Smart Money Parenting

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott and Chad invite their dads to share their experiences on parenting. They discuss the importance of taking time to teach children about practical life skills, such as money management. They emphasize the need to show kids the real world and help them understand actions, reactions, and financial responsibilities. The dads reflect on their own parenting journey, both the successes and mistakes that shaped their children's lives. Tune in to hear their valuable insights on raising financially responsible kids. Importance of taking time to teach and show children values and practical skills Emphasizing the importance of accountability and living within means Teaching children about the real world and the ebb and flow of actions, reactions, money, and spending Reflecting on the simplicity of practical lessons in financial management Introducing the guests, Chad's dad and Scott's dad, for a discussion on their parenting experiences Sharing background information on the guests, including their careers, marriages, and children Discussing the concept of bringing parents to work and the fun of having them as guests on the podcast Highlighting the importance of learning from parents' successes and mistakes in order to understand how they got to where they are today Sharing personal stories and experiences from the guests' parenting journeys Discussing the price of gas and houses when the guests were newlyweds Reflecting on the challenges and uncertainties of the late 70s and how it compares to the current times Emphasizing the importance of a strong work ethic and the value of education Discussing the lessons of integrity and the importance of family history and legacy Sharing personal stories and examples of lessons taught to children, such as saving for college and the value of generosity Reflecting on the resilience and strength gained from going through difficult times as a family Discussing the importance of time spent with children, regardless of quantity or quality, and the impact it can have on their lives Offering advice to younger parents, including taking time to teach and show children what is important, being accountable, and living within means Mentioned in this episode  gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott  Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this podcast episode, the Scott & Chad discuss their mission of financial education and success building in young people. They talk about the overwhelming response they receive from people who want to get involved and help. They also mention their upcoming event where they plan to break a world record for the most kids learning about financial literacy live on a livestream. They then shift the conversation to the importance of setting goals for kids and how it can help them think about something bigger than themselves. They mention a book called "Be Your Future Self Now" that inspired discussions with their own teenagers about setting goals and becoming the person they want to be in the future. Bullet Point Break Down; Breaking a world record for the most kids in history participating in a live stream to learn financial literacy skills. Mention of notable guests and influencers participating in the event. Discussion on the importance of setting goals and thinking about a future version of oneself that matters enough to take action today. Reference to the book "Be Your Future Self Now" by Dr. Benjamin Hardy and its impact on teenagers. Explanation of the MAP (Motivation Ability Prompt) system for taking action on goals. Examples of using the MAP system for flossing teeth and doing push-ups. Importance of setting up prompts and reminders to support goal achievement. Mention of the "Start Your Day" habit and the concept of working backwards to set goals. Introduction to the concept of a strategy circle for kids and families to overcome obstacles and reach goals. Encouragement to make goals simple, measurable, and attainable. How to Keep your Kids Accountable;  Emphasize the importance of setting goals that are simple, measurable, and attainable. Discuss the concept of SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound). Encourage kids to think about their future selves and what they want to achieve. Teach kids to work backwards from their desired outcome and set smaller, actionable goals. Introduce the idea of creating vision boards or I am statements to visualize and reinforce goals. Use prompts and reminders to help kids stay motivated and accountable. Encourage kids to identify and overcome obstacles that may hinder their progress. Discuss the concept of perseverance and the importance of taking action towards goals. Highlight the benefits of having an accountability partner or support system. Encourage kids to celebrate milestones and successes along the way. Mentioned in This Episode: Elevate Experience 2023 Empower Over 15,000 Kids in a record Breaking Financial Literacy Event  https://www.elevate.kids gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott  Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell  

In this episode, both Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the right mindset for back-to-school season. They emphasize the importance of bringing one's best self, making a good first impression, and approaching challenges as opportunities for personal growth. The hosts also share advice on how parents can support their children in developing a positive attitude towards school. Encourage your child to embrace new opportunities and make new friends. Shift their mindset from focusing on being with their best friends to creating value for their classmates. Teach them to think about how they can serve and add value to others in the classroom. Emphasize the importance of bringing their best self and making a positive first impression. Help them develop a mindset of growth, positive energy, and serving others. Focus on the value they add to others' lives rather than just their own achievements. Prepare them to be a powerful force in the world by instilling traits of success and leadership.   Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott  Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

Stop doing things for your kids, just do things with them The Importance of Quality Time with Your Kids Making Memories with Your Children Prioritizing Family Time over Work Parenting with Peace of Mind Doing Things Together: The Key to Strong Parent-Child Relationships Parenting Beyond Providing: The Power of Shared Experiences Creating Lasting Bonds with Your Kids The Value of Presence in Parenting Building Connections through Shared Activities Making Every Moment Count with Your Children  In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott Donnell & Chad Willardson discuss the importance of focusing on doing things with your kids rather than just for them. They emphasize that while parents often work hard to provide for their children, what truly matters is the quality time spent together. By prioritizing activities and experiences with their kids, parents can find peace of mind and strengthen their relationships. Tune in for practical tips and advice on how to make the most of your time with your children. "When I look back, I don't remember a lot of things that my parents even really taught me, but I do remember the times we were together." Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott  Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

What do you want to be when you grow up? In this episode, Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why this is one of the most destructive questions parents can ask their kids. They also reveal how the question puts undue pressure on children  as well as better ways to understand your kid's interests and passions. Scott starts the conversation by describing why you should stop asking your kids what they want to be when they grow up. When you ask your kids what they want to be when they grow up, their answers are often based on pleasing you. Scott describes how kids went from wanting to be doctors, firemen, and astronauts to social media influencers and YouTube content creators. Scott and Chad describe how parents can have conversations with their kids about goals, dreams, and aspirations.    If someone is doing what they love while solving a need in the world, that's the perfect career. According to Scott, 50% of all jobs today did not exist 15 years ago. That's why we must focus on skill sets and unique abilities that could go into a hundred different jobs. Help your kids understand there's flexibility. People change careers and change industries all the time, and that's okay. Chad explains why it's never a good idea to pigeonhole your kids and force them to follow your career path. For Scott, the type of career your kid will have is based on their current interests and passions. Scott explains how your kid's unique abilities are the keys to a happy, satisfying life full of wealth, knowledge, clarity, and confidence. Chad and Scott discuss the best ways to talk to your kids about their future careers. Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott  Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

Does your kid think they’re better than everyone else? Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss how thinking your kids deserve special treatment damages their future. They also reveal a better way to motivate your kids and make them feel proud of their accomplishments. Chad and Scott agree that the best parents tell their kids, “you’re special to me.” Not, “you deserve special treatment.” According to Chad, telling your kids they deserve special treatment makes them walk around with a chip on their shoulder. Scott’s definition of humility - a clear self-estimation of who you are in the world. For Scott, true self-esteem is built by letting your kids know that they are special to you. Not telling them that they deserve special treatment. Although you’d want to love your kids as much as possible, you must also give them an accurate view of their place in the world. Chad talks about the unfortunate reality of modern parenting. Telling your kids that they’re superior doesn’t build self-esteem; it breeds narcissism. Scott and Chad agree that if you teach your kids to believe they are superior to everyone else and they deserve special treatment, you’re setting them up for failure later in life. Chad’s golden rule of parenting - praise and reward effort, not outcomes. Your kids cannot control the outcome. But they can control their effort and their attitude. Scott goes over the long-term consequences of parents doing everything for their kids. For Chad, doing everything for a child might initially sound harmless, but parents must also consider the long-term consequences of raising their kids in a bubble. Chad and Scott discuss the foundational elements of a smart money parent. Scott covers ways parents can teach their kids how to create value in the real world. Scott talks about the confidence and capability matrix - and why it’s so important for kids to start building concrete capabilities. Chad and Scott agree that it’s cheaper and safer for your kids to fail at home than in the real world. Scott shares a crazy hiring story where a parent accompanied their child to a job interview. According to Chad, failure in kids is okay - kids need to experience and overcome failure if they are to succeed in the real world. What to do the next time you find yourself trying to get special treatment for your kids. Scott and Chad discuss the detrimental consequences of entitled parents trying to get their kids special treatment.     Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

How do you save for your children's education? Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson welcome the “accidental financial guy,” Robert Farrington from The College Investor.com. They discuss when it’s a good time to start teaching your children about money, the Y.E.S. acronym, why 529 plans are worth looking into, and the different approaches you could have, in regards to saving for college, depending on your children’s age. Robert Farrington, who labels himself an “accidental financial guy,” starts the conversation by sharing his story and how we got to where he is today with The College Investor. Robert focuses on introducing children to money because he believes that "the earlier you start to build wealth, the less money it takes” – plus, you have time working in your favor. Starting as early as you can, obviously with age-appropriate money education for your child, is something Robert recommends to all parents. It’s about understanding the why, and helping children understand it, says Robert. Moreover, you should also teach children about earning money from a young age. There are different ways children can earn money: chores, household projects, saving money gifts (e.g. from birthdays), but also things outside the house, like small works or recycling, for instance. Even if your children ask about something you do know about, it’s very easy to get yourself informed today through podcasts, blogs, and YouTube channels. Robert always likes to approach paying for college using the Y.E.S. acronym: you, Educational savings, and then general savings. Robert’s suggestion is to use the oxygen mask analogy and take care of yourself first, also because there are several ways to navigate education – grants, scholarships, financial aids, different school choices, etc. Chad points out that many parents over-invest in putting money away for college and then under-invest in their own retirement. This is a mistake because you can’t get scholarships, grants, or student loans for retirement… For Robert, getting a 529 plan or leverage taxable investing are the two bread and butter ways to approach saving for education. Beware: there are plans that are marketed nationally, but they're all housed by states. Typically, a plan is based on the rules of the state of the account owner, usually a parent. Many people are afraid of the taxes and the 10% penalty you’d have to pay if you pulled money out of the account for non-qualifying expenses. Robert brings up an idea of how a family could use a 529 plan to create an “education trust” of sorts. Remember: a parent could be the account owner of a 529 plan. This is important to keep in mind because while 529 plans do impact your financial aid (though they only count towards 5.64% on the FAFSA), grandparent-owned 529 plans don’t impact your financial aid one bit. Robert, Chad, and Scott talk about what happens if your child receives a scholarship, as well as the life insurance side of things, and when you should tell your children that you’re saving for their education. People who struggle the most with student loans are the ones that never graduated college. Robert shares his advice for both parents with very young children and for those with older ones – including the approach he has with his own kids.     Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus TheCollegeInvestor.com The College Investor Audio Show The College Investor on YouTube - @thecollegeinvestor The College Investor on TikTok - @thecollegeinvestor Previous episode - TRIGGER WARNING: Shocking Stats About College Backer.com Upromise.com Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

How do you prepare your kids for college? And what about you – how do you prepare yourself? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss what parents should think about and do when it comes to their children potentially going to college. They share some stats related to education quality and student loan debts, the “financial handcuffs” trap, and what a good gap year actually looks like. Scott kicks off the conversation mentioning a few facts about education, like the fact that education rates are higher than ever. Even though an impressive amount of families really value education, Scott doesn’t believe that everyone should get thousands of dollars in student loans to get a degree. In 2021, the total amount of student debt by 44 million borrowers exceeded $1.7 trillion. However, only about 55% of students pursuing a bachelor’s degree actually complete it. Chad raises the question of whether it’s worth paying thousands of dollars while, today, education is really happening online… According to a 2021 report of best colleges, 76% of students believe that online learning is actually better and more productive than, or at least equal to, on-campus learning. Scott says it clearly: college is not the only answer to ensure a child’s success. Scott points out some of the advantages of going to college and warns about what parents should be on the lookout for. Chad and Scott mention the fact that many companies don’t look at degrees but focus on people’s attitudes when hiring them. Level 7 of the GravyStack app addresses the concept of the ROI of college. When approached the wrong way, student loans can be a “financial handcuff” young people will need to deal with for the rest of their life. Scott and Chad share their college prep advice, and talk about what a good gap year actually is. Chad shares the story of a couple that had a different way to approach their children’s college journey.     Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

How do you explain what inflation is to your kids? Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson talk about inflation, what it is, why it matters, and how to explain it to your kids. Chad starts the conversation by revealing the leading driver of inflation in the US. According to Chad, if your money isn’t growing, it’s losing a lot of its purchasing power and becoming less valuable. If you’re spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on a college education, ensure your kids learn valuable and practical things so they don’t graduate with a ton of debt and no skills. Chad talks about the difference between inflation and deflation. Scott explains how inflation and rising prices affect low-income households. For Scott, inflation is like a monster that can slowly eat away at what you have. Chad and Scott agree that learning to create more value is the best hedge against inflation. The statistics show that if you have a credit card, you are psychologically going to spend 30% more money. Chad and Scott talk about the benefits of having your money work for you. Chad goes through ways parents can make their kids understand why prices always go up in an economy. Scott reveals why you need to be aware of the things that can quickly dry up your bank account. Scott and Chad agree that saving and investing are critical for protecting yourself against inflation - always make more than you spend so that you can have something to save and invest. Scott reveals the two areas that prove inflation exists - rising health and medical costs.     Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

Do your kids understand how advertising works? In this episode, Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson talk about the impact of advertising on kids. They discuss how learning to decode the message behind an ad is an essential skill for kids and adults alike. Scott and Chad start the conversation by describing how advertising works and the tricks marketers use to get people’s attention. You need to understand that every business is trying to sell you something, whether it’s a good or bad business. Chad explains how the average person sees hundreds of thousands of advertisements daily - all used to influence, persuade, and get you to think a certain way and buy a certain thing. What is the best defense against sneaky advertising? For Scott, you must teach your kids to decode the message behind the ad. Did you know that your attention is being bought and sold? We live in a world where to influence, communicate, or sell anything to potential buyers, you must capture their attention. Chad and Scott highlight how attention is now the most valuable resource in the world. Scott goes through ways to help your kid develop a strong sense of identity. Scott and Chad agree that ads are everywhere. Everywhere you turn, you’re likely to come across a print, digital, or recorded ad. Scott explains subliminal advertising and how marketers use intentional messaging, sounds, or visuals to get you to buy something. Chad shares the questions you can ask your kids to help them understand how advertising works. Chad explains ways to teach kids to resist advertising and become smart consumers. Scott reveals the techniques marketers use to target deep childhood wounds and get you to buy their products. How to make your kids understand the difference between wants and needs. Chad and Scott discuss why a 30-second Super Bowl ad costs hundreds of millions of dollars. Advertising is everywhere; your kids cannot escape it. Scott goes through lessons parents can use to teach their kids to be advertising-savvy consumers. Chad explains the link between advertising, consumerism, and materialism.      Mentioned in This Episode: gravystack.com/smart gravystack.com/igniter smartmoneyparenting.com smartmoneyparenting.com/followus Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell