

The Impossible Life
Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach
God created men in the greatness of His image. Yet so many men are weak, lost, confused, and afraid. The Impossible Life is a rally cry for men to wake up and remember who they’re made to be. Former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach and marketing expert Nick Surface challenge men to rise above mediocrity and embrace their true purpose. Through Biblically-based content & training, they help men become the strong, fearless leaders they were made to be. Future generations need great men now. Are you one of them?
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Apr 10, 2025 • 23min
197. How to Be a Great Husband: 3 Steps to Your Dream Marriage
Being a great husband is part of being all that God made you to be as a man. Your wife is a gift to you and the Bible even says she is favor from the Lord. So the question for every man is, "How are you treating your favor?"In this episode, we give 3 steps to be a great husband and foster the marriage of your dreams. That may sound overly simple, but it comes with some prerequisite understanding. If you're a man that wants to have a marriage that is beyond anything you can ask, think, or imagine, listen to this episode and follow the steps.Having a great marriage is hard. Having a terrible marriage is harder. You decide.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Click here to listen to the episode on self leadership.Click here to get the 5 Love Languages on Amazon.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Apr 7, 2025 • 58min
196. Three Superpowers Only Followers of Christ Have
Followers of Christ are set apart and have the Spirit of God in them which sounds like the ultimate advantage. Yet, so often we see Christians portrayed as hypocritical, weak, boring, and not making any impact in the earth. Something is missing.In this episode, we look at what's possible for followers of Christ and talk about 3 practical advantages we have because of following God and His principles. This is not a theoretical episode where we tell you how things "should be", but rather show you these super powers working practically to give you an unmatchable advantage. We also talk about what God's leadership looks like, stereotypes of Christians, the need for certainty, and what it looks like to actually walk in faith. This episode will inspire you and enlarge your thinking about what it means to follow after God and who He made you to be.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Apr 3, 2025 • 20min
195. Increase Your Faith: Biblical Strategies for Overcoming Doubt
Doubt can creep into anyone's life, but the Bible provides the template for increasing faith and overcoming doubt. In this episode, we explore key biblical themes and practical strategies to help you defeat doubt. We also look at the "rules of the game" for following God so we can understand what our responsibility is.This episode will give you the practical steps so you can align yourself with God's word, recall His track record in your life, and practice gratitude to cultivate a stronger, more resilient faith.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more. Click here to get Tony Robbins priming exercise.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 31, 2025 • 52min
194. Rewrite Your Identity: How to Change Your Life's Story
Do you feel stuck in your life's narrative? This episode dives into the power of changing your identity story. Learn how your past experiences shape your present, and discover practical steps to reframe your perspective, take control of your future, and create a life aligned with your true potential. Uncover the connection between your beliefs, your story, and your ability to transform.This episode is powerful and while we don't claim to rewrite your identity in a short 45 minute episode, your understanding will be unlocked and you can begin to dive into identity and shaping the story of your life.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Hear Garrett's life story episode we referenced by clicking here.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 27, 2025 • 27min
193. Overcoming Lust: How to Reclaim Intimacy and Connection in Your Marriage
Lust can rob you of the fulfilling intimacy and connection God designed for marriage. This podcast offers honest talk and actionable steps for married couples seeking to overcome lust, strengthen their bond, and experience a more satisfying relationship. Learn how to prioritize your spouse, address the cost of lust, and create a marriage centered on Christ.Tools and tactics episodes give you the practical steps you need. These are rooted in scripture, proven, and easy to follow. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 24, 2025 • 52min
192. The Training Plan for Greatness: 5 Qualities for Living An Impossible Life
In this episode, Nick and Garrett discuss the essential qualities needed to maximize personal growth and achieve one's God-given purpose. Inspired by a listener's question, they draw parallels between physical training and life development, emphasizing that mastering the basics is crucial before pursuing greatness. We highlight five key qualities that require no talent but are fundamental for success: a desire to grow, a willingness to learn, patience, hope, and having a relationship with Christ. We use the analogy of SEAL training to illustrate the importance of mastering these foundational elements, which they compare to the "basics" that soldiers must possess before advanced training. We emphasize that cultivating these qualities will not only enhance the listener's experience with the podcast but also significantly improve their approach to life. We also give the how to's to implement this and the steps you MUST take to fulfill your purpose and truly live an Impossible Life.If there was an episode that we'd want everyone to listen to before they dive deep on the podcast, this would be it.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 20, 2025 • 22min
191. How to Stop Losing Your Temper - Tools And Tactics
Anger and losing your temper is very common despite the destructive impact it can have. In some ways, it is almost glorified particularly in men and seen as something that makes you powerful when in fact anger means you lost control and you are at your weakest.In this episode, we break down where anger comes from, the real impact it has on your life, and give you the exact process to take control and stop losing your temper. Anger is not a sin and everyone gets anger. Giving in to your anger and allowing it to control you makes you a fool. Don't miss this episode.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 17, 2025 • 31min
190. The Making of a Godly Man Part 3 - Leadership
In the last of our 3 part series, we focus on the function of leadership and God's design for men to lead. We contrast this with the default thinking of leadership being superior and instead look at the model Jesus provides for leadership.We talk about the beliefs and mindset, practical application, and skills needed so you can understand who God has made you to be. We also look at specific scenarios where leadership is more challenging as well as the part a leader plays to enable others to play their part at the highest level.If you want more on Leadership, we did a 3 part series just on leadership:Click here to start that series where we focus on self leadership.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 13, 2025 • 47min
189. The Making of a Godly Man Part 2 - Weight Bearing & Seed Sowing
In part 2, we get into specific functions of a Godly man with the focus being seed sowing and weight bearing. As a man, you're made to work and carry weight according to God's design. This is in sharp contrast to a society where retiring early is "living the dream". We go into the specific beliefs needed for this, the rewards, what you must do, and the price of not bearing weight. We also look at the function of seed sowing for men. Far more than sowing a physical seed for reproduction or farming, this is an understanding of what it looks like to live transformationally.We cover what it is, how to use discernment and wisdom to sow great seed and the importance of alignments among many other things.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.

Mar 10, 2025 • 46min
188. The Making of a Godly Man Part 1 - The Foundation
The vision of the Impossible Life is to change the perception of what it means to be a Godly man. God created men in his image with a mandate to do the work he's been given and bring about God's plans on the earth. This requires strength, tenacity, and a deep relationship with God. However this is not what we see among Christian men today.In this episode, we dive deep into the vision of the Impossible Life and pain our picture of the possible of a Godly man as we read it in the Bible. We give the lay of the land and discuss the need for men to rise up and fulfill their God given mandate. We will then get into the 3 roles that Godly men are uniquely designed to play. In this first of a 3 part series, we lay the foundation for understanding God's intent and design in man, the requirement of being submitted to God, and the understanding of maturity, purpose, and process.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.Support The Impossible Life & Get Additional Insider Content by clicking here.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here. Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Join our small group and accelerate your personal growth. Click here to learn more.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelifeYouTube - @TheImpossibleLifePodcastFacebook - @theimpossiblelifepodcastemail - info@theimpossible.lifeApply for our Mindset Mastery Scholarship by clicking here.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.