
The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
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Oct 29, 2024 • 49min
From Solitary Confinement to A Pulitzer Prize with Suave Gonzalez—Artist, Podcaster, Fighter
At the age of 17, Suave was arrested, tried as an adult, and found guilty. The mandatory minimum, at that time in the state of Pennsylvania, was life in prison. Before he was even old enough to vote, register for military service, or smoke, Suave was shipped away for life. While in prison, something began to shift in him. This rebellious, angry, and illiterate kid went on to learn to read, earn multiple college degrees, and even start a scholarship for the children of incarcerated individuals. Then, a miracle: nearly 15 years after his trial, a landmark court decision meant his case could be heard again—with the chance that Suave could be free. His story of survival, courage, and growth is remarkable, and the definition of aggressive.
Check out the Pulitzer Prize winning podcast that tells his story, "Suave," wherever you listen to podcasts.

Oct 22, 2024 • 1h 9min
Grace Feels Like Getting Hit By a Train with Joby Martin—Hunter, Author, Pastor
Joby Martin pastors one of the largest, and fastest growing, churches in the world. And, at the end of the day, he’s still a normal guy who loves hunting, his family, and his dogs. With a remarkable ability to make complex spiritual truths accessible, Joby turns his eye toward grace. It’s the bedrock of Chrirstian faith, and yet remains one of the most misunderstood, misapplied, and abused concepts. With stories around hunting, rescuing his dogs, and martial arts, Joby unpacks the 9 essential truths about grace, and why experiencing true grace feels like getting hit by a train. This is one you don’t want to miss.

Oct 15, 2024 • 54min
Rogan, Junger, and Lessons From Dying with John Burke—NDE Researcher & Expert
In the summer of 2020, best-selling author Sebastian Junger nearly died. He was rushed to the hospital, and while medical personnel administered emergency care, he slipped out of consciousness. It was then he began to see, and experience, things that he had a hard time explaining. The medical staff were successful, and Junger’s life was saved. Junger recently published his reflections on his near-death experience in a new book, “In My Time of Dying.” After hearing Junger interviewed on the Joe Rogan Experience, Brian wanted to dissect the conversation with NDE researcher and expert, John Burke. The close friends sit down to discuss what can be learned from Junger’s experience, and how it can influence our lives today.
This is the 4th episode in a series around near-death experiences. Access past episodes below:
Episode 1 - What Happens When We Die? with John Burke (Spotify | Apple)
Episode 2 - What Happens When We Die? Q&A with John Burke (Spotify | Apple)
Episode 3 - Meeting God on the Other Side with John Burke (Spotify | Apple)

Oct 8, 2024 • 1h 3min
Walking on the Moon with Astronaut Charlie Duke—Apollo 16 Moonwalker
Only 12 men have ever set foot on the moon—in April 1972, Charlie Duke became the youngest among them. At the age of 36, Charlie was part of Apollo 16, spending nearly 3 days on the lunar surface collecting rocks, taking soil samples, and driving the lunar rover. And that’s only a small part of his incredibly aggressive life. From his involvement with the first lunar landing, to helping with Apollo 13, to the aggressiveness that keeps him working hard into his 90s, General Duke is a real American hero. His story and perspective will launch you forward.

Oct 1, 2024 • 30min
Fighting For New Ground - Live at MAN CAMP 2024
When you try to take new ground, it means one thing: there will be a fight. Recorded under the big tent at MAN CAMP 2024, Brian unpacks the story of Caleb, who kept pushing for the high ground even into his 80s. No matter where you are in life, you aren’t finished yet. Keep fighting.
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Sep 29, 2024 • 34min
Bonus: MAN CAMP 2024 - Songs & Stories
It's Sunday, and 3,000 guys are heading home from a MAN CAMP for the record books—more rain, more laughter, more mud, and more lives changed than ever before. This bonus episode features a mix of live worship, and stories collected in the Story Shitter.
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Sep 24, 2024 • 54min
2024 MAN CAMP On-Ramp: TB Monkeys, New Land, and Getting the Most Out of the Weekend with 512 & Windex—MC Cofounders
MAN CAMP 2024 is just days away. With more men heading to camp than ever before, MAN CAMP cofounders Judd Watkins (512) and Craig Dockery (Windex) join Brian for a hilarious and insightful conversation designed to get everyone up to speed. In a hour, they manage to cover everything from the exotic wildlife that used to call MAN CAMP home, to what to pack (and what to avoid), to tips for making the weekend count. Whether you’re attending MAN CAMP or not, this is conversation not to be missed.

Sep 17, 2024 • 45min
NASCAR’s Pit Crew Pastor with Donnie Floyd—Hendrick Motorsports
At every fork in the road, it seems Donnie Floyd has made the aggressive move. From choosing to not become a victim of a childhood Tourette’s diagnosis, to serving in the military, to a dream job as part of the crew at Hendrick Motorsports, NASCAR’s premier racing team, each choice has paid dividends into his life. When tragedy struck the Hendrick team, Donnie found himself pastoring his coworkers, eventually leading to a job as the team chaplain. Donnie’s aggressive story will have you considering where you are selling yourself short, and convince you to get back behind the wheel.

Sep 10, 2024 • 60min
Your AI Questions Answered with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Will AI take my job? How does AI funding affect the output? Will AI have a role to play in the church? How are you personally leveraging AI to make your life more effective?
These are just a handful of the AI questions you wanted answered. Alongside AI expert and entrepreneur, Chad Reynolds, Brian talks about the impact of AI on his life, his faith, and the future. If you are fearful about AI, overjoyed at the possibilities, or somewhere in between, this aggressive Q&A episode will push you to keep moving forward.

Sep 3, 2024 • 1h 4min
Microskills To A More Connected Life with Lakshmi Rengarajan—Dating and Connection Expert
In our world it’s become easier and easier to meet… but more and more difficult to actually connect. A leader in both modern dating culture and workplace connection, Lakshmi Rengarajan unpacks the surprisingly simple ways to live a more connected life—from asking for help, to borrowing items, to investing in Tupperware. She’s an energetic and aggressive guest with wisdom that can change that state of your relationships today.
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