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This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy doesn’t come out to her family. FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL Tour Dates: https://www.freddieshanel.com/standup  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/  Twitter: https://x.com/freddie_shanel  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/o9r0i_LLpgk  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HELLO FRESH: Get 10 FREE meals + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the powerful will-they-won’t-they of lesbian relationships. Enjoy, and thanks for all of your support through 300 EPISODES OF WHGS!!! FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YiGHfBcsyaM PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the internet, coming out as queer when young, and playing with ALL the pronouns in your gender presentation. Ashley fights to stay in the closet. Kylie hypes herself up with queer pop.  FOLLOW CHLOE MORIONDO: Pre-Save her upcoming deluxe album: https://open.spotify.com/prerelease/2DZbIBMjir1dZbkelGGSUg  Attend her album release party: https://www.ticketweb.com/event/chloe-moriondo-dj-set-night-club-101-tickets/14678143  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chloemoriondo/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chloemoriondo54  Twitter: https://x.com/kidzwithbugz  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/qsjR8MHIlQg  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Get premium wireless for $15/month at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an administration hostile to queer people, and the various problems within the queer community that are holding us back. Ashley dates an actor. Bre is a voyeur in hotels.  FOLLOW GABE: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabesdunn/  Follow his incredible Substack: https://athousandnaturalshocks.substack.com/  Listen to “A Thousand Natural Shocks” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-thousand-natural-shocks-with-gabe-s-dunn/id1144712710  https://www.youtube.com/@gabesdunn/videos  Listen to “Just Between Us” wherever you listen: https://www.youtube.com/@JustBetweenUs  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/just-between-us/id1707127144  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/rVC_8aYY3C0  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet.   Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/dandocimo/  https://www.tiktok.com/@dandocimo  https://x.com/DanDocimo  And see them live this Friday, 11/14, for New York Comedy Fest:  https://checkout.square.site/merchant/MLBV7Q7F9NG4G/checkout/G3XH3HZJ5ZEAMJHZSNGFTC74  https://punchup.live/dandocimo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fM7EuMqmwg  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk about cruises.  Follow Claire on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lilshrimpsnack/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lilshrimpsnack  And see here live in Chicago at one of her weekly shows: -https://laughfactorychicago.standuptix.com/events/fresh-faces-chicago-15  -https://www.eventbrite.com/e/comedians-you-should-know-cysk-at-timothy-otooles-pub-tickets-168198250495  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vsQlFCgW3o4  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELLOFRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions into a woman-woman. Lizzy gets gay typecasted.   Check out his queer short film, “Pink Light:” https://www.instagram.com/pinklight.film/  Follow Harrison on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/hbrowne24/  https://www.tiktok.com/@hbrowne24  https://x.com/hbrowne24  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/bs8hvUxFy3U  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Get incredible coverage with no hidden fees at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. Ashley sleeps with a witch. Lizzy ponders language and comedy. Watch his new special, “Thief of Joy,” NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sB9eWtzTOq0  Listen to “The Downside” Podcast: https://www.gianmarcosoresi.com/the-downside-with-gianmarco-soresi  Follow Gianmarco on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/gianmarcosoresi/  https://www.tiktok.com/@gianmarcosoresi  https://x.com/GianmarcoSoresi  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/CKWq13Q-zWw  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your cat. And yeah, there’s a Trump-off too. Things really break format this time, listeners. See The Beaches live on tour NOW: https://www.thebeachesband.com/#tour  Listen to “No Hard Feelings” on all platforms: https://thebeaches.ffm.to/nohardfeelings  Follow Leandra on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/leandraearl/  https://www.tiktok.com/@leandraearl  https://x.com/beacheslele  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/8RIpB-yXsKI  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a movie sex scene. Also, we unveil the first WHGS BABE OF THE WEEK!!!   Follow Lauren on IG and Tik Tok: https://www.instagram.com/lcchan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lcchan  And watch her on The Traitors Canada, Season 2: https://www.ctv.ca/shows/the-traitors-canada  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/IWc78jMm294  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELLOFRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS + a FREE ITEM for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices