politics and social media. We also talk a bit about the survivors of IBLP and how they've been healing and recovering from trauma.If you've experienced the pain of having family or friends fail to respond in a healthy way to disclosure of abuse, Krispin suggests the website: https://secondwound.com/This is the last of a four episode series called Too Many Cults, where Krispin and Lindsay Strannigan (from The Holy Ghosting Podcast, and DL’s sister) recap the docuseries Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets on Amazon Prime.Join our patreon community to support this podcast. You can find us on Twitter and Instagram.

Jun 19, 2023 • 47min
Fascism in Plain Sight (Recap of Shiny Happy People Ep 3)
TW: religious abuse, sexual abuse, family cover-up of abuse, psychological abuse, harsh punishment of children), controlling parenting, grooming and sexual abuse. Here's a breakdown of the episode and the topics:0:00 Introduction, brief non-specific mention on Josh's child pornography charges. 2:00 Discussion of free labor in evangelical spaces23:00 Discussion of sexual abuse from Gothard and sexual abuse within the IBLP.This is the third of a four episode series called Too Many Cults, where Krispin and Lindsay Strannigan (from The Holy Ghosting Podcast, and DL’s sister) recap the docuseries Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets on Amazon Prime.This episode we talk about how both IBLP and Jim Bob Duggar hold onto money while those with less power do unpaid work. We also talk about how Gothard created an environment in the IBLP that encouraged abuse to exist with impunity. Krispin shares a bit of the parallels he saw in his own evangelical community in response to his disclosure of sexual abuse by a family membr. Join our patreon community to support this podcast. You can find us on Twitter and Instagram.

Jun 12, 2023 • 55min
An Environment Where Abuse Thrives (Recap of Ep 2 of Shiny Happy People)
TW: religious abuse, sexual abuse, family cover-up of abuse, emotional neglect, psychological abuse, physical abuse (and violent punishment of children), intimate partner abuseHere's a breakdown of the episode and the topics:0:00 Introduction, overview of episode, discussion of why traumatized people can be drawn to fundamentalism9:45 homeschooling22:10 subjugation of women; abuse of girls & women, purity culture, gender roles30:00 child abuse; discipline of children47:30 sexual abuseThis is the second of a four episode series called Too Many Cults, where Krispin and Lindsay Strannigan (from The Holy Ghosting Podcast, and DL’s sister) recap the docuseries Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets on Amazon Prime.This episode we talk about how Bill Gothard’s teachings about women's gender roles and parenting creating environments where abuse could occur with impunity.Join our patreon community to support this podcast. You can find us on Twitter and Instagram.

Jun 5, 2023 • 52min
19 Cults & Counting (Recap of Ep 1 of Shiny Happy People)
TW: religious abuse, sexual abuse, family cover-up of abuseThis is the first of a four episode series called Too Many Cults, where Krispin and Lindsay Strannigan (from The Holy Ghosting Podcast, and DL’s sister) recap the docuseries Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets on Amazon Prime.We're calling the series Too Many Cults, inspired by the video Too Many Cooks, which you should go watch!This episode we talk about how Bill Gothard’s teachings of the Institute of Basic Life Principles (IBLP) are incredibly similar to mainstream evangelicalism, and to the experiences of those of us who grew up with Focus on the Family. Bill Gothard and Dr. Dobson were incredibly similar, and created very similar dysfunctional family cultures (the latter just had fewer kids).We’re recapping the episodes, talking about what stands out to us and processing some religious trauma along the way. We’re releasing episodes on both podcasts, a true crossover series.Join our patreon community to support this podcast. You can find us on Twitter and Instagram.