Pink Kink

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And what about people who use YKINMKATOK to try to justify abuse? It's never simple when it comes to kink and judgement.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you can't be a dominant if you are female or you can't be a rope bunny if you are overweight. People who decide that their way to kink is the only way to kink are bad for the community. It invalidates people's lived experiences and it takes away people’s right to decide for themselves. Gatekeeping does nothing but hurt communities, both members and outsiders. It’s an elitist practice that more people should be concerned and speaking out about. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. We talk about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. We cover both the basics including fundamentals, safety guidelines and ethics. Sir Ezra breaks down where mindfucking ends and abuse begins. You will also get to hear hot and informative mindfucking stories that will your imagination. Mindfucking Mindfully is available in e-book, audio or paperback at Amazon.  Links to reach Sir Ezra: Website: HouseOfAlgos.com Link for Sanctuary: SanctuaryLAX.com Email: HouseOfAlgos@gmail.com Instagram: ask_ezra_ Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more taboo then ever. But these kinks exist and so we are going to talk about them. What are they? Is it okay to object to them? Should we just accept that we may see these kinks in our public dungeons? There is so much to talk about so this will be a longer episode than usual. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own twisted version of The Newlywed Game in front of a live studio audience. Play along and see how well you know us.

We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of looking for a kinky partner. We talk about our own adventures dating and what worked and what didn't and finish up with a discussion of several kinky dating sites. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

A mentor is a person with specialized knowledge whom you may enlist to educate and motivate you. But is a mentor necessary in the kink lifestyle. We speak with Moxie, who in addition to being a Bootblacking titleholder, teaches a class on Mentoring in BDSM. We talk about how having a mentor can help, what qualities you should look for in a mentor and a mentee, and whether or not mentors should cross the slash. Moxie is active in her community as the producer of the Nevada Bootblack Contest, Bootblack Director for Queer Leather Association of Sacramento, teaching whenever she can, and is a member of her local leather clubs. Moxie is the Northwest Bootblack 2018, a Queer, Poly, Penguin Princess and overall Pain in the ass. She loves hard and works harder. When she isn't teaching or working on boots she might be sipping on bourbon or planning a charcuterie party.  If you see her please say hi! She doesn't bite, too hard! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast

This time it's Rara's birthday that we are celebrating so we are devoting the episode to one of Rara's favorite subjects - Impact. An entire episode devoted to all things thuddy and stingy. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Throughout our lives, people attach labels to us, and those labels reflect and affect how others think about our identities as well as how we think about ourselves.  That said, we've gotten in the habit of over labeling things, situations, and people, which has ultimately boxed us into these predetermined beliefs about what that particular label "should be" about, rather than just what it IS about. We discuss the risks involved with labeling yourself and others and what you can do to avoid relying too heavily on labels. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Fire play is an incredibly sensual play involving not just the fire but touch too. It is obviously edge play so we bring in an expert to talk about the different kinds of fire play and safety. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com  Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800  Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50)  BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order)  Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast  Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast  Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast  Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast