

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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May 19, 2021 • 14min
Cheugy
Dan and James are both fed up with Lewis Capaldi being straight/boring. Plus is James cheugy?Get tickets to our Big Gay Show, visit www.gaynongay.com!Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 12, 2021 • 20min
James' Bum
James has posted his bum all over the internet, there's a Things Dan Cannot Say and a big gay announcement about our Big Gay Show!!!For more details check out gaynongay.comGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 5, 2021 • 16min
Be Your Own Ally
James had had an awakening, and we discuss Fat Mike's lack of showering.Support our podcast at www.gaynongay.com/donate.Buy our merch www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 28, 2021 • 33min
Sex, Drugs and Richard Coles
Britain's favourite priest Richard Coles joins us to chat about partying in Ibiza in his 20's, being openly gay in the church and his late husband's battle with alcoholism. We LOVE this episode!"God has no problem with (being gay) at all, the institution may have. You just have to live your life. God loves you, as you are, doing what you do".Join our family and support our podcast, visit www.gaynongay.com/donate.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 21, 2021 • 12min
Gender Reveal
James is causing drama in his family WhatsApp group. Dan doesn't want to talk about Fat Mike.Thanks for listening to our podcast today, join our chosen family at www.gaynongay.com/donate. Kisses. Mwah.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 14, 2021 • 26min
Say Yes To The Cross-Dress - with Fat Mike of NOFX
Dan and James are joined from California by legendary punk rocker Fat Mike of NOFX. This is an explicit episode.It's quite the ride through BDSM, cross-dressing, sex dungeons, live-in sex slaves and being abandoned by your friends.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 7, 2021 • 15min
Is Metal homophobic?
It's two weeks since the final of RuPaul's Drag Race and James refuses to credit Dan with correctly predicting the winner (spoiler free)! Plus, is metal homophobic? Dan and James discuss the reaction to metal star Roddy Bottum's proudly gay 'Man On Man' album cover.Support our podcast and help us to create more meaningful conversations, visit www.gaynongay.com/donate to become our patreon.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 31, 2021 • 24min
A Gay and a NonGay - with Louise!
Singer, icon and LGBTQ+ ally Louise Redknapp joins us on A Gay and a NonGay today. We talk about the importance of her LGBTQ+ fans, playing alongside Britney, and how her mum thinks her gay friends are why she’s single. She also offers her support for the transgender community on International Day of Transgender Visibility.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 26, 2021 • 25min
1000 Days
It's 1000 days since the U.K government promised to ban conversion therapy but still hasn't. James and Dan reflect on their BBC Radio 1 documentary 'Tell It: From Gay to NonGay' and chat to the co-director of CURED, a BFI Flare Festival documentary about the activists who brought about a 1973 victory in the movement for LGBTQ equality: the American Psychiatric Association’s decision to remove homosexuality from its manual of mental illnesses. Bennett Singer's movie perfectly explains that to 'cure' LGBQ+ people, we only need to be accepted.So why do Church and religion play a huge role in perpetuating stigma, discrimination and physical harm towards people because of their sexuality?We witnessed this trauma when we interviewed former Christian singer Vicky Beeching during our series about gay conversion therapy, 'Tell It: From Gay to NonGay?' and thanks to BBC Sounds, you can hear an incredibly moving preview from our series in today's episode.It's not an overly triggering episode, but we will issue a low-key trigger warning here just to be safe.Email us about 'conversion therapy' at any time, we're here to help - us@gaynongay.comLINKS:Listen to our BBC Sounds series. Search 'Tell It: From Gay To NonGay' in BBC Sounds or your fave pod app. You can also visit bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p099dnbwFor more information and support on any of the issues discussed, visit some of our friends and organisations at gaynongay.com/resourcesCURED is available UK-wide as part of BFI Flare: London LGBTIQ+ Film Festival until 28 March at bfi.org.uk/flare and find out more about the documentary at cureddocumentary.comGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 17, 2021 • 18min
Iconic Women
Women are not safe. James and Dan chat about the toxic behaviour of some straight men towards women and James realises how our shame prevents us from speaking out. Plus Dan wants gays to stop calling everything 'iconic'.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices