
Conscious Dominance
CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.
The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.
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ABOUT ERIC
Eric offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices.
Grab a free copy of Eric's Reactive Reset—a guide offering men actionable tools to reclaim calm and presence when emotions start to take over. https://www.aerosha.art/dsrx
Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of integrated dominance and wholistic surrender through their work at Aerosha. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression. Learn more at https://www.aerosha.art/dsrx
Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at https://www.aerosha.art/mental-mudroom
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ABOUT ANDREW
Learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/dominants
See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at: https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Andrew also hosts the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of his D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform!
Latest episodes

Sep 11, 2024 • 1h 2min
Navigating Your Submissive's Emotional Storms
Explore the fascinating metaphor of 'feminine weather' as hosts dive into how men can navigate their partners' emotional storms. Discover the power of acceptance over control in building deeper connections. The talk highlights emotional surrender within dominance and submission, showcasing the importance of self-awareness and resilience. With real-life insights, learn how embracing vulnerability can strengthen relationships and foster personal growth, all while balancing emotional dynamics with curiosity and compassion.

Sep 4, 2024 • 1h
The Energetics of Desire vs. Fear in Dom/sub Relationships
Join Andrew and Eric as they delve into the nuances of conscious dominance and healthy masculinity. In this insightful conversation, they discuss the pivotal role of motivations—desire versus fear—in shaping a dominant's behavior and energy. They explore how fear-based actions can lead to control and forcefulness, while desire-driven leadership fosters a more fulfilling and authentic relationship. The dialogue also covers strategies for dealing with anxiety, the importance of competence and non-reactivity, and how to maintain a strong masculine frame. Don't miss this empowering discussion on overcoming internal obstacles and leading with integrity and strength.-------------------------------------------------The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

Aug 29, 2024 • 1h 2min
Becoming Untriggerable - Lessons Learned In Building Inner Dominance
n this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, Andrew and Eric discuss the importance of inner work and self-reflection in sustaining a healthy Dom-sub relationship. They highlight the necessity of regulating one's nervous system to handle triggering situations, the significance of holding space for a partner's truth without becoming defensive, and the value of suffering as a growth opportunity on the path to building an inner strength so solid that we can become truly non reactive and untriggerable. By sharing personal anecdotes and practical strategies, they emphasize the role of breathing, grounding, nature walks, and writing as tools to manage reactions. Additionally, they explore the concept of allowing oneself to feel pain in order to foster deeper emotional strength and maintain polarity in relationships. Enjoy the show! The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Aug 21, 2024 • 1h 4min
Confidence, Competence, and Charisma: Reflections on our roles as 24/7 Dominants
In this unscripted podcast episode, Andrew and Eric explore various facets of personal growth, competence, and confidence within the context of their lives and relationships. The discussion covers topics such as the value and necessity of competence, problem-solving, and the dynamics of confidence between men and women. And how frankly, at times, these polarity based D/s dynamics just aren't fair. But they're not supposed to be fair. They're supposed to be intense, passionate, and exciting. And this conversation highlights the importance of persistence and the journey from incompetence to mastery as we find our way to something that's even better than fair. They also touch on how these concepts apply in interpersonal relationships, emphasizing the importance of clear communication, self-reliance, and the courageous pursuit of self-improvement. The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Aug 14, 2024 • 1h
Honoring the Feminine Cycle: Insights for Dominant Men
In this episode, we discuss an often-overlooked aspect of relationships: understanding and honoring the feminine cycle. In our society, women are frequently expected to conform to a 24-hour cycle similar to that of men. This expectation often overlooks the profound biological and hormonal changes women undergo throughout their roughly 28-day cycle. This conversation is an eye-opener about the importance of recognizing and honoring these cycles, not just for the women in our lives but also for ourselves as their partners. Andrew began this journey in the spring of 2020 by tracking his partner Dawn's menstrual cycle. Initially, his goal was practical: to plan vacations and other significant events around her period. However, this practice evolved into a comprehensive understanding of her physical and emotional states throughout the month. This meticulous tracking provided insights far beyond the timing of her period, revealing patterns in her mood, energy levels, libido, and more. Andrew's tracking methods started simply but became increasingly sophisticated. He began by noting the first day of Dawn’s period and the length of her cycles. Over time, he added details about her mood, rating it on a scale from 0 to 10, and even her basal body temperature, which helped predict ovulation and other hormonal shifts. Understanding her cycle brought a new level of compassion and empathy into their relationship. For instance, Andrew now plans Dawn's workouts based on her cycle, ensuring they are intense during her high-energy phases and gentler during her low-energy phases. This consideration has allowed Dawn to be kinder to herself and accept her body's natural fluctuations, improving her self-esteem and body image. One of the pitfalls Andrew and other men often fall into is trying to fix or level out their partner’s natural hormonal fluctuations, which is counterproductive. Instead, the goal should be enhancing the acceptance of these natural changes, thus fostering a healthier relationship dynamic. Society often imposes a solar cycle lifestyle—structured around a 24-hour day—that doesn’t fit the natural lunar cycle of women. In this episode, we advocate for a paradigm shift in how we view and honor these cycles both in personal relationships and societal structures. Understanding the feminine cycle is not just about making life convenient; it’s about fostering deep compassion, empathy, and ultimately, a stronger relationship. By being situationally aware and conscious of the phases women go through, we can lead with empathy and create environments that honor their natural rhythms. Andrew’s journey into tracking Dawn's cycle was transformative for both of them, and these insights hold potential benefits for any relationship. It allows for better planning, compassionate interactions, and a deeper understanding of one another.The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Aug 7, 2024 • 1h 3min
Pivotal Moments: How Consciousness Keeps D/s Dynamics Thriving
Discover the pivotal moments that define Dom/sub relationships and how to handle emotional disruptions with grace. The importance of emotional awareness and trust is emphasized, alongside the challenges of trauma bonds and attachment styles. Personal integrity plays a key role in shaping dynamics, while the journey towards self-acceptance is highlighted as a path to authentic growth. Learn how mindfulness, empathy, and conscious responses can enhance connection and intimacy in these unique relationships.

