

Ask the Planner with Desirée Adams: A Wedding and Event Planning Podcast
Desirée Adams, Verve Event Co.
With over 225K downloads and over 150 episodes, the Ask the Planner podcast gives sophisticated couples like you expert tips on how to style, plan, and execute a thoughtfully curated wedding. Every week, join your host Desirée Adams as she interviews leading wedding industry experts and discusses the often-overlooked details that take weddings from pretty parties to heirloom occasions. Hear how to manage vendors, avoid surprises, and plan your day with honest advice from a pro. New episodes drop every Monday. If you want to binge on past episodes or learn more about the show, visit http://asktheplannerpodcast.com.You can also send questions or suggestions for future topics or guests via your Apple Podcast review, text us at (585) 210-9485, or email asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com. Don't forget to follow the show on Instagram and join our broadcast channel @asktheplannerpodcast!
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Aug 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
198 | Designing Colorful Weddings Full of Personality and Bold Design with Jove Meyer
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineBringing bold, joyful color into your wedding design doesn’t have to feel chaotic. In this episode, I’m joined by award-winning designer Jove Meyer, whose work is known for its vibrant energy, authenticity, and celebration of inclusion.We’re talking all about how to embrace color with intention, create spaces that truly reflect your personality, and design weddings that leave a lasting impression on your guests. Whether you’re a couple planning your celebration or a wedding pro looking for fresh creative inspiration, this is a colorful conversation you won’t want to miss.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereConnect with Jove Meyer HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

Aug 11, 2025 • 23min
197 | Your Ultimate Wedding Flower Guide: How to Choose Your Wedding Flowers with Confidence
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineYour wedding flowers are so much more than decoration. They set the tone, tell your story, and turn your reception into a space guests will never forget. In this episode, we’re revisiting one of our most-loved conversations: how to choose the perfect flowers for your wedding day. From statement arrangements to subtle details you never knew you needed, I’m sharing insider tips to help you make thoughtful, stylish decisions with total confidence.We’ll cover how to find a floral style that feels authentic to you, what to consider when balancing beauty and budget, and ways to incorporate blooms that make your celebration truly personal. Whether you’ve been dreaming in peonies since childhood or you’re just starting to think about centerpieces, this episode will give you the tools to work with your florist like a pro and create a cohesive, stunning floral design that elevates every moment.If you’re ready to bring your vision to life with a planner who understands your priorities, inquire at verveeventco.com to learn more about working with Verve.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

May 26, 2025 • 38min
196 | Wedding Planner Fees: What’s the Difference Between Percentage Pricing and Flat Fee Models?
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineHey there, loverves! Welcome to the finale of Season 5 — I can’t believe we’re already here. Whether you’ve been tuning in all season or this is your first time listening, I’m so glad you’re here.Today we’re diving into a topic that comes up a lot — especially among newer planners figuring out how to price themselves and couples trying to understand what they’re actually paying for: percentage-based vs. flat-fee pricing. We’re going to break down what each one really means, who each one is best suited for, and how to decide what works best — whether you’re building your planning business or hiring a planner for your wedding.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

May 19, 2025 • 48min
195 | What’s In, What’s Out: 2025 Wedding Trends From Both Sides of the Atlantic with Rachel Urban
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineToday, we’re diving into the art and strategy behind planning and designing weddings that feel effortlessly beautiful, highly personalized, and truly unforgettable.Whether you’re a couple navigating the wedding planning process or a wedding pro who wants to elevate your services, this conversation covers so much ground—from understanding the difference between a planner and a designer, to what actually sets luxury weddings apart from ultra-luxury ones, and how to build a wedding day team that runs like a well-oiled machine.We’re also tackling some timely topics like how the economy might shape 2025 weddings, what it’s like leading a wedding planning business that operates in both Europe and the US, and what it takes to stay energized through 15-hour event days.If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the scenes at beautifully executed weddings—or how top planners are adapting and growing in today’s market—you’re in for a treat.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereLearn More About Apricity Event CoFollow Rachel on InstagramGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

