Made for More with Amanda Kolbye

Someone recently asked me about my experience and credentials related to my business, and it set me into self-reflection mode to consider what factors have gotten me to where I am now over the last few years. And now I'm sharing that reflection with you, because I truly believe that what I realized could also change your life. In this episode, I am sharing about what I've decided to call The Saturation Effect - the effect that being completely saturated by one particular thing can have on changing your life. I get into how The Saturation Effect has impacted both my growth as a business coach and CEO, as well as my healing journey. I also share how you can start to implement The Saturation Effect to change aspects of your own life.   In this episode, we cover… Learning, doing, and being to create lasting change A summary of my own experience over the last 1.5 years The Saturation Effect: considering the amount and frequency of saturation What saturation has looked like in my own healing journey Why saturation is the best way to influence our habits Examples of where and how saturation can occur (including masterminds)   Quotes "The Saturation Effect means that if you surround yourself enough with one thing, you will not be able to ignore it and it will inevitably infiltrate your thoughts, behaviors, your way of being, and ultimately eventually change who you are at your core. "   "Most people try to change something - a habit, maybe a belief, a way of being, maybe it is a big life change quitting your job and starting a business. Most people try to change by overcoming something or forcing/pushing through. And if that even works for a little bit, it never lasts. It never lasts, and it never changes you at a deep core level."   "I want the change you desire to become inevitable. And no amount of force and hard work can change who you are at your core. I believe that wholeheartedly. The changing at your core and the being - it only comes by saturating your existence so that you cannot help but change by learning, doing and being all that you're surrounded by, which is what you want to become."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000521980786   Summary Looking for inspiration on what is possible when you commit fully to the growth of your business? Well, you're in the right place. In this mini moment I tell the story of my client "Samantha" who went all in and saw her business soar as a result. She joined my mastermind at a time that many would consider "too soon," and ended up quantum leaping to a $75K week not long after starting her business. Samantha's story is a testament to taking risks, putting yourself in the presence of other powerful entrepreneurs, and taking action before you're "ready" if you want to see big success.   Our Favorite Quotes "There are no rules, and so being realistic is never going to get you where you want to go."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

With today's guest, we are diving into the behind-the-scenes of bringing your partner into your business. This is something so many of you have asked me about, so Zara Watson-Young is here to share her experience of welcoming her husband into her legal business. We talk everything from letting go of full control to making sure you have your legal ducks in a row (because even with your partner, contracts are key!) If you've been wondering about bringing in your partner, this is a must-listen.   Zara Watson-Young knows how frustrating it can be to try and fit your career in a box while marching to the beat of your own drum.That’s exactly what led her to close the door on a thriving corporate legal career in order to pursue what truly encompassed all the skills and ambition in her wheelhouse: serving people like you. Zara has served entrepreneurs since 2017, always driven to empower and equip fellow dreamers with tangible legal tools to scale confidently. Along the way, she co-founded Watson & Young with her husband, Sean. She's here to walk with you every step of the entrepreneurial path because she has traveled this path, too. Zara knows it’s far less intimidating when you have a partner who knows what’s around the bend!     In this episode, we cover… Handling the legal side of bringing your partner into your business What may shift in your business with this change The process of letting go of full control The role of communication in a business partnership Making decisions together as a united front   Quotes "At the end of the day, knowing who you are, knowing your strengths, each other's strengths. You may not be good at client facing tasks but maybe you're better at the operational side. Just knowing what strengths each person will have and also just remembering that these things are developed over time... You'll gain clarity over time."   "The biggest mistake is thinking that you can wait to do legal - to make sure you have all your legal ducks in a row... The legal side is literally the foundation."   "If it doesn't align for both of us, I'm not going to proceed... I want both of us to be on the same page."     Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Links Mentioned Zara's Website Zara's Instagram Zara's LinkedIn

In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000603028568   Summary There are so many contributing factors to why you may feel like your success is a fluke, but shifting your perspective on your own success can be a way to combat this mentality. In this mini moment, we address how you may actually be affirming that your success is a fluke by focusing more on impending failure than where you actually want to end up. We also get into how your expectations and how you define your own success by external markers can impact this mentality.   Our Favorite Quotes "No one will ever take away - nothing will ever take away - the knowledge, the experience, the lessons learned, the resourcefulness, and your capabilities. And so if that's more of what we're relying on and believing is the contributing factors to help our success be repeated and not be a fluke, that's reliable."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

One of the biggest lessons I've learned this past year is that knowledge is only helpful if you know HOW to use it and then actually DO use it. What our progress really comes down to is the decision to take action (or the decision not to). In this episode I am diving deep into decision-making - from why decision-making is so key to our success, what often holds us up, and the actions we can take to start effectively making decisions to get us what we actually want faster and easier.     In this episode, we cover… The disconnect between knowledge and action How decision fatigue, constant distractions, emotions, and poor perception of time can be detrimental to decision making Why you have to get clear on your values & priorities Choosing your hard The 70% Rule for making better decisions How to use the SPAWED method to make clear decisions   Key Moments 00:06:45 - The Disconnect between Knowledge and Action 00:10:21 - Reasons for Not Conciously Making Decisions  00:11:38 - Factors That Hinder Our Decision Making 00:29:29 - 4 Solutions for Effective Decision Making 00:30:40 - Misconceptions About Making Decisions 00:37:48 - Your Values and Priorities 00:43:29 - Choosing Your Hard 00:54:18 - The 70% Rule 00:58:40 - The SPAWED Method   Quotes "Your success is determined by one thing: Your decisions."   "Everything in life has a trade off. When you say yes, you are also saying no, and when you're saying no, you are also saying yes."   "We're not avoiding hard. We're just going to choose the pros that we want, and the attached trade-offs."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000538185988   Summary Motivation is touted as the most important driving force to your success - but my take is that motivation is BS. In this mini moment, I break down why it is actually discipline that is the key to success. You have to show up and do the work consistently, even if it's hard, and even if you don't feel motivated. I didn't build a million dollar business while traveling the world and making an impact by letting my emotions dictate when I work - I was disciplined and showed up, and that is what led me to success.   Our Favorite Quotes "Your actions cannot be temporary. Your actions cannot only happen when you feel like it, or when you're always energized or when you're always excited. You won't be able to consistently do anything if your actions follow the up and down emotions and feelings or time periods of motivation."   "If you wait on motivation, you're taking away your power to create and decide the here and the now."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

With today's guest, Enneagram expert Sarah Wallace, we are diving into all things Enneagram and entrepreneurship. There are so many ways you can use the self-awareness that comes with knowing and understanding your own Enneagram type to improve the way you run your businesses - from learning how to best manage stress, to finding a sales process that works for your personality, and helping team communication and productivity. The Enneagram is more than a trendy personality test, and in this episode we are exploring how this tool can be applied to make a real difference for you as a leader and business owner.   Sarah Wallace is a Certified Enneagram Coach, host of the Enneagram MBA podcast, speaker, and workshop facilitator. With over 15 years in relationship building roles working with government agencies and companies like the US EPA, Federal Reserve Bank, John Deere, and adidas Outdoor, now small business owners, corporations, and event organizers work with Sarah to help them use the Enneagram to develop confident, empathetic, and emotionally intelligent leaders with powerful, productive, and happy teams   In this episode, we cover… Designing your business with your Enneagram type in mind The parts of the Enneagram you should pay attention to (besides just your type) Improving communication and leadership by understanding your's and your team members' Enneagram types How your type may influence your decision making Leaning on your strengths to approach sales Using the Enneagram as a tool for hiring and managing your team   Quotes "There's so much great advice, it's just not every piece of advice is great for you. And so it really helps you get clear on what you need to focus on."   "Understanding your strengths, and also what you enjoy, and then applying it to 'Okay, how do I come across on a sales call?'"   "Growth is going to look different, and the Enneagram kind of show us what growth looks like for different personalities."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Sarah's Links: Sarah's Website Sarah's Instagram Sarah's YouTube Channel Sarah's Overview For The 9 Types   Other Links Mentioned: Enneagram Test

Want to know the one thing you can implement right now in your life and business that is sure to make a difference in how things turn out for you? Well, here it is: Commitment. Before you roll your eyes, hear me out - you might know what you want to be committed to, but do you know what you actually are committed to? And do you know what you are most committed to? In this episode I lay out why this one factor can change the way you show up in your life and business, and share some ways for you to focus on what you are committed to.   In this episode, we cover… Why commitment is the key to forward progress How you may be tricking yourself into thinking you are committed to something, when really you aren't The two questions you can ask yourself to get clear on your commitments A four step process to examining your own commitment to what is important to you   Quotes "It's very easy for us to fool ourselves into thinking that we're making progress or that we are really trying our best, when in reality we aren't quite doing what needs to get done to change."   "This power of commitment isn't always about commitment as in this more intense way to figure something out or what action or tasks you're doing to get a result you want. Sometimes you are fully committed. But you are fully committed to the wrong thing. And that's what's holding you back or leading you astray."   "What are you most committed to?"   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

I've found that when entrepreneurs hit problems while scaling their businesses, it's usually one of two things: An issue with structure, or an issue with strategy. In this episode, I am digging into how you can diagnose what's holding you back from seeing the growth that you want in your business. I go over what situations indicate a need for adjustment in your business structure, and what situations point to a problem with your strategy. Plus, I talk about how two Laptop Lifestyle Co. programs - The Gameplan and Intentional Mastermind - may be exactly what you need to overcome these challenges you may be facing.    In this episode, we cover… The difference between structure and strategy in business How systems play a role in both The question you can ask yourself to diagnose whether structure or strategy is causing the issue Examples of situations you may run into in your business that require either a structural or strategic solution How The Gameplan or Intentional Mastermind may be what you need Quotes "Building a business and running/maintaining a business are two different things." "We've got to get to the root of the problem. Because I see it all the time where someone is trying a strategy, and the strategy itself is actually a really good strategy - they may have even executed it really really well. But if the structure and the systems are for some reason creating a big gap or a big block or a big issue, then you fixing the strategy is actually you solving a problem that doesn't exist, or solving the wrong problem." Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel Other Links Mentioned: The Gameplan Intentional Mastermind

In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000498999773 Summary When we understand how our brains process information, we can better understand why the messages we are sharing with our audiences really matter. Our brains process A LOT of information every minute - and we are constantly filtering and assigning meaning to that information based on our subjective experience of the world. Marketing is all about impacting how your audience configures that information to persuade their perspective and decision making. This mini episode is all about how this process works, and why when you tap into language and communication that influences your audience's brain processing in this way, sales will start to come more naturally.  Our Favorite Quotes “We’re not just trying to tell someone something new and fight through the noise and say ‘You’ve got to do this, you’ve got to do this.’ Effective marketing that actually elicits action and change out of a person naturally is going to change their perspective of the information that is being received.” “If we really want sales to come naturally and to take people on a journey where they see the problem and the solution, they see that you are the connection point there in order to get that solution - if they see all of that naturally and take action naturally, we’re going to need to reach them on a deeper level.”   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you sharing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel