

Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Feb 26, 2021 • 53min
SEX: How to Have Good Sex When You're Touched Out by Kids
Many new parents face this common problem: being touched out by kids and unable to focus on sex. Here are some tips and pointers to remedy your situation! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 17, 2021 • 37min
FAMILY: Strategies, Tips & Tools for Emotional Growth in Kids
Today we talk to our very own kid, Tuff, about the strategies, tips, and tools for Emotional Growth in Kids! It was so amazing (and humbling) to be able to pick our kiddo’s brain about what was helpful and harmful during one of his biggest times as growth as a kid. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 15, 2021 • 22min
MARRIAGE: How to Talk to a Silent Spouse
Today we explore a very common issue in couples which is, how do I talk to my spouse if they are quiet?!This can drive couples BONKERS, especially if a chatty Kathy is married to a Silent Simon! In this show we offer solutions, tools and tips that should help even the quietest of partners to start happily yapping! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 10, 2021 • 21min
FAMILY: My Husband Fights with Our Kids - And I Hate It!
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your spouse is constantly fighting with one (or all) of your kids! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 8, 2021 • 23min
MARRIAGE: My Husband Teases Me in Front of Our Kids
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your husband teases you in front of your kids! We share advice on how to approach the subject with your partner, how to reframe the impact that teasing has on your family, and so much more. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 3, 2021 • 12min
FAMILY: 5 Tips for Virtual School
Y’all everyone has been on the Virtual School thing for SO LONG now, but just in case you find that your kids are still struggling we thought we would offer up a 5 tips that have helped ease the stress in our home! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Feb 1, 2021 • 50min
MARRIAGE: The Journey To Win with Tank
Today we explore what it actually takes to win at life with Tank. He shares how to stop lying to yourself and make the changes that truly matter the most in life. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jan 29, 2021 • 23min
SEX: HELP! My Husband is Addicted to Hookup Apps!
Welcome to Anatomy of Sex! This show is exclusive to members of our Patreon, with one episode a month shared publicly. Don't miss out! Sign up for Patreon today to get all future episodes: https://www.patreon.com/thestudleys Today we are talking about a VERY common marriage and relationship problem in the digital age, addictions to chat apps, hookup apps, sexting randos, and basically anything that has to do with being “virtually unfaithful.” We also share useful tools such as The Clearing Structure to help couples discuss this far too common problem. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jan 27, 2021 • 16min
FAMILY: Four Ways to Connect with Your Kids
Today we share simple ways to connect with your kids. We get lots of questions from parents saying that they didn’t grow up in a connected home and they just don’t know how to connect with their kids. Well, here it is! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Jan 25, 2021 • 54min
MARRIAGE: Hal Elrod & The Miracle Morning
Today Seth and I called up one of our heroes, Hal Elrod, author of The Miracle Morning, and probably one of the most influential people in saving and transforming our marriage. Hal shares how his death at the age of 20 was the pathway to the new mission-driven life that he now leads, and how beating cancer three years ago has only strengthened his desire to help those in need. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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