May 12, 2025 • 23min
194 | 5 Overlooked Wedding Essentials Every Couple Forgets To Plan For
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineToday we’re talking about a few wedding day essentials you might not find on a standard checklist — but trust me, you’re going to want to know about them.Because yes, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the flowers, the seating charts, and the perfect playlist. But what about things like cash tips for vendors? Extra money for welcome bag deliveries? Or travel costs you might not have budgeted for yet?These are the tiny, easy-to-overlook things that can catch couples by surprise — and today, I’m making sure that doesn’t happen to you.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

May 5, 2025 • 44min
193 | Lovely by Design: The New Rules of Wedding Dress Shopping with Erica Smith
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineToday we’re diving deep into the wedding gown shopping experience. From timelines and fittings to budgets, emotions, and expectations, we’re breaking it all down so you feel informed, confident, and excited about saying yes to the dress.I’m joined by Erica Smith, owner of Lovely Bride NYC, one of the most beloved bridal boutiques in the country. She’s here to walk us through what really goes into shopping for a wedding dress during these modern times —from timelines and fittings to budgets, expectations, and everything in between.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereLearn More About Lovely BrideFollow Erica on InstagramGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

Apr 28, 2025 • 37min
192 | Marriage Licenses, Name Changes, and Wedding Paperwork: What You Need to Know
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineToday we’re diving into one of those unglamorous but oh-so-necessary parts of wedding planning that no one really tells you about… post-wedding paperwork.I know, I know — after months of planning every little detail, the last thing you want to think about is documents and insurance and name changes. But hear me out. Getting everything sorted now is going to save you so much time and stress down the road — and your future self is going to thank you.We’re talking about everything from applying for your marriage license and understanding what documents you need before the big day, to name changes, updating your accounts, protecting your rings with jewelry insurance, and even covering your celebration with event insurance. And don’t worry — I’m going to make this easy and dare I say… kind of satisfying? So whether you’re a couple who just got engaged and want to get ahead of the curve, or you’ve already tied the knot and are wondering what comes next — this episode is your ultimate checklist of wedding paperwork.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

Apr 21, 2025 • 43min
191 | The State of Weddings in 2025 with Brittny Drye: Inclusivity, Trends, and Gen Z
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineInclusivity in weddings goes way beyond using the right language on your invitations. It’s about representation, intention, and creating a space where every couple—and every guest—feels seen, celebrated, and respected.To help us dig into what that really looks like in today’s wedding industry, we’re talking to Brittny Drye, Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Love Inc., a leading equality-minded wedding publication. In this episode, Brittny shares practical tips for planning inclusive celebrations, insights on Gen Z’s impact on the wedding world, and the trends that are here to stay (and the ones we’re ready to retire).Whether you're a couple planning your wedding or a wedding pro looking to grow with intention, this conversation is full of thoughtful takeaways you won’t want to miss.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereLearn More About Love IncFollow Brittny on InstagramGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

Apr 14, 2025 • 41min
190 | Wedding Planner vs. Venue Coordinator: What’s the Real Difference?
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineToday we’re talking about something that comes up all the time when I’m working with couples—and honestly, it’s one of the biggest sources of confusion when you’re planning a wedding: the difference between a wedding planner and a venue coordinator.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com

Apr 7, 2025 • 50min
189 | The Ultimate Guide to Wedding and Jewelry Insurance: Protect Your Big Day
Text the Wedding Planning HotlineWedding insurance isn’t about expecting the worst—it’s about making sure that if something unexpected happens, you’re covered. Because let’s face it—wedding planning is already stressful enough without worrying about losing thousands of dollars over something out of your control.To help us break it all down, today we’re talking to Dustin Lemick from BriteCo to answer all of our wedding and event insurance questions. Thank you also to today’s podcast sponsor, BriteCo insurance. As a planner, you all know how much we stress the importance of having a back-up plan and having insurance is similar in giving you that peace of mind and knowing your investement is protected. Visit BriteCo for a fast, free quote today and unlock peace of mind knowing you're covered: https://brite.co/asktheplanner/ Links Mentioned in the EpisodeFind the Full Shownotes HereGet a FREE quote from Brite CoGrab Our Day of Master OrganizerGrab Our Wedding Budget BundleGrab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situationVisit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop Connect with the show!📞 Leave us a Voicemail: (585) 210-9485 (New number!) IG: @asktheplannerpodcastTikTok: @asktheplannerpodcast💻: http://asktheplannerpodcast.com/💌: asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com