No Regrets Leadership Podcast

This week on the No Regrets Podcast, Steve Sonderman is joined by Jordan Harnum from Impactus Ministries for a timely and practical conversation on preparing for a strong fall launch of your men’s ministry. Jordan, whose passion for equipping men started by simply showing up in young men's lives, reminds us that many guys are already doing ministry—they just may not know it yet. Together, he and Steve unpack key principles every men’s ministry should be using as they head into the fall. Whether you're starting fresh or building on existing momentum, this episode offers clear, actionable strategies to: Use your summer months to prepare for a strong launch Set a fall date and begin identifying and inviting leaders now Pray and cast a clear vision for what God wants in your ministry Engage men through doing—sports, grilling, or simple gatherings Build transparency and intentionality to draw more men in If you’re looking to equip, engage, and impact men this fall, don’t miss this energizing conversation packed with tools and inspiration to help you lead with purpose. Resources Mentioned: Impactus Ministries Articles & Resources Facebook | Instagram | YouTube LinkedIn | X (Twitter)

Today on the No Regrets Podcast, Nate Gruber is joined by Jeff Dionne, Regional Director for Maine and the Northeast with Man in the Mirror. Jeff shares his powerful story of how simply signing up for a church softball team led him into men’s ministry leadership—and gave him a passion for helping churches disciple men with greater intention. In this episode, Nate and Jeff explore what it takes to create, capture, and sustain momentum in men’s ministry, especially heading into the fall. They offer practical insights on: Moving from random books and studies to a strategic discipleship plan Building effective men’s leadership teams Understanding the difference between vision-minded and mission-minded men—and how to utilize both Developing clarity around your ministry’s goals: Who are you trying to reach? What topics should you explore? Helping men move from cultural Christianity to an authentic pursuit of the God who is, not just the God we want Whether you're a pastor, small group leader, or just someone passionate about strengthening men in your church, this conversation will equip you with next steps for building an impactful and lasting ministry to men. Resources Mentioned: Man in the Mirror Ministry No Regrets Men's Ministry

This week on the No Regrets Podcast, Steve Sonderman sits down with Jim Stolberg for a powerful conversation about the untapped potential of the Boomer generation. Jim shares his personal journey of discovering his God-given calling in the “second season” of life—after years of gaining work, life, and spiritual wisdom. Through that process, he found clarity on what God was truly calling him to do. Together, Jim and Steve explore how leaders can help Boomers recognize that their time, talents, and wisdom are not meant to be buried—they’re meant to be invested in the next generation. It’s a challenge to move from the “state” to the “sage,” from success to significance, from retirement to reinvestment. You’ll hear practical ways to: Clarify your calling and listen for what God wants you to do next. Bridge the gap between church life and work life. Reframe success by using your business and life experience for Kingdom impact. Mobilize Boomers as mentors, leaders, and difference-makers in ministry and beyond. If you’re a leader—or if you’ve ever wondered what’s next or how to make your greatest impact in your second season—this episode is for you. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about serving with purpose, giving back with intention, and stepping into the calling you can’t not do. Resources Mentioned: Halftime: Moving from Success to Significance – Halftime Book Halftime Institute Faith Driven Movements Solving the World's Greatest Problems

On this episode of The No Regrets Podcast, Steve Sonderman sits down with Pat Morley—one of the pioneers of men’s ministry since the early ’90s and founder of Man in the Mirror Ministries. Pat shares his powerful and deeply personal journey: growing up in the church without truly knowing Jesus, and the life-changing moment when a group of men welcomed him in and pointed him toward authentic faith. He opens up about the hidden wounds from his family and past, and how those unaddressed hurts shaped his life until he began to truly heal. Together, Pat and Steve dive into why so many men are longing for deeper discipleship—and how unresolved pain from the past often stands in the way. Pat unpacks the heart behind his new book, Broken Boy to Mended Man, a powerful biblical guide to identifying and healing childhood wounds, breaking free from shame, and ending destructive cycles. Through honest reflection, practical steps, and spiritual wisdom, the book helps men face their past, process their pain, and emerge as whole, restored leaders in their families and communities. If you've ever felt stuck in your past, this conversation will help you begin the journey of facing your pain, finding healing, and moving forward in freedom. 🔗 Learn more about Pat at patrickmorley.com📘 Get the book: Broken Boy to Mended Man or on Amazon

In this episode of the No Regrets Leadership Podcast, Gary Rohrmayer—church planter, missionary, and author of Ten Marks of a Coachable Leader—joins the conversation to unpack the power of coaching in the life of a leader. Gary shares from his own leadership journey and offers insight into what coaching really is, what it looks like to work with a coach, and how a coach can bring perspective, encouragement, and clarity to your calling. He explains how coaching differs from mentoring, what makes for a strong coaching relationship, and why setting clear expectations and building trust is essential. Together, we explore the key principles of coachability—humility, teachability, and a willingness to listen—and how leaders can cultivate these traits to grow and lead more effectively. Whether you’re leading a church, a team, or just stepping into leadership, this episode will give you a clear picture of how coaching can transform your leadership and your life. Resources Mentioned: Ten Marks of a Coachable Leader by Gary Rohrmayer Learn more at garyrohrmayer.com Coaching tools and resources at axelerate.org

In this episode, Steve Sonderman sits down with Scott Papador to discuss The Grand Plan—a powerful 6-week curriculum designed to engage the often-overlooked force in our churches: Boomers. With 76 million Boomers in the U.S. and an estimated 35% of church attendees coming from this generation, Scott challenges us to consider: Are we fully utilizing their gifts, talents, and wisdom? Scott shares his personal journey to faith and what led him to help develop The Grand Plan, a tool designed to activate men and women aged 52–73 for meaningful kingdom impact. Drawing on insights from Wisdom at Work by Chip Conley and From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks, this conversation explores how Boomers can move from success to significance. Through a six-summit process centered on holistic health, vision planning, and intentional engagement, The Grand Planhelps Boomers discover how to serve with purpose—during retirement and beyond. Whether in small groups, businesses, or ministry, this episode encourages you not to bury your treasure but to live with impact throughout every season of life. Learn more and choose your path—live, self-paced, or facilitated—at thegrandplan.org. Books mentioned: Wisdom at Work by Chip Conley From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks

This week on the No Regrets Leadership Podcast, Nate is joined by Troy Thomas from Crossway Church teaching team for a meaningful conversation on discipleship and connecting with the next generation. Together, they explore the challenges and opportunities of reaching young men in today’s church and how spiritual formation is about more than just teaching—it's about doing. Troy shares how his journey has been centered around making disciples who make disciples, influenced by the writings of Greg Ogden, Dallas Willard, Eugene Peterson, and John Mark Comer. He unpacks the deeper dynamics of how men relate, addressing the widespread loneliness among men and the longing for authentic connection.  Troy offers tactical insight into how older men can build meaningful relationships with younger generations. Resources Mentioned: Discipleship Essentials: A Guide to Building Your Life in Christ by Greg Ogden Crossways Church - https://www.crosswayc.org Listen in to be encouraged and equipped to reach and disciple the next generation of men.

In this episode, Josh Lindblom joins Steve Sonderman to discuss the power of mentorship and investing in the next generation of men. What does it truly mean to mentor a young man? How do you choose someone to invest in? Josh shares his personal journey of being intentionally mentored and how it shaped his leadership, helping him navigate transitions and learn to walk alongside others. Leadership is a lifelong process of discovering how God has uniquely shaped each of us for influence in His kingdom. Josh dives into the importance of relational depth, why true mentorship isn’t scalable but deeply personal, and how empowerment begins with understanding that our weaknesses don’t define us. He also shares practical steps for building meaningful mentorship relationships and training others to become mentors themselves. We believe this episode will encourage and equip you to invest in the next generation and mobilize more men for Jesus. Don’t wait—there is an army of men ready to be mentored. Resources Mentioned: The Making of a Leader by Robert Clinton Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn’t Enough by John Ortberg Learn more at congruency.co Listen in and take the next step in mentorship today!

In this engaging discussion, Matt Millar, Global Operations Director at NewThing, emphasizes the significance of intentional apprenticeship in ministry. He elaborates on the biblical model of Jesus' disciples, stressing the importance of preparation, setting clear expectations, and empowering future leaders. Matt outlines a structured four-step process for effective apprenticeship: modeling, assisting, empowering, and releasing. He also shares practical questions for apprentices and ways to integrate mentorship into your organization’s culture, setting the stage for lasting leadership development.

Join Steve Sonderman and Matt Millar as they explore the vital role of apprentices in ministry. Discover how developing, deploying, and equipping apprentices can expand your impact and help you reach more men for Jesus. In this episode, Matt shares his personal journey and why apprenticing is a biblical mandate. Jesus calls us to make disciples, and that starts with intentional training and investment in others to create a lasting legacy for His kingdom. Learn the four key steps Jesus modeled in apprenticeship: 1 - Selection – Jesus specifically chose His 12 disciples. 2 - Expectation – He set clear expectations for their mission. 3 - Preparation – They saw how He lived and learned. 4 - Graduation – He sent them out to continue His work. Your ministry will only grow with leaders. Listen in and discover how to equip others for the work of Jesus and create a deeper impact with the men you serve. Learn more about Matt Millar, Global Operations Director at NewThing: newthing.org