Aug 1, 2024 • 59min
Navigating ego, self awareness, and deep intimacy in Dom/sub dynamics - Conscious Dominance #15
In this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, Andrew and Eric delve into the complexities of dominant roles in Dom-sub relationships. They explore how intimate power dynamics can facilitate deeper self-awareness and uncover core wounds from childhood, especially those involving the mother-son relationship. Andrew & Eric also discuss the importance of consciousness, discipline, and self-compassion in maintaining a healthy dominant role, the pitfalls of ego-driven actions, and the value of support systems outside the relationship. With reflections on personal growth, emotional resilience, and the paradoxes within masculine energy, this conversation offers profound insights for anyone interested in conscious dominance and personal development.The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Jul 24, 2024 • 41min
Unlocking Inner Strength: The Journey of Conscious Dominance - Eric Solo Episode
In this solo episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, Eric delves into his personal journey of inner alchemy and conscious dominance within dom sub relationships. He discusses the struggles of maintaining a dominant identity, wrestling with masculine energy, and the transformative power of healing emotional trauma. Highlighting influences from Japanese culture and Samurai philosophy, Eric explores the integration of artistic expression with warrior discipline. Through raw reflections on past failures, relationships, and personal growth, he shares insights on achieving a state of equanimity and leading from a place of love and awareness. This episode offers a profound look into self-healing, emotional regulation, and the essence of conscious dominance.The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Jul 17, 2024 • 60min
Deep Intimacy Through Conscious Dominance: Andrew's Story
In this solo episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, Andrew shares his personal journey towards becoming a Dominant. In this episode, Andrew delves into his past, reflecting on the challenges and transformations that led him to where he is today. He speaks candidly about the misconceptions people have about his role, his initial suppression of desires, the influence of his upbringing, and the pivotal moments that changed his life. The episode is a deep dive into the essence of dominance, authenticity, and the power and necessity of a committed, passionate relationship in bringing a man into his fullest expression of inner strength. ~~~~~~~~~~~~The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Jul 10, 2024 • 53min
Navigating Anger in Conscious Dominance
Navigating Anger in Conscious Dominance | The Conscious Dominance PodcastIn this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, hosts Andrew and Eric discuss their experiences and insights on managing and alchemizing anger for more fulfilling and loving experiences in Dominant/submissive relationships. They delve into personal anecdotes, explore the roots of anger, and highlight the importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence. Their conversation includes the concept of honoring and understanding anger, strategies for managing emotions, and the significance of a support system for men. Tune in for an in-depth discussion on how to navigate the complexities of anger from a conscious and loving place.The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.