We're Having Gay Sex cover image

We're Having Gay Sex

Latest episodes

undefined
Mar 31, 2025 • 1h 11min

How to NOT Date a Trans Person w/ Sunny Laprade | WHGS Ep. 266

This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your soulmate. Ashley is on a cold-streak. Kylie is oversharing.   Follow Sunny on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/sunnylcomedy/https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnylcomedy https://x.com/sunnylcomedy And you can watch her hilarious special, “Queer Enough,” on YouTube now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR_hm2GPOC0 SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/erInqn1OOUY FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HUMP: Save 10% on tickets with promo code SEX at https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Mar 24, 2025 • 1h 12min

I Have My First MMF Experience (w/ Breanne Williamson) | WHGS Ep. 265

This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me during the whole ordeal, keeps me honest as I break it all down. If you want to listen to the first half of this epic tale, use one of these links:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtzE4HG7QaM https://podcasts.apple.com/pl/podcast/breanne-williamson-cleans-my-messiest-story-yet/id1505116116?i=1000660023612 Support the Kickstarter for Breanne’s new web series: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/breannewilliamson/apartment-51-an-lgbtq-webseries Listen to my new podcast, What’s News With You: https://podcasts.apple.com/hr/podcast/whats-news-with-you/id1799838059  https://www.youtube.com/@whatsnewswithyoushow SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/3SDRXalxXOs  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamsonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamsonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamsonTwitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamsonLive Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamsonEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:GREEN CHEF: Get FREE SALADS for two months + 50% OFF your first box at https://www.greenchef.com/gayfree  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Mar 17, 2025 • 1h 4min

My Girlfriend Jen Davis and I Podcast From Bed | WHGS Ep. 264

This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. We share our quirks. We share our passions. And finally, we take the silliest questions from our discord, and finally let you know who smells the best of them all You can follow Jen on IG & TikTok:https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vIQ47ejCAXo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF SITEWIDE at https://helixsleep.com/gaysexFACTOR: Get 50% OFF your first box + free shipping with code FACTORPODCAST at https://www.factormeals.com/factorpodcast GALATEA: Get 25% OFF your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 9min

Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263

This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries.  You can follow Emma on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X:https://www.instagram.com/emmadcomedy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@emmadcomedy https://x.com/emmadcomedy And you can sign up for her mailing mailing list at https://beacons.ai/emmadcomedy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF SITEWIDE at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Mar 3, 2025 • 54min

Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262

This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a little juice boy. You can follow Kate on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk https://x.com/thekatesisk SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Sx_K-K8zvdM FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Feb 24, 2025 • 1h 9min

Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261

This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes. You can follow Grace on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/gracereiter1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@reitergrace https://x.com/reitergrace SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/PsLXPhJjss8 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:GALATEA: Get 25% OFF your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Feb 17, 2025 • 1h 13min

How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 260

This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her that HAWK TUAH. Bre is chit-chatting.  You can follow Brenda on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/brendanwjordan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@brendanwjordan https://x.com/brendanwjordan SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O7Kte-Dkwx0 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamsonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamsonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamsonTwitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamsonLive Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamsonEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HUMP: Use promo code SEX for 10% off tickets at https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ GREEN CHEF: Use code “gayfree” for FREE salads for 2 months + 50% your first box at https://www.greenchef.com/gayfree Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Feb 10, 2025 • 1h 16min

Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara) | WHGS Ep. 259

This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamory, war veterans using it as a form of sex therapy, and even parents taking their children to lose their v-card. You won’t want to miss this!  You can follow Tara on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/mustangmadamtaraexit28/ https://www.tiktok.com/@taraannexit28 https://x.com/MustangMadam And you can visit Mustang Ranch just outside of Reno, Nevada: https://www.mustangranchlounge.com/  Kylie is running her NEW solo show in NYC at Caveat on 2/16! Get tickets at: https://caveat.nyc/events/kyi-wanted-to-die-2-16-2025  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/H9fj_yFVxtk FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 27% OFF + two FREE pillows with mattress purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your first box + free shipping with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Feb 3, 2025 • 1h 10min

Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars | WHGS Ep. 258

This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s.You can follow Akeem on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/akeemwoods/ https://www.tiktok.com/@akeemwoods6 https://x.com/woodsakeem And THIS WEEKEND you can see him perform live in Montreal, from 2/6 - 2/8:   https://www.bandsintown.com/a/15490521-akeem-woods?came_from=250&utm_medium=web&utm_source=artist_event_page&utm_campaign=artist SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/kITm79IuX-U FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwienerTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwienerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwienerTwitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwienerTour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF + two FREE pillows with mattress purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
undefined
Jan 27, 2025 • 1h 15min

Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick | WHGS Ep. 257

This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddie investigates the link between neurodivergence and being queer.You can follow Lizzy on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy https://x.com/lizzaster And you can watch her Don’t Tell comedy set now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=Kt12RjMC5NA Or you can listen to her awesome podcast, “Close Calls,” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/close-calls-podcast/id1639556364 SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/gpbsvMxcSaI FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwienerTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwienerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwienerTwitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwienerTour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode