We're Having Gay Sex

Akeem Woods is a hysterical stand-up comedian who opens for comedy greats like Tiffany Haddish and Godfrey, as well as makes frequent appearances on Kevin Hart’s LOL Network, but today he’s in the apartment to get into the nitty-gritty. We discuss differences in gay male vs lesbian hookup culture, strategies for taking better nudes, and the logistics of keeping a phone just for your sex life. Ashley “does the dance” with a ballerina. Kate has their first one night stand.      Akeem can be found on IG: @akeemwoods, Twitter: @WoodsAkeem, and you can see his future tour dates and more at akeemwoods.com Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterGet 30% off your first order of Foria’s amazing products by visiting foriawellness.com/ashley, or using code “ashley” at checkout.Use Truebill to manage bills, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: www.truebill.com/ashley.Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nVPBffngpi8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ali Kolbert (The Ali Kolbert Show) is a side-splitting writer/comedian who has worked in some of NBC’s most prestigious programming (SNL, The Tonight Show, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers), but today she has graced WHGS with her hilarious presence. We discuss lesbian role models in media, dating during big life transitions, and the intricacies of tomboy fashion. Ashley gets introspective about her future. Kate grapples with their imaginary d*ck.Ali can be found on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @alikolbertYou can also listen to her podcast, The Ali Kolbert Show, on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/27KEFQNRq3kBf8uvH744bk), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ali-kolbert-show/id1569210719), or wherever you listen.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterUse Truebill to manage bills, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: www.truebill.com/ashleyPrefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/n9wSeUo53UA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jake Cornell (Going Out With Jake Cornell Podcast) is not only one of Kate's hilarious BFFs, he is TikTok famous, Insta famous, and truly hysterical. We get into his study abroad fling, age gap relationships, and how to get out of sleeping with someone but still using them for their mattress. Ashley goes on a date with Kate. Kate has to figure out if she was on a date or not.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWant to watch this episode on YouTube? https://youtu.be/vS6aRHo4Jps#comedy #lesbian #gay #tiktok #lgbt #queer #lesbiandating #bi #trans #nonbinary #enby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Casey Tanner, AASECT, (@queersextherapist) is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive group, a queer-affirming therapy group (www.theexpansivegroup.com). But she is also absolutely hysterical and one of Ashley's favorite people on the planet and high-key crush. We dive into common queer sex therapy questions (like mismatched sex drive, and preparing for your first queer experience) and Casey's unfortunate dildo experiences. Ashley tries to win Casey's love and affection. Kate buys a double ended dildo.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_zNABB8sMVw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brilliant actor and comedian Jess Henderson (as seen on Shrill) joins us this week to talk toxic positivity, long distance dates, and reality tv self care. Ashley has a run in with a cruise guest. Kate finds a butt plugCW: We discuss Sexual Harassment on this episode, if this is triggering for you, then it might be best to skip from minute ~20:00 to ~40:00 If you need resources on this topic you can find some here: https://www.rainn.org/ThatsHarassmentJess Henderson can be found @embrace_mess on IGMerch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9tR6ymxCf2I Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

YouTube Super Star Jessie Paege joins the pod to cover some sexy cosplay and the pure joy of enjoying someone else's kink. Ashley has sex with a squirting baby gay. Kate delivers some huge news!Jessie can be found @jessiepaege on IG and YouTube.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4KvIc-rUFYY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jamie Raines & Shaaba Lotun came on the pod to flex how cute they are together. We discuss what it was like to get PhDs while making viral YouTube videos, Jamie's sex lab research on genitals, and why usually Shaaba is proudly displaying her sex toys. Ashley discusses her not-date with Jen. Kate does a walk of shame to and from church.Jamie can be found @jammidodger on YouTube and @jammi.dodger on ig. Shaaba can be found @sherbertlemon007 on IG and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZ97eKgNwC4j-z_6LDjfIg on youtube.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/yYuHHJO2s4s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sophie Santos (buy her new book The One You Want to Marry) is such an incredible story teller and I'm so excited to share story of her first gay sex experience (which sounds like it could not have gone worse). We also get into OCD and whether or not Kate and Ashley have it. Kate has either a gay sex moment or a straight sex moment. Ashley is in a weird thing with a woman who just closed her relationship.Sophie can be found @sophieesantos on ig. If you'd like to buy her book or audiobook information can be found at www.sophiesantos.comMerch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QGzU77BFdoU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cameron Esposito (Queery Podcast, Conan, STARS) joins the pod this week for a roundtable discussion on queer teenaged longing and the lengths young gays go to for puppy love. Ashley meets up with a girl at camp in the middle of the night. Kate sneaks into a movie with her camp "friend".Cameron can be found @cameronesposito on ig and twitter. They are going to Chicago and Salt Lake City on tour this upcoming week and next. cameronesposito.com for tickets.Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

James Tison (The New York Times) cracks open the vulnerability wide open on this episode by discussing his partner's transition, couples therapy, scheduling sex and more. Ashley doesn't understand straight sex. Kate cries.James can be found everywhere @jamestisonMerch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merchAshley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdatesNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk on ig and twitterWatch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices