The Viall Files

On today's episode of Ask Nick our first caller is in a rotating pattern with the same guy: they hook up, they try to define the relationship, and then they break up. She, however, keeps reaching out to him when she ends other relationships to hook up and needs to understand both of their choices. Our second caller was thrown into a long distance relationship because of school and is feeling like she is 100% in the relationship but feels like her partner is becoming distant. Third, we speak with someone who is divorced and jumping into the dating scene but is nervous that she is scaring people away with the expectations she is putting on people. Finally, cheating was the catalyst that broke our last caller up with her boyfriend and she is still trying to figure out what could make her feel better about the situation. "Date with low expectations…" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Article: http://www.article.com/VIALL to get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. Fable: http://www.fablehome.co use the code VIALL to take 10% off your first purchase Grove: http://www.grove.co/VIALL you will get to choose a FREE gift with your first order of $30 or more. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the Viall Files, Nick sits down once again with friend-of-the-show, the inspirational Tyler Merritt. Tyler and Nick don't hold back, diving right into Tyler's new book, I Take My Coffee Black, where he recounts hilarious stories from his life while weaving in lessons on privilege, the legacy of lynching and sharecropping, and so much more. In their raw conversation, Tyler shares with us his recent cross with cancer and some of the gut-wrenching moments he experienced while facing the truth of his diagnosis. The two go on to discuss how to keep anger in perspective, what Tyler does to protect his peace, and about the honest conversation he had with his new friend Chris Harrison. Tyler shows us how he defaults to love and why the question should always be, "how can I love this person better?" Grab a tissue, this one will tug at your heart strings. "If you make a mistake, I don't care who you are, you always have the opportunity to make it right." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Vizzy: http://www.vizzyhardseltzer.com/VIALL To find out where you can purchase Vizzy Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Tyler Merritt @TTMProject @thetylermerrittproject www.tylermerrittbook.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we recap Bachelor In Paradise with one of our recap staples Dave Holmes. Dave and Nick break down two nights of Paradise which is not an easy task with these drama filled episodes. They have your hot takes on everything from fights with Mari & Demi & Aaron & Thomas , Bachelorette Becca hitting the beach, Tia & Kendals arrivals, contestant exits, and couple changeups. So strap in cause there is a lot to cover. "Oh we are going to the 2021 Smoke , Show this year, they are going to debut the new smokes for the year…" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Hunt A Killer: http://www.HuntAKiller.com/VIALLFILES and use VIALLFILES, for 20% off your first box Fable: http://www.fablehome.co use the code VIALL to take 10% off your first purchase Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @daveholmes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on another edition of Ask Nick, we begin with someone who is into her neighbor and thinks she's been obvious about it but he still hasn't taken the bait. Should she be more direct or is he just not into it? Next, we talk to someone who is having trouble bringing up issues with her boyfriend for fear of being 'dramatic' or that it will turn into a fight. She learns, though, that the real struggle might be the power dynamic and that what she really needs is to be honest with herself. Then, we talk to someone who was kissed by her best friend who is now avoiding her. She's interested, but doesn't want to mess up their friendship. Finally, we talk to someone who caught her boyfriend lying to her and promptly broke up with him, but they work together and she still has feelings for him. Is it worth forgiving and trying again? You'll have to listen to find out. "Your boyfriend is not interested in being a boyfriend. He's interested in having a girlfriend, but there's a big difference." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Brooklinen - http://www.brooklinen.com promo code VIALL to shop the Labor Day savings event Ritual - http://www.ritual.com/VIALL For 10% off during your first 3 months Marley Spoon - http://www.MarleySpoon.com promo code VIALL for $100 of free food Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today Nick is joined by host of the Hoot & A Half podcast and popular internet phenom, the charming, Matt King. Nick and Matt jump right into it talking about how Matt overcame his fear of public speaking to become a competitive speech champion, how he moved past heartbreak to find love again, and how he got his girlfriend to stay interested at the start of dating. Matt also shares his thoughts on the recent David Dobrik news, if he's ever been jealous of others' success, and how his dad helped shape him into a curious person. "They don't need a life coach, they need a good life partner." THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Huzzah: http://www.huzzah.com code VIALL for 20% off Door Dash: download the DoorDash app in the App Store and enter code VIALL for 25% off, up to $10 value, and zero delivery fees on your first order. Noom: Start your trial at http://www.noom.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Matt King @mattrking Listen to Matt's podcasts: Hoot & a Half: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hoot-a-half-with-matt-king/id1511834329 Zane and Heath Unfiltered: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/zane-and-heath-unfiltered/id1478746415 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the Bachelor in Paradise recap Nick is joined by the one, the only: Lance Bass. With a lot happening, Lance and Nick have much to talk about so they jump right in discussing Demi's pot-stirring antics, his thoughts on the hard-to-read Brendan, and whether Thomas might be a tiny bit of a sociopath. They also discuss Connor's country music, Marissa's sex-positivity, and Riley's awesome swag. Lance shares how this is a dream come true job, how he talked boy bands with Kenny, and his personal top guys and girls. Settle in, we have a lot to cover. "If a cat could make out, that's what a cat would make out like." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: PAYPAL: Go to http://www.paypal.com/VIALL to earn $10 cashback FABLE HOME: Head over to http://www.FABLEHOME.co and use the code VIALL to take 10% off your first purchase Episode Socials: @viallfiles@nickviall@lancebass - Insta @lance - Tik Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we begin with a woman who never got a DNA test on her daughter to find out which of the two men she slept with was her father. Years later she is realizing that it's not who she thought it was and doesn't know if she should to tell him. Our next caller knows he is addicted to porn and has found his dream girl but knows his addiction is getting in the way of their relationship and he is ready to do what it takes to not lose her. Third, we speak with a gentleman who is starting to notice some co-dependency issues in his relationship. Finally, we speak with someone who was in a situationship but she considered it to be a relationship. When she tried to leave the relationship he would go back and forth on his feelings to keep her in his life. "It's like Titanic every Sunday night, like I will never let go…" Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp: http://www.betterhelp.com/VIALLFILES Viall Files listeners get 10% off their first month UNTUCKit: http://www.UNTUCKit.com Use code VIALL for 20% off your first purchase Grove: http://www.grove.co/VIALL you will get to choose a FREE gift with your first order of $30 or more. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are joined by CNCO. CNCO is a Multi-platinum and Latin Grammy nominated boy band racing up the charts and they are opening up and sharing more about their lives with us like they never have before. The guys sit with Nick to discuss losing a member of their band, heart break, relationship boundaries, sliding into DM's, trying to find love, what they are looking for in girl, insecurities, and being a family that can lean on each other no matter what comes their way. "We created a family here … " Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Each & Every: http://www.eachandevery.com/VIALL use promo code VIALL30 for 30% off your first purchase. Canva: http://www.canva.me/VIALL to get your FREE 45-day extended trial. Shipstation: http://shipstation.com enter offer code VIALL to get a 60-day free trial. That's 2 months FREE of no-hassle, stress-free shipping. MasterClass: http://www.masterclass.com/VIALL for 15% off MasterClass Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @cncomusic See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we recap Bachelor In Paradise with television personality and friend of show Cathy Kelley. Nick and Cathy cover all the hot button topics in Paradise including David Spade, Karl & Victoria's first impressions on the beach, age differences, grocery story Joe, and Tre's uncle!. Then they dive in on whether they thought any of the couples spoke before the show and their predictions for who they think could be candidates for the next Bachelor. It's another breakdown you don't want to miss. "…Its just Game Of Thrones up in here. " Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Marley Spoon: http://www.marleyspoon.com use promo code VIALL to get $100 off over your first four orders. Pill Club: http://www.thepillclub.com/VIALL The Pill Club is offering a $10 donation to Bedsider.org for every Viall Files listener who becomes a patient. Your donation will help low-income individuals get access to birth control through Bedsider.org. Chime: http://www.chime.com/VIALL Join the millions on Chime. Signup takes two minutes, and doesn't affect your credit score! Each & Every: http://www.eachandevery.com/VIALL and use code VIALL30 for 30% OFF your first purchase. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @cathykelley See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we begin with a woman whose boyfriend accidentally texted her porn which led to a serious discussion about porn and their relationship. Our second caller broke up with her boyfriend when his ego and lack of empathy for other people started to take a toll on their relationship. Next, we speak with a woman who was confused when she and her boyfriend stopped having sex and he kept coming up with excuses on why he did not want to be intimate. Now that they are broken up he is looking for closure but she has moved on and is wondering if she needs to give it to him. Our final caller started dating someone and he ended it with her saying that he works with one of her family members so it makes it too difficult to date. Is he just not into her? "No real relationship starts until you know how he is with you at his worst. " Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. For merch please visit www.viallfiles.com today! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Beam: http://www.beamtlc.com/Viall If you want better sleep and better days delivered every month, subscribe to dream for awesome perks like free delivery and 35% off your first month. Ritual: http://www.ritual.com/VIALL Ritual offers a money-back guarantee if you're not 100% in love. Plus, our listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months. Headspace: http://www.headspace.com/VIALL FREE ONE-MONTH TRIAL with access to Headspace's full library of meditations for every situation. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.