

Gayish Podcast
Gayish Media
Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-winning podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships.
Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
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May 27, 2021 • 2h 12min
Gayish: 229 Recovery (w/ Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket)
The road to recovery is long, and so is this episode.
We are joined by three LGBTQIA+ people in recovery to tell us about their struggle with substance abuse, their experiences with treatment programs, and in one case what Fucking Dan feels like on the inside.
A special thank you to Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket (@mizzhoneybucket) for stopping by and sharing such a vulnerable part of themselves with us.
Also a big thinks to all of you that sent in your own stories! This episode was so long we made the decision to release your contributions as a shrinkage later this week, so look for that!
In this episode: Boyfriend Bobby- 2:14 || Dani F.- 43:01 || Honey Bucket- 1:36:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 2:07:21
On Monday, Fucking Dan tells us his story. At least one of us cries.

May 20, 2021 • 1h 43min
Gayish: 228 Gaydar
Is gaydar a real thing? The hosts dive deep into the concept, debating its accuracy and origins. They explore studies on cues like voice and appearance, and the biases in research. Discussions range from whether gay people have better gaydar to how attraction influences perception. The ethics of assumptions about orientation and the implications of technology in detecting sexual orientation add depth. By the end, they conclude that while gaydar shows some signals, it’s far from reliable and fraught with stereotypes.

May 13, 2021 • 1h 31min
Gayish: 227 John Waters
John Waters. Gay icon. The pope of trash. We do our best to talk about him, even though we don’t revere him like other gays. Topics include Female Trouble, A Dirty Shame, Hairspray, Pink Flamingos, Divine, Mink Stole, Little Richard, Craig Ferguson, camp, the Met Gala, Trump, and tr*nnies.
In this episode: News- 3:39 || Main Topic (John Waters)- 14:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:37
This topic was selected by our Gap Bridgers. If you want to help pick episodes each month (and pick one all on your own!), become a Gap Bridger at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

May 6, 2021 • 1h 15min
Gayish: 226 Horses
Look, this one gets weird. We talk about everything from the gay straightness of the Kentucky Derby, racing horse or porn star, etymology of “hung like a horse,” the comparative size of animal penises, how porn star dicks aren’t real, and bronies.
In this episode: News- 2:05 || Main Topic (Horses)- 13:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52
Join Patreon to get access to the bonus segment for this episode, which is Fucking Dan talking about that one guy that got fucked to death by a horse. Bonus segments come out on Mondays. patreon.com/gayishpodcast

Apr 29, 2021 • 1h 23min
Gayish: 225 Transgender (w/ Sarah Ray from SarahTalk Podcast)
Caitlyn Jenner. Bulges and tucking. Peeing standing up. Topping when trans. Crossdressers.com. “The surgery.” Richard Dawkins. We ask special guest Sarah Ray all the things you’re not supposed to ask a trans person.
In this episode: News- 3:18 || Main Topic (Transgender)- 16:54 || Guest (Sarah Ray)- 19:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:50
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan asks Sarah "a doozy of a question." Sign up for bonus content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Apr 22, 2021 • 1h 24min
Gayish: 224 Socks
Socks can be a fetish, clean-up tool, FTM packer, puppet, and a way to prove you're not gay. Yes, this is our most sockual episode yet.
In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Socks)- 16:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:43
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us about Socks the Cat. Join for more sockful content at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Apr 21, 2021 • 12min
Gayish: 223 News Theme Song Contest [Shrinkage]
Mike & Kyle listen to a few of the submissions we loved from the news theme song contest, including the winner!

Apr 15, 2021 • 1h 21min
Gayish: 222 (Iced) Coffee
Why is iced coffee a gay stereotype? Also, coffee gays from history, coffee news from ChristianPost.com, decaf coffee guilt, and São Paulo.
In this episode: News- 4:25 || Main Topic (Coffee)- 17:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:00
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about his experience ingesting coffee non-mouthily the morning before recording.

Apr 8, 2021 • 1h 36min
Gayish: 221 Foreplay
HAPPY FOURTH BIRTHDAY TO US! Mike and Kyle celebrate with a livestream and foreplay.
In this episode: News- 3:57 || Main Topic (Foreplay)- 22:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:01
On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about the after-play to complement your 'fore-play. Get access at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Apr 1, 2021 • 1h 34min
Gayish: 220 Republicans
Are you a Republican't or a Republican? We talk about LGBT Republicans, and Mike tries not to yell while Kyle tries to keep the peace.
In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Republicans)- 17:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:33
Thank you to Kevin Henderson for requesting this topic! If you want to help produce an episode of Gayish, sign up as a Gap Bridger on our Patreon, www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.


