

The Impossible Life
Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach
God created men in the greatness of His image. Yet so many men are weak, lost, confused, and afraid. The Impossible Life is a rally cry for men to wake up and remember who they’re made to be. Former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach and marketing expert Nick Surface challenge men to rise above mediocrity and embrace their true purpose. Through Biblically-based content & training, they help men become the strong, fearless leaders they were made to be. Future generations need great men now. Are you one of them?
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Sep 18, 2025 • 31min
243. The Regardless Way of Living: No Excuses, No Compromises
What does it mean to be a “regardless person”?It means you show up, obey God, and live with conviction—regardless of how you feel, regardless of the cost, and regardless of the circumstances. In a culture built on compromise and convenience, few men live with this kind of strength and consistency.In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick unpack what it looks like to build a regardless spirit—a way of living that doesn’t waver with moods, setbacks, or opposition. This conversation will challenge you to move past excuses, stop negotiating with your faith, and start living as a man God can count on in every season.In This Episode You’ll Learn:Why most people’s faith collapses when feelings fadeThe power of living by principle, not circumstanceHow to develop a warrior’s mindset of obedienceWhy excuses kill destiny and how to silence themThe freedom that comes from being fully committed—no matter whatIf you’re ready to stop wavering and start walking with unshakable conviction, this episode will give you the tools and fire to live as a regardless man.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Sep 15, 2025 • 54min
242. The Warrior's Response to Tragedy: After The Loss of Charlie Kirk
No man plans for tragedy—but every man will face it.The question is not if but how you’ll respond when life blindsides you.In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick take on the heavy reality of loss, heartbreak, and the unexpected trials that test our faith. Sparked by the recent tragedy with Charlie Kirk, this conversation goes deep into how Warriors respond when faced with tragedy.You'll learn what a warrior is, what defines his pursuit of destiny, and why Jesus is the ultimate example of a warrior. We also look at mission focus and the need to understand what's really at stake in your life. There is a lot of reaction to the loss of Charlie Kirk. While his tragic death sparked this episode, this is an episode to guide you through any tragedy so you can stand strong, stay connected to purpose, and continue to follow Jesus even in the darkest times.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Sep 11, 2025 • 40min
241. Fear God or Fear Everything Else - You Decide
“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” You’ve probably heard that verse before—but what does it really mean? Is it about being scared of God, or is it something much deeper?In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Josh Craft dive into one of the most misunderstood biblical concepts: the fear of God. From Philippians’ call to “work out your salvation with fear and trembling” to Solomon’s conclusion in Ecclesiastes, we unpack why reverence and awe for God are essential for every Christian man who wants to live with wisdom, strength, and integrity. You’ll discover:Why “fear of the Lord” is not about being afraid, but about living in reverence, awe, and submission.How history shows what happens when people lose their awe of God.The connection between fearing God and building true wisdom, strength, and leadership in your life.Practical ways to live with reverence every day—in your home, your work, your marriage, and your walk with God.This conversation will challenge complacency, sharpen your perspective, and call you to a higher way of living. If you want wisdom that endures, this episode will show you where it begins.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Sep 8, 2025 • 59min
240. The Beliefs That Build Warriors (and the Ones That Break Them)
What you believe will determine how you live, the risks you take, and the future you build. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach dive deep into the unseen power of belief.From how beliefs are formed in childhood to how they guide your choices in adulthood, this conversation explores why some men rise to challenges while others shrink back. Garrett shares raw stories from Navy SEAL training, Nick talks about the weight of everyday struggles, and together they reveal how godly beliefs can turn trials into opportunities. You’ll hear:Why beliefs are the foundation of your identityThe difference between beliefs you say you have and beliefs you live outHow to turn failure into fuel instead of letting it define youInspiring stories of strength, faith, and God’s plan in the middle of adversityIf you’ve ever wrestled with doubt, struggled with fear, or questioned if you’re strong enough for the life God has called you to, this episode will give you clarity, conviction, and courage to stand firm on truth.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Sep 4, 2025 • 27min
239. When Nice Guys Make Weak Men: The Truth About Kindness
Our culture says kindness is about being nice, agreeable, and making people feel good. But what if that definition is actually making men weak? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Garrett tackle the misunderstood fruit of the Spirit—kindness.They dive into the original Greek meaning of the word, chrestotes, which points to being useful, beneficial, and fit for service. Real kindness isn’t about avoiding hard truths—it’s about speaking life, giving what’s needed (not just what feels good), and helping people grow even when it stings.From mountain hikes and brotherly banter to biblical examples like Jesus and the rich young ruler, this conversation will challenge your view of kindness and equip you to live it out God’s way. What you’ll learn in this episode:Why cultural kindness is about feelings but biblical kindness is about purpose.How to discern when telling hard truth is real love.Why being “liked” is a poor substitute for being useful.Practical ways men can embody Spirit-led kindness in their homes, friendships, and leadership.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Sep 1, 2025 • 47min
238. Both vs Balance: Why Great Men Refuse to Choose
In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface challenge one of the most common cultural myths: work-life “balance.” Instead of trying to carefully divide your time, energy, and priorities into equal portions, Garrett and Nick show why true greatness comes from embracing both—not balance. From faith to family, fitness to career, men often feel pressure to sacrifice one area to succeed in another. But as Garrett says, “I don’t like the idea that my family only wins when my business loses. I’m not playing that game.” Drawing from biblical truth, personal discipline, and hard-won life experience, they reveal:Why “balance” often leads to mediocrity and compromise.How God Himself models the both mindset as both love and law.The difference between what’s finite (time, money, energy) and what’s abundant.Practical wisdom for pursuing success in multiple areas without settling.How asking the right questions—“What will it take to achieve both?”—transforms your mindset.This conversation is a bold invitation to stop settling for balance and start pursuing abundance. As Garrett reminds, “The standard you set determines whether you live in compromise or rise to your calling.”Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Aug 28, 2025 • 31min
237. How to Start Building Unshakable Identity Immediately
Most men don’t have a weakness of skill—they have a weakness of self.Your identity shapes your future, and your attitude is the evidence of what you really believe.In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down the powerful connection between identity and attitude, and why so many men sabotage themselves without realizing it. Through personal stories, biblical truth, and even lessons from psychology, they reveal how your beliefs, values, and daily choices either reinforce—or erode—the man you are becoming.If you’ve ever wrestled with self-doubt, inconsistency, or feeling like your actions don’t line up with who you want to be, this episode will help you recognize the blind spots and chart a clear path toward strength and clarity.Donate for someone to take part in Mindset Mastery by clicking here. A gift of as little as $20 goes a long way.Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.Apply to join Giant Killers here if you're a man that wants real accountability and training to become a leader.Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.GET IN TOUCHAdvertise on the podcast by clicking here.Growth focused content - https://www.theimpossible.life/blog.Sign up for our Mission Ready Mindset Once-A-Week Motivational EmailInstagram - @theimpossiblelife

Aug 25, 2025 • 56min
236. Strong Men Don’t Happen by Accident: The Vision Unlock
Many men drift through life without a clear vision, but the strongest have a defined purpose that guides their choices. The discussion highlights how figures like Michelangelo in creating David and the camaraderie of Navy SEALs illustrate the importance of identity. Humor and anecdotes complement deeper themes of masculine strength, fatherhood, and personal growth. Emphasizing that resilience is rooted in both mental fortitude and faith, the speakers urge listeners to cultivate a vision that shapes their lives in meaningful ways.

Aug 21, 2025 • 34min
235. How To Face Hard Times Without Breaking
Life is unpredictable, throwing challenges our way without warning. The hosts discuss strategies for developing resilience, emphasizing a proactive mindset and viewing hardships as growth opportunities. Insights from Bruce Lee and Navy SEAL tactics highlight practical approaches like breath control and visualization. Personal stories illustrate the importance of mature coping mechanisms and avoiding impulsive decisions during tough times. Embrace adversity as a chance for transformation, fostering gratitude and a forward-thinking perspective.

Aug 18, 2025 • 48min
234. Seven Surefire Ways to Waste Your Life (And How to Avoid Them)
Explore seven common traps that subtly derail men's lives, from distractions to compromises. Discover how to transform these pitfalls into opportunities for growth and fulfillment. The hosts delve into the impact of technology on life satisfaction and stress the significance of genuine prayer and community. Personal stories highlight the value of commitment in relationships, showcasing how long-term goals lead to true fulfillment. The discussion also emphasizes overcoming addiction and the power of forgiveness for personal transformation.