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(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. We discuss being a gold-star lesbian before trauma turns you bi, becoming a lesbian preacher, dating a low-key racist, and complex intersections of queerness and race in lesbian spaces. Ashley teaches the youth about polyamory. Mae comes out over a big burger. Follow Sienna on IG, TikTok, and X:https://www.instagram.com/siennahubertross/ https://www.tiktok.com/@siennahubertross https://x.com/siennahubertros And you can buy tickets to one of her August shows over on her website: https://www.siennahubertross.com/ Follow Mae and slide into her DMs ladies: https://www.instagram.com/mae.neil/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/KU9YRdWnReE FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsPRODUCED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

(TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you definitely are, sexual trauma and its relationship to queerness, getting sweaty around gay women, and how Aritzia is the mecca of hot women. Ashley needs attention. Kylie bangs her BFF. Follow Yvette on IG & TikTok:https://www.instagram.com/yvettesegan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@yevit And you can buy tickets to one of her hilarious shows over on her website: https://www.yvettesegan.com/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ut1hnG84aA0 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF all mattress orders at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” for 50% OFF plus free shipping at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as your only meal. Ashley rides a cowgirl. Maddie has straight panic.Follow Claire on IG & TikTok:https://www.instagram.com/lilshrimpsnack/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lilshrimpsnackAnd you can sign up for her mailing list to see her live: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1uMR6fOqrexyp6RcTgqwizZbJsgrvPXtB4dIerMiFmUM/viewform?edit_requested=true&pli=1 SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/oJZ_-daJe1M FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwienerTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwienerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwienerTwitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwienerTour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:GALATEA: Get 25% off your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay TOMBOYX: Get 20% off your order with code GAY20 at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your soulmate. Ashley is on a cold-streak. Kylie is oversharing.   Follow Sunny on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/sunnylcomedy/https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnylcomedy https://x.com/sunnylcomedy And you can watch her hilarious special, “Queer Enough,” on YouTube now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR_hm2GPOC0 SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/erInqn1OOUY FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HUMP: Save 10% on tickets with promo code SEX at https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me during the whole ordeal, keeps me honest as I break it all down. If you want to listen to the first half of this epic tale, use one of these links:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtzE4HG7QaM https://podcasts.apple.com/pl/podcast/breanne-williamson-cleans-my-messiest-story-yet/id1505116116?i=1000660023612 Support the Kickstarter for Breanne’s new web series: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/breannewilliamson/apartment-51-an-lgbtq-webseries Listen to my new podcast, What’s News With You: https://podcasts.apple.com/hr/podcast/whats-news-with-you/id1799838059  https://www.youtube.com/@whatsnewswithyoushow SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/3SDRXalxXOs  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamsonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamsonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamsonTwitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamsonLive Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamsonEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:GREEN CHEF: Get FREE SALADS for two months + 50% OFF your first box at https://www.greenchef.com/gayfree  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. We share our quirks. We share our passions. And finally, we take the silliest questions from our discord, and finally let you know who smells the best of them all You can follow Jen on IG & TikTok:https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vIQ47ejCAXo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF SITEWIDE at https://helixsleep.com/gaysexFACTOR: Get 50% OFF your first box + free shipping with code FACTORPODCAST at https://www.factormeals.com/factorpodcast GALATEA: Get 25% OFF your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries.  You can follow Emma on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X:https://www.instagram.com/emmadcomedy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@emmadcomedy https://x.com/emmadcomedy And you can sign up for her mailing mailing list at https://beacons.ai/emmadcomedy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HELIX: Get 20% OFF SITEWIDE at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a little juice boy. You can follow Kate on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk https://x.com/thekatesisk SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Sx_K-K8zvdM FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes. You can follow Grace on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/gracereiter1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@reitergrace https://x.com/reitergrace SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/PsLXPhJjss8 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirstTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ EDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:GALATEA: Get 25% OFF your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her that HAWK TUAH. Bre is chit-chatting.  You can follow Brenda on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/brendanwjordan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@brendanwjordan https://x.com/brendanwjordan SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O7Kte-Dkwx0 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavsTour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#datesFOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamsonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamsonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamsonTwitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamsonLive Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamsonEDITED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/______________________________________________SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:HUMP: Use promo code SEX for 10% off tickets at https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ GREEN CHEF: Use code “gayfree” for FREE salads for 2 months + 50% your first box at https://www.greenchef.com/gayfree Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices