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This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your girl-boy boyfriend. Ashley hits the double-date. Maddie self-sabotages.   Watch “Steph Tolev: Filth Queen” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/81764903  Follow Steph on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/stephtolev/  https://www.tiktok.com/@stephtolev  https://x.com/stephtolev  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/mD8N5XTs_0k  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Book a demo at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay for 10% OFF your first year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of these epic titans. We discuss demisexuality, the asexuality spectrum, and code-switching your gay voice for the straights. Ashley witnesses Indiana ruin boobs. Lizzy senses some flirting. Maddie ponders their body image.  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/05b3yEnFmjI  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy   FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and moving beyond into greatness. We also talk about how Ashley may be the only example of a mainstream lesbian open relationship, and how this relationship was built in the pitiful dregs of comedy. Follow Ali on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Twitter/X: https://x.com/alikolbe And you can see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YmxS-CU_Ooo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Get 50% OFF + FREE SHIPPING with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect date, ice cream adventures, and giving up everything to move to Florida. Ashley fights intense homophobia. Lizzy witnesses the pure, unadulterated gay experience.  Follow Jared on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid/  https://www.tiktok.com/@wizardofha  https://x.com/jtrain56  And see him live on tour! Get tickets at https://punchup.live/jaredfreid  Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  https://x.com/lizzaster  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/64TmEfXn8PQ  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Get 10% OFF your first year subscription at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimately before you remotely touch a woman. Ashley saves a young gamer from homophobia. Maddie needs her mechanical keyboards creamy.  Follow Ashly on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/ashlyburch/  https://www.tiktok.com/@ashly.burch  And you can watch her new web series, “I’m Happy You’re Here,” right now! Episode One: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5SavjMFRLg  Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SfUO2QmxHM SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Uj9zyHc0r0I  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular, the joys it brings, and the rejection of explicitly masculine spaces. We also spend an inordinate amount of time discussing horse sex. Ashley gets fake boobs. Lizzy gets a micropenis. Follow Josh on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cluckcluckjoshsharp/  Get tickets to his upcoming solo show, “Josh Sharp: Ta-Da!,” starting on July 7th: https://www.joshsharptada.com/  And stream “Dicks: the Musical” on MAX: https://www.max.com/movies/dicks-the-musical/f5cdf73e-59bb-4336-9f9a-b8d85382cfd3  Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  https://x.com/lizzaster  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/iWac-AGgijo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationship, getting married, straight vs. gay divorce statistics, and how one simple jacket can make you the mother of a trans child. Ashley gets punished by her professor. Lizzy challenges the “U-Hauling” stereotype.   Follow Emily on IG & TikTok:  https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/  https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson  And go watch her new special, “FIXED,” right now on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk  Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  https://x.com/lizzaster  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/8GQ20SOIo1E  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code gay50off to Get 50% OFF at https://www.factor75.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting nervous in queer flirting, creative strategies to overcome these nerves, self-actualization, UNO, and how Urban Outfitters got the BEST shirts. Ashley overhears bad things. Yvette barely survives straight dating.  Follow Jared on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/heyjaredhey/  https://www.tiktok.com/@heyjaredhey  And listen to his podcast, “Sorry, What?”, wherever you listen: https://linktr.ee/heyjaredhey  Follow Yvette on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/yvettesegan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@yevit  And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://www.yvettesegan.com/  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/SqLeA1xoUHQ  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY20 to Get 20% OFF at https://tomboyx.com/  HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is discovering itself, listener! Alaire Thomas is your favorite queer content creator that has been taking the internet by STORM, but today she’s in the apartment to do some taking of your GAY VIRGINITY! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality and its effects on the coming out process, building confidence to hit on women, leather jackets and their effect on getting you laid, and if it's remotely possible to be polyamorous but not pro-Palestine. Ashley likes Greek girls. Maddie seeks wisdom from the room. Follow Alaire on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/alairethomas/  https://www.tiktok.com/@alairethomas  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/nNiR92Gi2dY  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY20 to Get 20% OFF at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. We discuss being a gold-star lesbian before trauma turns you bi, becoming a lesbian preacher, dating a low-key racist, and complex intersections of queerness and race in lesbian spaces. Ashley teaches the youth about polyamory. Mae comes out over a big burger. Follow Sienna on IG, TikTok, and X:https://www.instagram.com/siennahubertross/ https://www.tiktok.com/@siennahubertross https://x.com/siennahubertros And you can buy tickets to one of her August shows over on her website: https://www.siennahubertross.com/ Follow Mae and slide into her DMs ladies: https://www.instagram.com/mae.neil/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/KU9YRdWnReE FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsPRODUCED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices