We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures
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Apr 12, 2017 • 1h 26min

Episode 36: Friends With Benefits- The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?

Keeping up with the Joneses "Friends" from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like. We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core to help put some perspective on expectations for making Friends With Benefits in the lifestyle. Snapshots Mr Jones enjoys watching a friend give Mrs Jones a good tongue lashing on the massage table while Mrs Jones recollects a hot make out session. Mentioned Please sign up here if you're interested in attending our Meet & Greet at Naughty in N'awlins this summer! Find the "dumb" card game here!
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Mar 12, 2017 • 1h 34min

Episode 35: Keepin' It Real- Developing a Healthy Approach to the Lifestyle

Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some "tried and true" LS friends, an evening with our new Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female! Discussion topic We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the lifestyle by 1) setting priorities, 2) staying balanced and 3) keeping a healthy perspective as a couple in the lifestyle. Snapshots Mr Jones shares an extremely "happy ending" with a new friend and Mrs Jones describes being pushed against a wall from behind while enjoying a sexy view in the mirror... Mentioned Please sign up here if you're interested in attending our Meet & Greet at Naughty in N'awlins this summer! Mrs Jones recommends visiting the Licor 43 website.
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Feb 12, 2017 • 1h 20min

Episode 34: Mr Jones and Me- A Guy's Perspective on the Lifestyle

Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than herself. Armed with this revelation she decides to "interview" Mr Jones in order to dig into how men may view the lifestyle experience differently than women. Snapshots We start off by sharing two newbie "hot tub" snapshots from listeners. Mr Jones shares a "messy" story with good friends while Mrs Jones tells how she caught herself flirting at a vanilla event while Mr Jones was out of town. Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18! Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!
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Jan 11, 2017 • 1h 34min

Episode 33: How Deep is Your Love?- How the Lifestyle Strengthens Our Relationship

Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia. Oh, and you'll also want to hear what we put in each other's naughty stockings! Discussion topic How is it that we can watch each other have sex with other people and not only does it turn us on but it brings us closer? Many of you have asked this question so we decided to share some tangible things we've experienced that prove to us (and hopefully you) that swinging can improve and already strong relationship. Snapshots Okay, two naked female bodies and a strap-on. Need we say more? Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18! Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!
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Dec 13, 2016 • 1h 26min

Episode 32: Swinger Fails- Learning From Those Inevitable Mistakes

Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times. Book on our website through our affiliate link on the page titled "The Joneses Recommend." We also describe what happened at our second house party (note: it was better than the first). Discussion topic As much as we try to research, learn and discuss everything before stepping into the lifestyle the inevitable mistake(s) will happen to us all. This time we don't tell you how to avoid the mistakes but rather how to work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Mistakes will happen to experienced swingers as well as newbies! Snapshots We recently had a sexy experience with a couple and did something we've never done before: book a hotel room from our dinner table at a restaurant! Both of us share sexy stories from the evening.
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Nov 17, 2016 • 1h 22min

Episode 31: You Are So Beautiful...to Me- Attractiveness in the Lifestyle

Keeping up with the JonesesOur new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think. We also share what sexy things we've been up to this month to include pushing a boundary by playing on the first date, enjoying our "Southwest Friends" again (in a sexy way) and a couple of other dinner dates. Discussion topic We've received a couple of critical emails lately from listeners who say we "only play with attractive couples" and that the lifestyle environment we describe is "nothing like what we normally see". We break down the idea of what attractiveness means to us both, who we are attracted to and how attractive we see ourselves. Attractiveness is a subjective word and we hope to better explain what it means to us and ask you to do the same. Snapshots Mr Jones loves the "dirty talk" while Mrs Jones participates in a very sexy triple-blow-job (yes, they do exist)!
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Nov 1, 2016 • 1h 20min

BONUS Episode 30: Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle- Our Conversation with Jay and Kay

Discussion Topic In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle. Jay and Kay from "That Couple Next Door" podcast join us to discuss a performance anxiety issue the four of us encountered when playing together. This issue is pervasive and can be discouraging but fear not, with the right approach: good communication, self-reflection and re-testing it can be resolved for the best!
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Oct 13, 2016 • 1h 40min

Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries- When to Mak'em and When to Break'em

Keeping up with the Joneses A lifestyle "happy hour" with "sexy" lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with "new" lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with "old" lifestyle friends, and a very fun evening with some "podcasting" friends. Discussion topic We made mistakes early in our lifestyle journey by not understanding how to make rules. We've split "rule making" into two categories: "rules" to protect your relationship and should not be broken and "boundaries" which are more flexible and allow for healthy growth. Snapshots Two listeners share snapshots about making and breaking rules and boundaries while Mrs Jones and I share two of our sexy encounters from this past month.
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Sep 14, 2016 • 1h 31min

Episode 28: Desire Pearl 2016- No Explanation is Possible

Keeping up with the Joneses After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn't go as well as we would've liked. Topic We talk about our week in paradise! After 14 months we finally get back to Desire Pearl and talk about meeting some amazing new friends, experiencing some play time with sexy couples and of course a lesson learned (or two). Snapshots Two sexy stories from a couple we had some fun with at Pearl and two from us as well.
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Aug 29, 2016 • 59min

BONUS Episode 27: Diversity in the Lifestyle- An Origin Story to Remember

Discussion topic Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage. If you think you know what an arranged marriage is you might want to listen and learn! They discuss how it all began, the pitfalls and stereotyping they faced and what led them to try the lifestyle after over 20 years of marriage.

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