LYSS

I am guilty of doing too much for the wrong person and I know I’m not the only one, so I wanted to dive a little bit into people pleasing and boundary setting in this episode. Plus, I have some insight on how toxic relationship can impact your physical health, so we are also talking about the signs to watch for and things I’ve learned from personal experience.Highlights of this episode: (2:00) - Feeling guilt about saying no (5:20) - Doing too much for the wrong guy (14:00) - The story of how I got sick from a toxic relationship (21:00) - If you’re not with the right person, your body will speak to you (29:50) - Low self esteem in a toxic relationship (32:00) - External validation from other people (35:00) - It’s never too late to find love and start over, including a cute true story time to inspire youIf you loved this episode, always feel free to send me a DM on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

Dating yourself - what does it REALLY mean? In today’s episode, I dive into why I think Valentine’s Day is a scam, why learning to love yourself is important regardless of your relationship status, and 50 ways to date yourself at any age. Learning the power of self-love and treating yourself to a day of fun with or without a partner is always a good idea. PS - this Valentine’s Day, I’ll be treating myself to a romantic dinner for one.  Feel free to message me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead and tell me how you’re celebrating!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

We all know how this story goes; You’re in love or like with someone but you’re holding on too tight. When you choose to let go of them, they sense it and try to come right back into your life. In this episode I build on how to take your POWER back after a breakup and talk about what being magnetic means, what letting go looks like and the empowerment you’ll feel when you experience the freedom of stepping into your higher self.Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

With the fresh start 2023 is giving us, it’s the perfect time to start attracting abundance and transforming into your best self. I share the stories of the power of manifesting in my own life and how you can harness your own power and manifest your dream life too! Have you heard about this lucky girl syndrome trend? I’m going to experiment with this over the next few months. I love hearing from you guys so if you want to do it with me, lets DM!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

It’s a big thing to be turning 30 and a lot has happened in the past couple of years to make me who I am today. This week I am talking about 30 things I learned before turning 30. I also wanted to say a belated Happy New Year and I’m so excited about getting listeners involved in the future of the podcast; bringing on guests and incorporating your topic suggestions!  Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

I’ve had a lot of hate over the years in my career and I have learned that I don’t need to prove myself to anyone. All of the energy I put into listening to what other people thought of me never helped me get anywhere. In this episode, I share some of these pivotal moments and tips I use to harness that energy to create an amazing life for myself. Pursue your passions and block out the noise – you are amazing!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

Detaching is an art that can be very emotionally challenging. Becoming aware of what is NOT serving your growth then letting go of it can make you MAGNETIC. This episode lays out the steps to detach in a healthy way and how I have applied them to relationships in my life. If this is a part of your journey, go easy on yourself. Detaching can be such a beautiful thing!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

Today we talk about the many reasons why you should raise your dating standards but what does it ACTUALLY mean to claim your power? You are not somebody’s backup plan! I share what I do to remember my worth and the shift that can happen when you learn how to show up for yourself and not tolerate shitty behavior. Once you love yourself so fucking much, you’ll attract someone that matches your love!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this situationship? As always, no pressure to jump out of a situationship if you’re loving where you’re at but if you want to address the pros and cons, we are talking expectations, standards, communication and genuine happiness. If your happiness is being compromised right now, remember that you deserve unconditional love and you are amazing! Thanks for listening!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube

If you’re dating a person based on a conceptualized version of them vs. the person they are consistently showing you that they are, I’ve been there. Today I am sharing my challenging experience with a narcissist and what I learned from it. Once you understand narcissistic personalities then start to turn inward to examine your worth, your transformation can begin!Connect with the Date Yourself Instead Movement: Website | InstagramConnect with Lyss: TikTok | Instagram | YouTube