

Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Aug 17, 2022 • 55min
I Want a Partnership NOT a Dictatorship!
Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when your partner doesn't want to work together.
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
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Aug 12, 2022 • 33min
I Need to Make Her Orgasm Every Time!
Today we discuss an issue that came up at the Men's Badass Husband Mastermind retreat - men wanting their wives to orgasm every time.
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 10, 2022 • 44min
Help! I'm Afraid of my Wife!
Today we talk about what to do if you are afraid of your wife! And wives. . . we tell you how NOT to be scary anymore!
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 3, 2022 • 60min
Weaponizing Family of Origin
Today we share how we were both unintentionally weaponizing elements of our Family of Origin.
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 27, 2022 • 47min
What the Hell are we Fighting About?!
In today's episode, we experience an Anatomy of Us first: Seth stopped our podcast mid-recording because he was upset, but as you guessed, we turned it around and didn't waste this opportunity to figure out what the hell was going on!
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 6, 2022 • 51min
Admired, Trusted, Accepted, Respected: What Men Desire From Women
Today we dive deeper into what men desire from women and how women can step up their game to get more of what they want from their men!
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 29, 2022 • 47min
Dirty Talk with Dan Purcell
Today we are sharing a conversation between Melanie and Dan Purcell all about Sexy Stories aka dirty talk!
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 22, 2022 • 1h 23min
Manifesting in Marriage
Today we discuss the idea of manifesting in your marriage! What does it look like, how do you do it, why do we make Vision Boards, and so much more!
LINKS:
Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 17, 2022 • 6min
We Have a New Course!
We have launched a new course called the Back to Basics Bootcamp available now!
This is a crash course on resolving the most common issues marriages run into and getting to the core of where that conflict comes from. Hint! Hint! It's most likely from your Family of Origin differences and Unspoken Expectations!
Grab the workbook and work through these to clarify these differences to heal and grow your relationship.
Get Back to the Basics in our new Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics
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Jun 15, 2022 • 1h 11min
What We Get Wrong About the Needs of Men
Today we take a deep and emotional dive into how women get it wrong when it comes to the needs of men. We also explore how we can change this as women and as a society.
LINKS:
Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching
Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com
Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/
https://anatomyofus.com/
https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus
High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching
To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices