

Dropping In With Charlie Houpert
Charisma on Command
Charlie From Charisma On Command Drops In! On this podcast we break down philosophy, business, social skills, current events and more! Guests frequently join to share their story and spice up the conversation. Be sure to subscribe and turn notifications so you don’t miss out! ✔ ----For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.com----Watch on Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@DroppingInPodcast(Formerly known as the Charlie and Ben Podcast)
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Mar 5, 2020 • 1h 41min
Talking With Author Steven Kotler About Burnout, Futurology, And Flow
Charlie & Ben talk with accomplished author Steven Kotler
Timestamps:
1:47 - All About Steven (Yes, we talk about drugs again)
18:37 - What Is Flow And How Do I Achieve It
26:37 - Morality On The Back Of Technology
48:35 - How Do You Know When It's Time To Move On
1:00:43 - What Should We Do With Free Time?
1:08:06 - Will Robots Replace Humans Creatively Too?
1:14:49 - How To Consistently Get Into Flow
1:21:57 - Investing Money Into Technologies
1:24:17 - Steven's Dog Haven
1:30:18 - Biggest Frustrations And Biggest JoysAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 11, 2020 • 1h 48min
Blackpill In The Manosphere, Finding Your Suffering Tolerance, And Doomed Relationships - C&B #47
Charlie & Ben deliver their last regular podcast!
2:29 - Why We Are Ending The Regular Podcast
17:01 - Is Materialism Caused By Capitalism?
34:57 - Can Anyone Be Successful?
49:01 - Blackpill In The ‘Manosphere’
1:04:25 - Neuralink
1:18:25 - Is It Useful To Categorize People?
1:26:44 - Recognizing A Potentially Addictive Relationship
1:34:03 - How To Understand Your Tolerance For SufferingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 4, 2020 • 1h 32min
Self-Help Burnout, Red Pill Women, And Dating A Friend’s Ex
Charlie & Ben talk about red pill women, apologizing to a friend, and more!
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:27 - Bad Charisma Advice
11:13 - Red Pill Women
25:51 - Misunderstood News Outrage
32:51 - Are Videogames Valuable
47:32 - The Cause Of Our Loneliness
55:27 - STI Lying
1:10:28 - Autonomy VS Determinism
1:16:03 - Dating A Friend’s Ex
1:23:42 - Self-Help Burnout
Booklist:
How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnagie
The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem - Nathaniel BrandenAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 31, 2020 • 1h 53min
Chatting With Jesse From Simple Pickup On Social Anxiety, Optimizing Tinder, and His Breakup
Charlie & Ben talk with Jessie from the channel Simple Pickup
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:30 - Talking About The Term "Pickup Artist"
12:21 - How to Succeed On Youtube
17:37 - What happened to the Simple Pickup Channel
43:35 - Why Jessie Spent $250K Traveling
1:07:27 - Endless Options
1:12:59 - Marketing Ethics
1:23:23 - The 'Optimal' Way To Use Dating Apps
1:31:53 - Dealing With Being A Short Man In Dating
1:40:43 - Taking Investors In Your BusinessAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 28, 2020 • 1h 6min
Ex Pro Poker Player Talks Stress, Money & Dating - C&B #44
Charlie & Ben talk with an ex poker pro about his career, dating, and more!
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:50 - Why LA Sucks
7:46 - Meeting "The One"
23:57 - David's Poker Career (How He Started, Biggest Win, Etc)
36:52 - Common Tells In Poker
47:03 - Dealing With The High Stress Life Of Poker
53:57 - David's Biggest Win
59:23 - David's Relationship To Money
1:01:30 - Passion VS SuccessAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 21, 2020 • 2h 3min
Fitness Inspired Insecurity, Lies On The Google Homepage, And MDMA Therapy - C&B 43
Charlie & Ben talk about MDMA therapy, Instagram models, and much more!
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:27 - MDMA Experience (Charlie’s Dog)
29:25 - Kid Has Pictures Of Himself And Gets In Trouble
32:01 - eSports Not Real Sports?
48:09 - Ellen Degeneres (Gay Shaming)
1:01:56 - Singaporean Organ Donor Laws
1:10:37 - Ayahuasca Retreat Gone Wrong
1:16:35 - Fitness Instagrammers’ Insecurity
1:23:12 - AI Job Interviews
1:36:31 - Coming Out As An Atheist (Fan Q)
1:43:14 - Violent Roommate (Fan Q)
1:56:21 - Is Being Content Detrimental To Success? (Fan Q)
BOOK LIST:
Your Dog Is Your Mirror - Kevin Behan
4 Hour Work Week - Tim FerrissAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 17, 2020 • 1h 16min
Creepy Youth Leaders, Morality In An Evil World, And Sociopath Red Flags - C&B #42
Charlie & Ben talk more about cults, sociopaths, and much more!
Show Notes:
1:41 - Morality In An Evil World
17:48 - What Makes A Cult
28:59 - Sociopath Red Flags
36:48 - Hanging Out With An Acquaintance (Fan Q)
39:07 - Narcissist Breakup (Fan Q)
1:04:53 - Creepy Youth Leader
BOOK LIST:
The Selfish Gene - Richard DawkinsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 14, 2020 • 1h 35min
Masculine Archetypes, Red Pill Mistakes, And The Deadliest Cult - C&B #41
They guys talk about toxic masculinity, the red pill, and much more!
TIMESTAMPS:
0:20 - Surrendering (Cont.) & Flawed Justice
12:19 - The Deadliest Cult
29:28 - Getting Your Dream Job
41:08 - Judgmentalness
46:18 - Body Language In The Witcher
54:13 - Masculine Archetypes
1:02:40 - Woman For The Moon
1:06:43 - Red Pill Mistakes
1:25:23 - Charisma Burnout
1:28:26 - Having Introverted Friends (As An Extrovert)
BOOK LIST:
The Surrender Experiment - Michael SingerAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 11, 2020 • 1h 56min
Suicidal Gurus, Cults In Disguise, And Surrendering Vs Effort - C&B #40
Suicidal Gurus, Cults In Disguise, And Surrendering Vs Effort
Timestamps:
0:29 - Surrender VS Effort
25:37 - Suicidal Gurus
39:21 - Words And Their Intent
53:29 - Spotting A Psychopath
1:04:34 - Cults In Disguise
1:29:34 - Insecurity About Being A Virgin (Fan Q)
1:36:53 - How To Stop Valuing Things That Society Says Matters (Fan Q)
1:42:14 - Does Individualism Make You Feel Unaccepted? (Fan Q)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 7, 2020 • 1h 29min
The Danger Of Ambition, Kevin Hart’s Crazy Documentary, And Chatting With An Iraqi Citizen - C&B #39
Kevin Hart’s Netflix Show, Iran/Iraq, and much more!
0:24 - Mixing Friends And Finance
10:57 - Mass (Mis)Communication
24:12 - Danger Of Ambition
37:07 - Nudes For Australia & Ricky Gervais’ Roast
41:42 - Talking To A Quiet Person (Fan Q)
51:24 - Leaving Old Friends Behind (Fan Q)
54:52 - Talking To An Iraqi CitizenAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy