

Not Today, Pal with Jamie-Lynn Sigler and Robert Iler
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Former TV siblings from The Sopranos, Robert Iler and Jamie-Lynn Sigler host this comedy podcast. The pair are polar opposite personalities, yet somehow have managed to remain best friends. Jamie is a complete sweetheart and Rob is a real-life Oscar the Grouch. Each week, Rob presents segments and questions prepared for Jamie to further demonstrate how differently they think, giving a deeper look into their dynamic relationship and finding hilarious ways for two people who are so different to find common ground.
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May 22, 2025 • 44min
Behind the Scenes of The Sopranos: Steve Grillo Tells All | Not Today, Pal
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On this episode of Not Today Pal, Jamie and Rob go off the rails in the best way. Rob’s seriously considering sleeping in a dog bed (and somehow making it sound appealing), Jamie talks parenting burnout, and “Uncle Rob” shares what it was like babysitting her kids.
The episode also features a hilarious and nostalgic call with Steve Grillo — Rob’s stand-in from The Sopranos — as they talk behind-the-scenes moments from the set and Steve’s brand-new book, Gorilla in the Mist: Parts Unknown.
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Plus: Rob revisits a wild video with Crackhead Bob from the Howard Stern Show, and introduces Jamie to the gym sheriff himself — Joey Swole, the internet’s top gym-influencer enforcer.
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Not Today, Pal Ep. 95
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:07 - People Sleeping In Dog Beds
00:03:13 - Give The Parents A Break
00:04:29 - No More Wiping
00:07:08 - Uncle Rob
00:15:00 - Rob's Stand In
00:16:15 - Steve Grillo Call
00:21:25 - Joining Sopranos
00:26:59 - Rob and Crack-Head Bob
00:30:06 - Steve Sleeping In Meadows Bed
00:31:57 - Joey Swole
00:38:50 - Memory Lane
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May 15, 2025 • 53min
Rob Killed It On Bad Thoughts | Not Today, Pal
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This week on Not Today Pal, Rob and Jamie are back with a jam-packed episode that dives into everything from childhood school lunches to adult frustrations—like group photos and room dividers (Rob’s really fired up!). Rob reflects on his re-entry into acting after the two revisit a local screening of Bad Thoughts while sharing their own reactions to the newly launched series.
Jamie’s fresh off a girls’ trip—and exhausted from too much talking—and shares how her career day presentation at their son’s school totally flopped. The duo also relive some cringey cafeteria memories and tackle another voicemail from Johnny Questions. Things get deeper when Jamie opens up about her past struggles with eating disorders and her ongoing journey with weight and body image issues. They also touch on Love on the Spectrum, misconceptions about autism, and how meeting your heroes might actually be the move—just ask Beau! Plus: a Japanese surprise, more childhood nostalgia, Cutter’s texting habits, and more. It’s a wild ride of laughter, honesty, and total chaos—just the way you like it.
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Not Today, Pal Ep. 94
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro
00:00:55 - Thoughts On "Bad Thoughts" + Rob's Acting
00:07:45 - Japanese Not Today Pal
00:09:57 - School Lunches + Love On The Spectrum
00:18:47 - Voicemail: Johnny Questions Again
00:22:02 - The Worst School Lunch + Beau Meeting Parker McCollum
00:26:51 - Rob Is Heated
00:36:51 - Memory Lane + Rob & Jamie's First Meeting
00:42:48 - Eating Disorder Struggle
00:50:55 - Wrap Up
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May 12, 2025 • 1min
Welcome to Not Today, Pal with Robert Iler and Jamie-Lynn Sigler
Former TV siblings from The Sopranos, Robert Iler and Jamie-Lynn Sigler host this comedy podcast. The pair are polar opposite personalities, yet somehow have managed to remain best friends. Jamie is a complete sweetheart and Rob is a real-life Oscar the Grouch. Each week, Rob presents segments and questions prepared for Jamie to further demonstrate how differently they think, giving a deeper look into their dynamic relationship and finding hilarious ways for two people who are so different to find common ground. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 8, 2025 • 1h 9min
Living Life As A Fake Strip Club DJ w/ Big Jay Oakerson | Not Today, Pal
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This week on Not Today Pal, Rob and Jamie are joined by comedian and one-third of Legion of Skanks, Big Jay Oakerson! The trio peel back the layers of podcasting fame and how deranged fans can become when you disappoint them. Jay opens up about opening for Korn, hugging strangers by mistake, and fake strip club DJ-ing alongside J.Lo, while Rob recalls the lead singer of a major band taking things too far with an orange. Plus: stalkers, Sopranos superfans, Fred Durst savagery, and why Corey Feldman still holds a grudge with Big Jay. Check it out!
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Not Today, Pal Ep. 93
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro
00:04:29 - Hate From The Comment Section
00:14:22 - Sopranos, Stalkers, & Liars
00:20:00 - Kid Actors
00:26:32 - The Two Coreys
00:33:25 - Corey Feldman Cringe
00:38:52 - Banned By Corey
00:44:09 - Opening For Korn
00:49:56 - Sex With An Orange
00:58:20 - Fake Strip Club DJ
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May 1, 2025 • 41min
A Conversation With A Real 9-1-1 Dispatcher | Not Today, Pal
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This week, Rob and Jamie are joined by Candace, a real-life hero and 911 dispatcher, who loves her job and believes she was made for this profession! Rob and Jamie ask all kinds of questions and Candace teaches them all about the job, what the movies get wrong about it, and what surprising lesson she's learned from her career in the emergency services field. Check it out!
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Not Today, Pal Ep. 92
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:22 - 911 Dispatcher Facts
00:06:21 - Job Training & Personality Traits
00:08:38 - Most Frequent Call
00:11:05 - Surprise
00:16:54 - Training
00:21:27 - Nervous Callers
00:23:57 - Helping Hand
00:27:29 - Disconnect
00:33:33 - Help You
00:35:14 - Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 2025 • 47min
Sushi Is Ruined Forever | Not Today, Pal
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Apr 17, 2025 • 47min
The Undisputed GOAT Of OnlyFans? | Not Today, Pal
SPONSORS:- Head to https://acorns.com/nottoday or download the Acorns app to get started.- Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/nottoday, all lowercase.This week, Rob and Jamie reminisce about being young & dumb, before calling Cutter to get his thoughts on a steamy photo of him and Jamie grinding in a club back in the day. They also deep dive an earner on OF, who is arguably the greatest of all time on the platform. This convo leads to Jamie entertaining the idea of starting her own page. The two also talk about porn fans blowing loads while waiting in line to meet their fav's, Indian street ear cleaners, craziest job offers, a Memory Lane pic, and a clip of Drea de Matteo revealing her real-life mob lineage. Try it out!Have a question for Rob and Jamie? Reach out at nottodaypalpodcast@gmail.comNot Today, Pal Ep. 90https://www.instagram.com/jamielynnsiglerhttps://www.instagram.com/nottodaypalshowhttps://store.ymhstudios.comChapters 00:00:00 - Intro00:00:31 - Young & Dumb00:09:03 - Let's Call Cutter 00:14:22 - The OnlyFans Goat?00:21:12 - Premature Fan Encounters 00:26:23 - Crazy Job Offers00:32:04 - Memory Lane00:34:28 - Clip: Drea De Matteo's Mob Lineage 00:38:55 - Clip: Indian Ear Cleaners 00:43:42 - Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 2025 • 43min
Is Rob Iler Returning To Acting? | Not Today, Pal
SPONSORS:- Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/nottoday, all lowercase.This week, Rob and Jamie check out some cool Sopranos tattoos sent in by fans and share some videos of their experience inside a hyperbaric chamber. Rob also makes a couple of revelations this week, as he shares some progress he's made into becoming a meditation guy and as he shares the trailer for Tom Segura's new series "Bad Thoughts", he confirms that he indeed came out of acting retirement just to do the show! They also share their thoughts on the new series "MobLand" and still kinda new show "Adolescence". Plus Rob and Jamie check out a horrifying clip of some birds ruining a cruise ship vacation. Is MobLand really all that? Let me know in the comments.Have a question for Rob and Jamie? Reach out at nottodaypalpodcast@gmail.comNot Today, Pal Ep. 89https://www.instagram.com/jamielynnsiglerhttps://www.instagram.com/nottodaypalshowhttps://store.ymhstudios.comChapters 00:00:00 - Intro00:01:27 - Sopranos Fan Tattoos00:08:01 - Rob's Biohack Birthday Gift00:13:28 - Big Meditation Guy00:21:03 - Coming Out Of Acting Retirement 00:25:14 - MobLand00:30:26 - Adolescence 00:34:33 - Clip: Cruise Ship Birds00:37:05 - Memory Lane Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 2025 • 45min
The Butt Stuff Dilemma | Not Today, Pal
SPONSORS:- Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/nottoday, all lowercase.This week, Rob and Jamie get an advice voicemail from a listener who has some backdoor negotiating that he needs some help with. Before that they debate returning food and drink back while dining out, plus talk dream rooms, dream jobs, and tips for getting your kids in showbiz. Jamie also reveals some juicy details from her in-progress memoir. Try it out!Have a question for Rob and Jamie? Reach out at nottodaypalpodcast@gmail.comNot Today, Pal Ep. 88https://www.instagram.com/jamielynnsiglerhttps://www.instagram.com/nottodaypalshowhttps://store.ymhstudios.comChapters 00:00:00 - Intro00:04:07 - Returning Food/Drinks At Restaurants 00:10:47 - Is It Annoying To Share With Kids?00:14:29 - Voicemail Advice00:22:03 - Dream Rooms & Dream Jobs00:29:16 - Advice For Getting Kids Into Showbiz 00:33:21 - Jamie's Memoir 00:40:49 - Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 2025 • 47min
Live from SXSW: High T Kings, Zillow Creeping & Rob’s Death Metal Past | Not Today, Pal
This week, Not Today Pal is coming to you live from The Portal, a hangout house at SXSW sponsored by Por Osos! Rob and Jamie dive into their experience at the iHeartRadio Awards and how the crowds had Cutter feeling completely rattled. They also tackle some of life’s biggest questions: Why the hell are magazines so expensive now? What are the weirdest foods they secretly love? What’s the superior ice cream flavor? And, most importantly, how did Rob end up in a heavy metal band?Other crucial discussions include their most ridiculous Amazon purchases and how they both completely missed the dating app era—which might actually be a good thing. This field trip episode packed with wild stories, unnecessary testosterone flexing, and a deep appreciation for ice cream and Zillow stalking. Don’t miss it!Have a question for Rob and Jamie? Reach out at nottodaypalpodcast@gmail.comNot Today, Pal Ep. 87https://www.instagram.com/jamielynnsiglerhttps://www.instagram.com/nottodaypalshowhttps://store.ymhstudios.comChapters 00:00:00 - Intro00:01:05 - High T King00:04:24 - SXSW House 00:07:39 - The I Heart Radio Award Show 00:12:45 - Zillow 00:18:02 - I'm Old00:22:47 - Rob Was In A Heavy Metal Band00:26:31 - Rob's Dad Chimes In 00:29:15 - Favorite Ice Creams00:33:02 - Dating Apps00:36:01 - Gross Foods You Eat 00:40:09 - Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices