Decades From Home - A Podcast About Germany

Although Dili has built a reputation for being the pods expert on fruit, her true passion seems to be cake. Luckily she lives in Germany, a land of amazing cakes and happens to have an equally cake loving co-host to share her favourite cake choices. We talk the merits of jelly, the power of Bienenstich, and why a bad cake can still be a good cake.Fashing has arrived right on schedule, and Nic goes above and beyond for the pod as he enters the lion’s den of a Kinder Faschingsparty, with only his 2-year old monkey daughter and a gorilla costume to protect him. Germany’s best new drama, Berlinwahl 2023, had its season finale last Sunday, but despite the Berlin election coming to end, the fallout may last just as long. We discuss coalition negotiations, the importance of making friends, and why acting like a grown up might be a refreshing new strategy.After a ballet director lashes out at a critic in the worst way possible, we discuss creative ways to take revenge on critics, and we finish with a government plan from Leipzig to make companies pay their employees to sleep at work. For those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von CouleurTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

A simple question on shopping opens a can of worms as we discuss our experiences of the fabled German customer service. With politeness on the mind, Nic ponders what he should do when confronted with impolite people in social situations, and whether stabbing people with a fork is an acceptable reaction.Moving on from the horrors of social discourse, we turn our attention to the rapid arrival of Fasching or Carnival. Germany’s fifth season is a time for costumes, parades, and tiny bottles of schnapps, so what’s not to like? Well, for one of the hosts of the podcast, all this fun is a bit too much…can you guess which one?We discuss the merits of mountain climbing and recap a recent story of two mountain climbers who had to be rescued from one of Germany’s most dangerous mountains, and we finish on the news that those celebrating their 18th birthday in Germany will be receiving a special gift from the government. Articles mentioned in the showMountaineers rescued from the WatzmannGerman government to offer 18-year-olds a KulturpassFor those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von Dominik Lückmann auf UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

After bickering over who gets to ask our kick-off question, Dili wins the battle of wills and wouldn’t you believe it, she wants to know about favourite vegetables. Thankfully, Nic takes it all in his stride, since no vegetable chat could compete with the hell he experienced after his family weekend trip to IKEA. We find some time to introduce a new segment, Dili’s Sports Roundup, and Nic recounts his first sojourn into the TV festival that is “Berlin, Berlin”.Thankfully pandemic lockdowns are becoming a distant memory, but the shadow cast by them still remains, especially in education. A recent analysis of various studies around the world shows that many children have educational deficits after two years of online classes. We discuss how we both dealt with teaching online, and what can be done to help children and students overcome the numerous gaps in their studies. We finish off with a look at the pension system in Germany and the news that the government are looking at pension reform. Articles mentioned in the showAnalysis of global studies on education gaps For those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von Vsevolod Tymofyeyev auf UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

Nic is worried that the producer is trying to blackmail him, although Dili seems less than supportive of his current predicament. We discuss problem neighbours, if it’s better to live next door to family or have them as far aways as possible, and whether independence is both a blessing and a curse. Also, Dili challenges Nic to watch an awarding winning German TV show that seemingly revolves around an incestious relationship.We look at how moving to Germany presents some unique challenges to new arrivals, chief among them being making friends, but also how migrant success can give a person a deep sense of pride. We also take some time to look at how children can change perspectives, hunting for Kindergartens, and different cultural approaches to raising kids.The resignation of New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern leads to a discussion on how women in public life are treated in Germany, shock at how patriarchal Germany can be, and the sometimes worryingly rigid ideas about gender roles.For those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von Kelly Sikkema auf UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

We kick things off this week by discussing the things we love about Germany, why Indian food feels like home, and why many people who move here fall into a negativity trap. We talk about the possibility of a live show, Dili’s love of sport, and the exciting news of Til Schweiger’s return to a German cult classic with Manta Manta 2. We also discuss why investing in Hustensaft (cough syrup) might be a great way to make some money in Bayern.Much of the German news this week has been focused on the resignation of Defence Minister Christine Lambrecht. With the Verteidigungsministerium seemingly changing hands every couple of years, can anyone really be successful there? Equally, how do Germans feel about the military and how does it differ from Britain and the US? We discuss the recent comments on migration by opposition leader Friedrich Merz of the CDU, the dangers of adopting right-wing narratives, and the lessons that could be learned from former British Prime Minister David Cameron. We finish with our experiences of the never ending discussion on migrant integration.Links Mentioned in the Show:Süddeutsche Zeitung Article Correcting Numbers of those arrested on New Years EveFor those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von form PxHereTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

A listener’s email gives us a chance to celebrate Dili’s new microphone, although we might forgo the traditional celebratory cup of tea given Germany’s track record for making a decent brew. Why is tea so maligned here, and might it have to do with some good old British Schadenfreude? It’s the second week of January, and with most people head back at work, we take a look at the world of German politics as planning for 2023 begins. We discuss the various fault lines within the Ampelkoalition, and what we can expect from our politicians over the coming year. Sticking with politics, we look at the verbal mudslinging between Bavaria and Berlin as two prominent politicians highlight the regional differences that can be found in a country of 16 very different states. Finally, Dili has some questions about the Royal revelations coming out of the UK, and what they mean for the future of the monarchy. Links Mentioned in the Show:Ordered a tea in Germany. Milk added to hot water. Tea bag on the side. Feels like a hate crime.For those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von Joanna Kosinska auf UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

New year, new episode and we kick off 2023 with a lesson on how to gracefully offer your New Years greetings, Nic discovers that New Year’s Day has a morning as well as a late afternoon, and Dili argues that sleep is the best way to celebrate Silvester.Reports of chaos on the streets of many German cities over leads us to our annual discussion on Germany’s problem with fireworks. Maddeningly, the debate in Germany quickly became a question of migration and integration, and not one of public safety. We question the current narrative, and wonder whether Germany is ignoring a larger problem.Dili brings us some positive news to start the year, as two museums in Berlin offer to voluntarily return items that were stolen during the colonial period. Might this decision push other European countries to do the same? We also ask whether wealthy individuals should be held to account for the activities of their ancestors during empire.Despite Nic’s reservations, we finish the show with some predictions for the coming year.Articles Discussed on the ShowMit Böllern und Raketen:Entsetzen über Angriffe auf RettungskräfteFor those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditFoto von Tzvi Kilov auf UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

After a Christmas weekend to remember, we recap our festive adventures. Dili’s exploits in the Netherlands bring some exciting salad recipes, and tales of caviar fueled partying. Not to be out done, Nic also enjoyed the life of luxury thanks to the purchase of the finest bottle of “sparkling alcohol based drink”. It’s not champagne, but it was quite fizzy. We also discuss missing family and friends, and how we deal with Christmas at a long distance.We recap what Germany googled in 2022, which is helpful since Nic seems to have forgotten whole sections of the year he just lived through. We find out why a song caused so much anger, why Germans were worried about Affenpochen (monkeypox), and why search results don’t really tell us much about German culture.We discuss our personal highlights over the year, as well as some of our favourite moments on the pod, and we finish with our overall favourite events and bits of culture from 2022. Frohes Neues Jahr Leuter und guten rutsch! For those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditPhoto by cottonbro studioTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

It’s only bloody Christmas! We bring you a bumper festive episode, as we discuss secret recipes, fun socks, and the art of decorating a Christmas tree. Dili shares her Christmas plans, and her opinions on Peppa Pig toys, while Nic recaps the end of his Deutscher Bier Pokal competition.Since both Dili and Nic live in states that have ended mask requirement on public transport, it gives us a chance to discuss these changes, and the sudden, and not disconnected arrival of an unprecedented wave of flu, cold and general sickness in Bavaria. Is freedom really coughing in someone’s face on the Ubahn?Since it’s the season of gift giving, we share our thought on present buying, whether expensive gifts are really better, and what gift giving says about a person. We finish with chat about Nic’s first Christmas in Germany.Articles MetionedMaskless public transport from DecemberBayern schnieft und hustetTipps für das (fast) perfekte WeihnachtsgeschenkFor those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß

Disaster strikes as Dili catches the flu, but luckily for us, an old friend is there to save the show. Yes listeners, for one final time, Simon returns to the show! We talk about his decision to leave the show, his favourite moments, and the episode he’s most proud of. LinksNgozi Fulani tells of ‘horrific abuse’ after Buckingham Palace racism incidentWir erleben den relativen Abstieg einer Nation - nicht nur im FußballBerlin says goodbye to part of Germany’s colonial pastFor those of you looking to support Ukraine or the many refugees currently fleeing the conflict, please take a look at these different charities and consider donating if you can:Ukraine Crisis Media Centre - A list of different donation pages to help the Ukrainian military response.Disaster Emergency Committee - Ukraine Humanitarian Appeal Save the ChildrenÄrzte ohne GrenzenImage CreditPhoto by Jonathan Kemper on UnsplashTheme tune courtesy of Kloß mit Soß