What‘s Your Position?
Ashley Weller
SEX. Relationships. Love. Life. I want to know your opinion on these, and many more topics. I love statistics, research and all things human brain. Why we fuck, how often we masturbate, why do we cheat, why do we have children...why we don‘t have children. I sit with friends, family, educators, doctors and regular people...like you...and ask burning questions about hot button, cold shoulder, warm and wet topics. Join me and my new friends as we ask...”What‘s your position?”
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Nov 11, 2024 • 1h 36min
Full Frontal: Between Butt Plugs and Bibles; Worship the Queen peasant with Sophia Domina
Hello Fellow Humans! On this episode we sat down with the captivating Sophia Domina for an in-depth, raw conversation about kink, religion, and empowerment. We dove headfirst into topics some might find shocking—like the juxtaposition of butt plugs and Bibles—and explored the complex ways sexuality and spirituality can intersect.
Sophia shared her journey as a dominatrix, revealing how BDSM can be a liberating force for both her and her clients. We talked about religious guilt, sexual freedom, and how embracing your desires can actually lead to personal growth and self-discovery. Did you know that 1 in 6 Americans has dabbled in BDSM? That statistic alone shows how far we've come in normalizing kink, but there’s still a long way to go in shedding shame, especially when it comes to sexuality and religion.
**Key Takeaways**:
1. BDSM can be an empowering practice, helping people reclaim control and confront societal shame.
2. There’s often a strong connection between religious guilt and the exploration of sexuality.
3. Setting boundaries and clear communication are crucial in any sexual relationship, especially in kink.
4. Embracing your authentic self—kinks and all—can lead to deeper emotional and personal growth.
If you're curious about Sophia's work, make sure to check out her new book and more on her website Sophiadomina.com

Oct 30, 2024 • 52min
Quickie: Ghosts That F*ck; Incubi, Succubae and Spooky Sexual Encounters
Hello spooky Humans! Welcome to our annual Halloween episode! Did you know that in a study done on those with sleep disorders over 18% reported a sexual encounter with an unknown entity? On this years super scary episode we discuss the ghosts that haunt not just our houses, but our dreams too! Incubi and Succubae have been around for centuries and in this quickie we tell you all about their origins, some scary stories from celebrities and regular folk alike and some statistics about these sex demons. Get ready for some fun and freaky facts all about f**king ghosts!

Oct 14, 2024 • 1h 23min
FULL FRONTAL: What the Hell is Ethical Porn; With the founder of Afterglow Lily!
Hello fellow humans Did you know that around 70% of humans consume some type of P*RN in their lifetime? ON today's Full Frontal we speak to Lily, the founder of XO Afterglow, an ethical sex-based media site that offers not just erotic films, but erotic classes or "Edu-p*rn"" as well as blogs about sex and how to videos. Since the majority of teens say they get their sex education from P*RN, we think this episode is imperative for explaining how we can use erotic art and film to better our sex lives and make sure the performer's in the films get paid, recognized and are not exploited! Check out this INCRDIBLE episode, listen to our favorite films on the site, how they make fake c*m and how much P*RN actors get paid! We also have a free trial for you all on XOAfterglow!
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Afterglow is a women-led platform dedicated to inspiring great sex by promoting female pleasure and confidence in fulfilling desires. Their ethical porn, made by women for women, emphasizes consent, fair treatment of performers, and accurate portrayals of sex. Subscribers gain access to guided masturbations, partner exercises, educational content, and a stress-free, secure viewing experience.

Sep 30, 2024 • 34min
QUICKIE: RIP Dr. Ruth; Paying homage to a legend
On this episode of WYP we look back at the life of a legend, Dr. Ruth.
Karola Ruth Siegel on June 4, 1928, in Wiesbaden, Germany, lived a life full of fascinating twists. As a Jewish child fleeing Nazi Germany, she was sent to a Swiss orphanage during WWII. Post-war, she moved to Israel and became a sniper for the Haganah—talk about a dramatic start!
In the 1950s, Dr. Ruth moved to the U.S. and took a unique path into sexual health. Her radio show “Sexually Speaking” in the 1980s made her a household name with her no-nonsense, yet warm and funny approach to sex and relationships. She also made big waves at Planned Parenthood, where she championed sexual health education.
Even in her 90s, she kept sharing her wisdom through numerous books and television appearances until her passing on June 26, 2023. She is one of our major inspirations and we hope you love her too! “The more we learn about our bodies, the more we understand that sex is a natural part of who we are.”

Sep 18, 2024 • 1h 29min
FULL FRONTAL: Limitless Love with Ally Iseman; How to find your passport to pleasure
Hello Humans! In our first Full Frontal of Season 5 we sit down with Ally Iseman, owner and founder of Passport To pleasure; an expansive relationship guide that helps any couple looking to explore the concepts of ethical non-monogamy. She gives us the run down of her journey into this space and her 6 principals to a better relationship (22:00). We also discuss the four phases of Limitless Love (52:00) and how to take a relationship from the curious to the constructive!
Ally Iseman is a writer, relationship coach, and non-monogamy educator based in Los Angeles who has been featured in The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Yahoo!, PureWow, and more. She is a sought after speaker and podcast guest who teaches busy couples on the brink how to build a bulletproof relationship that lasts. Download her free Relationship Ratio workbook to see if your relationship is ready to open up without blowing up!

Sep 2, 2024 • 29min
Season 5 is Alive! Welcome back fellow humans!
Hello fellow Humans! We are back for season 5 of What's Your Position and boy oh boy do we have some exciting news! Check out our first episode and learn all about our new logo, and new website! We are featuring mostly in person episodes this season so if you see more "Quickies" that's why! We love that you are still with us on this journey and we thank you all for listening and sharing the information with your friends! CHEERS TO SEASON 5!
Jul 17, 2024 • 1h 26min
FULL FRONTAL: We get Double Teamed with Cami and Niki: Smut, Bu** Plugs and Sun Signs
In this Full Frontal we are joined by the stars of the Podcast Double Teamed, twin sisters Cami and Niki as they share some of their wildest experiences and deepest fantasies! We talk about our shared love of smut novels and break down your sun sign into what you should be doing in the bedroom. We also discuss topics like golden showers, consensual non-consent and knife play! This kinky episode is jam packed with spicy content and we were so grateful to have this incredible duo on our show! Check out their podcast, Double Teamed wherever you get podcasts!
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Jul 4, 2024 • 1h 20min
FULL FRONTAL: Hot Flashes, Hysterectomy's and Hormones; It's Menopause time! With Dr. Shyama
Hello Humans! Did you know perimenopause (the start of symptoms of menopause) begin on average in a persons early to mid 40's? Did you know that not all women get hot flashes? Did you know birth control can mitigate some symptoms of menopause/ NEITHER DID WE! In this episode we are joined again by the incredible Dr. Shyama Mathews, OBGYN. We had so many requests for an episode all about Menopause that we could think of no better person to go over the finer details and listener (and host TBH) questions! Menopause is not a topic of conversation in many circles and it is such a shame because anyone with a uterus is going to experience this shift in hormones, desires, lubrication, emotions, weight gain, hair loss and so many other aspects of the end of your menstrual cycle. It is important to get the conversation going and share with friends and loved ones about your experiences! We get to some great questions about onset, genetics, symptoms, medications, hormone replacements and more!
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Jun 24, 2024 • 1h 13min
FULL FRONTAL: Pour Sugar on Me and Tell Me I'm Pretty! All about the world of hair removal!
Hello humans! In this Full Frontal we have owner of Sacred Skin, Ciara Fisher, over to the studio to give us a history lesson and free armpit sugaring! We discuss the benefits, stats and go way back to Egypt to understand the longstanding desire to rip out body hair out with hot liquid. We also get our underarms sugared live in the episode (videos on our Instagram!) and we talk about hair removal in general; who does it, how often and why! Check it out!
Jun 16, 2024 • 1h 4min
Quickie: Over The Shoulder Boulder Holders! All about Bras!
In this quickie we visit the world of bras, the history of why we allow these torture devices in our lives and the advances in modern technology! We have some titalizing facts for you, some perky stats and some busty claims about bras during WW2! Join us as we stare directly at your ches..eyes...and discuss the brazier in all its glory and pain!


