

Social Skills Mastery
Susan Callender
The Social Skills Mastery Podcast is where High-Performance Social Confidence Coach and Corporate Trainer, Susan Callender helps professionals, business owners, and entrepreneurs stand out in competitive and often high-stakes situations, by raising social capital and using the power of polished people skills to make an impact. Weekly content encompasses what to do, what to say, how to maneuver tricky situations and get it right the first time.
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Aug 22, 2024 • 28min
194. Self-belief vs. Self-defeat: Stop Worrying About What People Think
Today we dive into the mindset shift you need to stop worrying about what others think and start showing up as your authentic, powerful self. If you find yourself holding back in business or social interactions because you're worried about being judged or criticized, this episode is for you. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to break free from self-defeat and step into self-belief, owning their space in any room with confidence and purpose. Tune in now to start living big and making the impact you're meant to make! Key Takeaways: Break Free from the Fear of Judgment: Learn why worrying about others' opinions keeps you playing small and how to shift your focus to your mission and purpose instead. Master Your Inner Dialogue: Discover how to challenge and rewrite the negative self-talk that's fueling your self-doubt, and replace it with empowering beliefs that boost your confidence. Embrace Your Authentic Power: Understand why authenticity is your greatest asset and how leaning into your uniqueness can help you make a bigger impact and build stronger connections. Actionable Tips: Shift Your Focus: Prioritize your mission over others' opinions. Rewrite Your Story: Replace negative self-talk with empowering beliefs. Own Your Uniqueness: Embrace and celebrate what makes you different. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Aug 15, 2024 • 27min
193. Believe to Achieve: Overcoming Self-Doubt for Success
Tired of letting self-doubt hold you back? This episode empowers professionals to overcome their inner critic and step into their full potential. Discover practical strategies to replace self-doubt with self-assurance, build unshakeable confidence, and achieve greater success in both your professional and personal life. Learn how to silence the negative voice, embrace challenges, and become the confident leader you aspire to be. Key Takeaways: The psychology behind self-doubt and its impact on professional and personal life. Proven techniques to challenge and reframe negative thought patterns. Practical steps to build self-confidence and resilience. Strategies for overcoming imposter syndrome and embracing vulnerability. The importance of celebrating small wins and setting realistic goals. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Aug 9, 2024 • 24min
192. The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Shaping Reality Through Our Inner Narratives
In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the concept that the stories we create in our minds ultimately shape our reality. Whether it's telling ourselves that we can't achieve something or convincing ourselves that we're not worthy, these narratives become our truth. The idea is simple but profound: the words and thoughts we repeat internally have the power to limit or liberate us. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Aug 1, 2024 • 24min
191. Trusting Your Gut: Using Intuition to Boost Social Confidence
My guest this week, Rachel Strivelli, is an intuitive guide and psychic coach who will help us learn to us our intuition to navigate social situations and nervousness. We delve into the fascinating world of intuition and how it can be a powerful tool for heightening awareness and improving social skills. Join us as we explore practical strategies to tap into your intuitive sense, helping you navigate social interactions with greater confidence and ease. What You'll Learn: Understanding Intuition: What is intuition, and how does it influence our social interactions? Recognizing Intuitive Signals: How to identify and trust the subtle cues your intuition provides. Practical Tips: Techniques for enhancing your intuitive abilities in social settings. Real-Life Examples: Stories and experiences from people who have successfully used intuition to improve their social skills. Expert Insights: Hear from social confidence coaches and psychologists about the role of intuition in social dynamics. Key Takeaways: 1. Trust Your Gut: Learn why your first instinct is often the right one and how to act on it. 2. Mindfulness Practices: Simple exercises to heighten your awareness and strengthen your intuition. 3. Building Rapport: Using intuition to create deeper connections and improve your communication skills. 4. Overcoming Social Anxiety: How intuition can help you feel more at ease in social situations. Reach out to Rachel: Register for Rachel's free workshop https://www.facebook.com/rachel.strivelli YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/RachelStrivelli LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelstrivelli/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/rachelstrivelli/ Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Jul 27, 2024 • 22min
190. The Self-Awareness Advantage: Elevate Your Social Interactions
In this episode of "Social Skills Mastery," we delve into the powerful role self-awareness plays in enhancing our social interactions. Discover how understanding yourself can lead to more meaningful connections and improved communication in both personal and professional settings. We explore practical strategies to increase your self-awareness and discuss how this awareness can transform the way you interact with others. Key Takeaways: · Understanding Self-Awareness: We begin by defining self-awareness and discussing its importance as a cornerstone of effective social interactions. Learn how being aware of your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors can help you connect more authentically with others. · Benefits of Self-Awareness: Discover the numerous advantages that come with heightened self-awareness, including improved empathy, better conflict resolution, and enhanced communication skills. We'll share real-life examples of how self-awareness can positively impact your relationships. · Practical Strategies for Developing Self-Awareness: We provide actionable tips to help you become more self-aware. From mindfulness practices to journaling, learn simple yet effective techniques that can be incorporated into your daily routine. · Self-Awareness in Professional Settings: Explore how self-awareness can boost your career by enhancing your ability to collaborate, lead, and network. We'll discuss how understanding your strengths and weaknesses can lead to greater professional success. · Overcoming Barriers to Self-Awareness: We address common obstacles that hinder self-awareness, such as fear of vulnerability and negative self-talk, and offer strategies to overcome them. Listener Challenge: This week, challenge yourself to engage in one activity that promotes self-awareness. Whether it's through meditation, reflecting on your daily interactions, or seeking feedback from a trusted friend, take a step toward understanding yourself better and watch how it elevates your social interactions. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer? Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Jul 18, 2024 • 19min
189. From Wallflower to Wow: Cultivating Charisma in the Workplace
In episode 189 we delve into the topic of charisma, exploring its value and how to develop this powerful trait. Susan breaks down the components of charisma and provides actionable strategies so you can enhance your personal magnetism. The episode addresses: · How to use charisma ethically to achieve your goals · Applying charismatic skills in various situations (meetings, networking, leadership) · Addressing the misconception that introverts can't be charismatic · Potential pitfalls of charisma and how to avoid them Listener Challenge: Choose one aspect of charisma to focus on and practice it daily for a week. Notice how it affects your interactions and feelings. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer? Send an email to: Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Jul 12, 2024 • 9min
188. [Bonus] Social Confidence Summer Camp: An Opportunity for A Unique Experience
Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? REGISTER TODAY for Social Confidence Summer Camp Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Jul 7, 2024 • 20min
187. Clear, Credible, and Composed: Self-Management in Meetings for the Socially Reserved
In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that resonates with many quiet and socially reserved professionals: managing yourself effectively in meetings. Meetings can be daunting, but with the right strategies, you can contribute meaningfully and feel more comfortable. Key Takeaways: Preparation is Key: Do Your Homework: Research the meeting agenda and participants. Understand the topics to be discussed. Prepare Points: Write down your thoughts and questions in advance. Having a few key points ready can boost your confidence. Set Intentions: Goal Setting: Define your objectives for the meeting. What do you want to achieve or learn? Personal Intentions: Decide how you want to present yourself and what personal goals you have, such as speaking up at least once. Use Non-Verbal Communication: Body Language: Maintain good posture, make eye contact, and use gestures to show engagement. Active Listening: Nod and use facial expressions to show you are following along. Leverage Your Strengths: Thoughtful Contributions: Your quiet nature often means you think deeply before speaking. Use this to provide well-considered insights. Listening Skills: Being a good listener is a valuable skill. Summarize key points and ask clarifying questions. Build Relationships: Connect One-on-One: Reach out to colleagues individually to discuss meeting topics beforehand. This can make it easier to speak up in the meeting. Seek Allies: Identify supportive colleagues who can encourage you to share your thoughts. Listener Challenge: For this week's challenge, try implementing one of the strategies discussed in today's episode. Whether it's preparing a few key points before your next meeting or practicing deep breathing exercises, take a step towards becoming more confident in meetings. Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Jun 27, 2024 • 28min
186. The Social Butterfly Effect

Jun 15, 2024 • 36min
185. The Psychology of your Vocal Persona w/ Tracy Goodwin
Your voice is more than just words. It's a powerful tool that can convey confidence, warmth, or authority. In this episode, my special guest, Tracy Goodwin and I delve into the fascinating world of the Psychology of the Voice. Join us as we explore how subtle variations in tone, volume, speed, and pausing can dramatically shape how your message is received. You will learn how to use vocal techniques to cultivate a distinct persona that reflects your brand and resonates with your audience, and we explore the power of vocal delivery, from projecting confidence to conveying empathy. You'll gain insight into how the human brain interprets vocal cues and the impact they have on perception. Ready to unlock the full potential of your voice? This episode equips you with the knowledge and tools to become a more impactful communicator and create a lasting impression. Tracy's Instagram Captivate the Room Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok


