

Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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May 5, 2021 • 29min
FAMILY: Step In Where You Can
Each parent has different strengths, and today we talk about ways to work toward those strengths and to support each other in parenting. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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May 3, 2021 • 1h 10min
MARRIAGE: Growth Mindset, Marriage, Money, and Alcohol
Seth talks with our good friend, Paul Vedder, about the impact of having a growth mindset on his life and marriage, and his personal journey to change. Paul is an entrepreneur and co-founder of a business that did 2 million in revenue in 2020 and is projected to do 3 million in 2021. Seth talks with Paul about what it is like to be a business owner, to change deep-set thought patterns, and his storied relationship with alcohol. You're not gonna want to miss this raw and real episode. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 30, 2021 • 26min
SEX: Makin' Sex Tapes
Sometimes we 'get the juice' but our partner just isn't in the mood, or maybe they aren't with us. Times like these call for creating a good ol' $extape! P.S. If you are offended by this description, you are advised NOT to listen to this episode, and please don't subscribe to us on Patreon! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 28, 2021 • 30min
FAMILY: Creating a Shared Family Vision
Ever wanted to have a Family Vision but didn't know where to start? We share how to create a Family Vision, why they matter so much, and practical ways to implement SOPs around that vision! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 26, 2021 • 52min
MARRIAGE: The Big Leap with Gay Hendricks
We received the privilege of talking with one of our HEROES, Dr. Gay Hendricks, all about his life-changing book The Big Leap! LINKS https://hendricks.com/ https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 21, 2021 • 26min
FAMILY: Are You Ready to Grow Your Family?
How do you know when you're ready to grow your family? We answer a listener question all about when you know that you are ready to start a family. And y'all... it's complicated! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 19, 2021 • 18min
MARRIAGE: Holding Onto Old Hurts
Have you ever found yourself bringing up something hurtful that your spouse did 20 YEARS AGO?! I know I have. Today we are answering a listener question all about the destructive impacts of holding onto old hurts LONG after they have happened! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 14, 2021 • 23min
FAMILY: How To Deal with Kids' Explosive Behavior
Kids acting out in explosive behavior can be such a difficult situation for families (we know... we have been there!), so we share the tips, tricks, and tools that have helped us on this tricky journey. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 12, 2021 • 47min
MARRIAGE: Enneagram & Marriage
We had the pleasure of being interviewed on the wonderful Enneagram and Marriage show with Christa Hardin, and it was so eye-opening! She dug into our enneagram numbers, 7 wing 8, and 9, and y'all it was so good that we just HAD to share it with you! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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Apr 7, 2021 • 24min
FAMILY: Why "The Talk" Doesn't Work
It's time for. . . the dreaded "Sex Talk!" We examine why it doesn't work, and share tips and ideas for approaching age and stage-appropriate sexual education with your kiddos. And we promise it isn't scary when you do it this new way! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
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