A Drink With a Friend

Tsh Oxenreider
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Dec 17, 2021 • 57min

Year-End Reflection Questions

As we wind down this year, it’s tempting to jump into the new things we want to do, plan, and declare for another trip around the sun. But before we jump into ideas for the next 12 months, it’s healthy and good to reflect on the previous 12. Seth and Tsh use some of the 20 questions Tsh has published on the internet for the past decade to debrief the year that was 2021. Join in!The show is taking a short break for the holidays. Look for new episodes in a few weeks — happy holidays!(Also, please note the sound quality is not up to our standards in this episode — we apologize for the inconvenience.)Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!20+ Questions For a New YearBrideshead Revisited, by Evelyn Waugh40 Reasons I’m a Catholic, by Peter KreeftAn Immovable Feast, by Tyler Blanski (on backorder, but it’s on Schlamazon)The Spiritual Exercises of St. IgnatiusThe Bear Grease podcastThe 25th: New & Selected Christmas Essays, by Joshua Gibbs This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Dec 10, 2021 • 28min

Ordinary Beauty #3 (Holiday-ish Edition)

It’s easy to forget the simple beauty around us, so in this episode, Seth and Tsh continue practicing the habit of noticing the gift of everyday beauty. Their choices aren’t purely holiday-specific, but there is a bent toward that which we enjoy this time of year. As always — as a listener, you’re invited to join them in this time-tested practice of recognizing the daily beauty around you, too!Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Sweet Tooth on NetflixA Christmas Carol audiobook, read by Hugh GrantAdvent Songs by The Porter’s GateRyan HolidayMeditations, by Marcus AureliusGeorge Saunders’ SubstackThe Man Who Invented Christmas This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Dec 3, 2021 • 44min

Tradition (aka Democracy of the Dead)

Traditioooooooooon… Tradition! We all have them during the holidays, but why do they matter? Seth and Tsh unpack the sacramentality of leaning into even our smallest of family traditions — because they matter more than as simply “things we do every year.” Traditions remind us we’re not alone, life is bigger than we are, and that we’re time-bound creatures made with a need for routine and rhythm. They’re anchors for our souls, especially when life is hard.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Drink merch (here’s the mug)!Shadow & Light, Tsh’s Advent bookThe Scandal of Holiness, by Jessica Hooten WilsonA Curious Faith, by Lore Ferguson Wilbert This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Nov 26, 2021 • 32min

Advent

Advent begins this weekend! Not ready? No big deal. Seth and Tsh talk about how they approach this season that starts the liturgical calendar with a lot of grace, simplicity, and anticipation of their favorite holiday traditions.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Tsh’s 2021 Holiday Gift GuideDrink merch!Shadow & Light, Tsh’s Advent bookSorrowland, by Rivers SolomonPride & Prejudice on audiobook, by Jane Austen & read by Rosamund Pike This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Nov 19, 2021 • 3min

A Quick Note

Hey guys — this week Seth was traveling for work and Tsh was sick. So, unfortunately, there’s no episode because Seth was sans-mic and NOBODY wants to hear Tsh talking in the non-voice-of-a-voice she’s had (trust us). We’ll be back next week with an episode for your day-after-Thanksgiving, right-before-Advent listening ears! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Nov 12, 2021 • 45min

The Second Story

In the last episode, Seth shared a sacramental story from his life. In this one, they continue their chat with Tsh sharing a sacramental story from hers. Because after all, most of the sacred stuff in life shows up in our ordinary moments.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Try Hallow free for 30 daysTsh’s Rule of Life workshopTyphoon’s new album, Sympathetic MagicThe Quotidian Mysteries: Laundry, Liturgy, & Women’s Work, by Kathleen Norris This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Nov 5, 2021 • 48min

The First Story

Most of life is lived in the ordinary, so to see the sacred within it we need to pause and name it. This usually comes in the form of storytelling — when we tell family and friends the things that happen to us, we become more aware of the sacramentality n the most mundane things. For the next two episodes, Seth and Tsh each swap a story from their life to recognize and name what’s just beneath the layer. You’re invited to do the same, too, within your ordinary life.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Try Hallow free for 30 daysTsh’s Rule of Life workshopComing Clean, Seth’s story of sobrietyTheology of Home, by Carrie Gress and Noelle MeringHonestly, by Bari Weiss — especially the episode with Ross Douthat This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Oct 29, 2021 • 33min

Autumn-ish Art-ing

In the last episode, Seth and Tsh chatted about what makes the art we love fall-ish. They continue the chat to talk about the flip side of that coin: what makes the creating of that art fall-ish? Art is a HUGE table here — yes, there’s writing and music-making, but there’s also homemaking, neighborliness, and doing our work well as forms of artistic expression. What does it look like to do these things in the autumnal season? What does it look like to live sacramentally as the leaves drop?Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Try Hallow free for 30 daysTsh’s Rule of Life workshopThe All of It, by Jeannette HaienThe Way Down documentary series This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Oct 22, 2021 • 34min

Autumn-ish Artists

Stuff has a season, and that includes art. What makes music, movies, books, and visual art fall-ish? Seth and Tsh each share musicians, writers, and visual artists they’re digging as the temps dip and the colors change. Living sacramentally naturally includes living seasonally, so it makes sense to also shift what we read, watch, and listen to as the seasons change.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!Black Keys’ Delta KreamTyphoon’s Sympathetic Magic and OfferingsDamien Rice’s My Favourite Faded FantasyAndrew Belle’s Nightshade and Black BearCloud Cuckoo Land, by Anthony DoerrGerard Manley Hopkins’ poemsSherlock Holmes, by Arthur Conan DoyleSherlock Holmes on audiobook, read by Stephen FryA Hidden Life, by Terrence MalickThe Modern Saints, by Grace Morbitzer This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
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Oct 15, 2021 • 51min

Talking to Our 20-Something Selves

If we knew then what we know now, would we be better off? Or is there something redeemable about the mistakes we all make when we’re younger? Seth and Tsh answer a listener question about any wisdom they might have for their slightly younger listeners — if they were in their twenties right now, this is what their forty-something selves would tell themselves.Seth: Newsletter | WebsiteTsh: Newsletter | WebsitePick up a round of drinks & help keep the show goingCome to Italy with us!EmyoArtwork on InstagramThe new season of The Great British Bake-OffSave $10 on your first Storyworth order at storyworth.com/drink This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe

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