

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Apr 24, 2019 • 37min
A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary
We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a better ally and how gender identity can be confusing no matter how you feel.Listen to Caitlin & co-host Amrou’s NB podcast on BBC Sounds for more.& A Non Binary is the second in our series learning more about other identities and sexualities. You can listen to our previous episode & A Trans.---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.comMug someone off at our shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 17, 2019 • 19min
Consent
Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for sex?---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 2019 • 22min
Dorchester
We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London.---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 2019 • 15min
Burnout
Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons.Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 2019 • 16min
Eau d'amour
Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 19, 2019 • 15min
Kebab Awards
There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out.For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and invite us to the Whale of the Year Awards at us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 2019 • 20min
0121
What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship? We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 2019 • 18min
Exclusively Gay
How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan--We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 27, 2019 • 14min
Destroyers
Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.--We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 20, 2019 • 18min
A Technicality
Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean?---We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices