Hello Fellow Humans! Get ready to crank up the fun and kink factor at Backwards Bordelo! Join us for a playful romp through LA’s most outrageous queer kink event, hosted by the fabulous Carter—your guide to everything quirky, sexy, and delightfully subversive. 😘✨ In this episode, we celebrate queer spaces as the ultimate playgrounds for self-expression, creativity, and a little mischief. We’re diving deep into the history of these vibrant havens—from the legendary gay and lesbian bars that lit up our nights to the sizzling alternative events that have taken over when COVID-19 forced many beloved spaces to close. Did you know that nearly 30% of LA’s iconic queer establishments shuttered during the pandemic? 📉 Across the nation, a similar 20% decline has left many feeling the loss of these safe spaces where laughter, love, and liberation once thrived. But hey, out of every challenge comes a fabulous comeback! 💪🏳️‍🌈 Backwards Bordelo is more than just an event—it’s a beacon of creative resistance. Studies have shown that over 70% of queer youth crave safe environments for authentic exploration and self-discovery, and this event is answering that call with a mix of kink, performance art, and unapologetic joy. 🔥💃 Carter brings their signature blend of humor and heart as we explore how celebrating kink in a secure, inclusive setting isn’t just about pushing boundaries—it’s about building community and fostering empowerment. Whether you’re drawn by the jaw-dropping fire dancers, the immersive Shibari, the dancers and knife play, the vibrant stories of resilience, or the need to reclaim spaces that nurture our true selves, this episode promises to be a rollicking good time! 🎭💖 Tune in for a playful yet powerful journey through queer history, sizzling current trends, and a vision of a future where every queer soul has a space to shine. Because when the going gets tough, the tough get kinked—and we’re here to celebrate it all! 🎙️🌈✨ Let's get this party started! 🎉💥

HELLO FELLOW SELF-LOVING HUMANS! Do we have a TREAT for you! After stalking his Instagram for YEARS, pre-ordering a signed copy of his book "DIY: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation" I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Dr. Eric Sprankle—a sex psychologist, author, and Associate Professor at Mankato State University—who just released his groundbreaking new book on masturbation and sexual health. 🌟 Let me tell you, this episode is a mix of jaw-dropping facts, myth-busting, and even a little horror movie lovefest! 😏🎥 👀 An Amazing Fact About Masturbation: Did you know that regular masturbation can reduce stress, improve sleep, and even boost your immune system? 💤💪 And contrary to the "semen retention" movement, there’s no evidence that holding back ejaculation enhances masculinity or health. In fact, frequent ejaculation may lower the risk of prostate cancer! (Yes, science 🧬 said so.) We also dove deep into: 🔥 Dr. Sprankle’s book: From the stigmas around solo sex to why masturbation is often framed negatively in mainstream conversations, this book is a must-read. His sex-positive perspective is all about embracing pleasure and challenging harmful myths. 🧠 The debate on "masturbation addiction": Is it a real thing or just another way to shame people for normal sexual behavior? Spoiler alert: there’s more shame than science here. ❌ Why semen retention is NOT the move: Dr. Sprankle broke down the pseudoscience behind this trendy myth and reminded us that pleasure doesn’t need to come with guilt or restrictions. 💔 Where’s women’s pleasure in these convos?: We discussed the glaring absence of female masturbation from most discussions—why is society still so uncomfortable with women owning their pleasure? 🙄 🍿 Horror movie geek-out: Dr. Sprankle is a HUGE horror fan, and we had so much fun talking about our favorite scary movies. From the classics to the slashers, you’ll love this lighthearted side of the convo! (Spoiler: We’re both team Hereditary 👻.) This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to challenge sexual shame, learn from one of the best in the field, and maybe add a few horror movies to their watchlist. I was honored to have Dr. Eric Sprankle on the show—his work is game-changing, his energy is contagious, and his humor is unmatched. 😍 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And let us know: what’s your favorite horror movie? 👇🍿 BUY THE BOOK HERE!!! 👇 👇 👇 DIY The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation #SexPositivity #MasturbationMyths #HorrorLovers #SemenRetentionDebunked #WhatsYourPosition

🎙️ EPISODE TITLE: "No Hormones? No Problem! 🔥 Non-Hormonal Birth Control 101" Episode Synopsis: No hormones? No Problem! In this first part of an all new Afternoon Delight series, w break down all forms of non-hormonal options for making love, without making babies love options. We love options and when it comes to birth control, there’s no one-size-fits-all! While hormonal methods work great for many, they’re not the only way to prevent pregnancy.  🔥 What’s on the agenda? 🔥 ✔️ Barrier methods—Condoms, diaphragms, and cervical caps (Do you really know how to use them right? Let’s find out!) 🛑💦 ✔️ Spermicide & Gels—A little extra protection or a sneaky secret weapon? 🏊‍♂️☠️ ✔️ The pull-out method—Does it actually work? We’ve got the stats to settle the debate. 😏🔄 ✔️ Surgical solutions—From vasectomies to tubal ligations, what does permanent birth control really mean? ✂️🚫 No shade to hormones, but if you’re looking for other ways to stay baby-free, we’ve got you covered. We’re busting myths, breaking down effectiveness rates, and giving you the facts—so you can find what works for YOU. Some fun facts about condoms for your brains:  1️⃣ Effectiveness: When used perfectly, condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. But with typical use (because let’s be real, no one is perfect), effectiveness drops to about 87%. 2️⃣ STI Protection: Condoms are the ONLY birth control method that also protects against sexually transmitted infections (STIs), reducing the risk of HIV transmission by about 80% and significantly lowering the risk of other STIs like chlamydia and gonorrhea. 3️⃣ Breakage & Slippage: About 2% of condoms break or slip off during sex. Using the right size, checking expiration dates, and using water- or silicone-based lube (not oil-based!) can help reduce this risk. Want more condom tips? Tune in to the episode! 🎧🔥 #WrapItBeforeYouTapIt 💋 Smart, sexy, and all about choices—because birth control should fit your life, not the other way around. 🎧 Tune in and let’s talk about keeping it safe, stress-free, and sexy! 😘💖 #WhatsYourPosition #SafeNotSorry #NonHormonalBC #wrapitbeforeyoutapit

Hello Humans! In this quickie, we discuss all things fellatio and cunnalinugus! We go down on some amazing stats and give you awesome tips for better oral, including positions, topics to discuss with your partners, and ways to ensure everyone feels good! We tell some fun stories about oral sex, play a fun game with oral sex euphemisms, and our stat of the day will blow your mind! We hope you enjoy!

Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming a monastic retreat? Trust us, you’re not alone. The dating scene is a bit of a rigged game, and we’re here to unpack why! Join us as we chat with Dr. Dave Pincus, who’s ready to debunk the so-called "Courtship Gap." We’ll dissect the pressure men face to conform to outdated dating norms and explore how evolutionary standards and tribe mentality can help us reconnect with the real art of finding your soulmate. Spoiler alert: it involves shaking off societal myths and learning to date like a human being! Did you know that a recent study found that 63% of men feel pressured to act a certain way on dates? And let’s not forget the staggering statistic that only 23% of men feel confident when approaching someone new! So tune in as we delve into courtship rituals, navigate the digital dating jungle, and give you a sneak peek into Dr. Pincus's hopefully groundbreaking book on the courtship gap. Guys, this one’s tailor-made for you—let’s get ready to break some dating barriers and have some fun!

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 3! How can we build healthier, happier relationships that withstand the test of time? In this episode, we delve into the groundbreaking research of Dr. John Gottman, a pioneer in understanding what makes relationships thrive. We’ll explore the infamous 'Four Horsemen' of relationship doom: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. These behaviors can derail even the strongest bonds, and recognizing them is the first step toward fostering a more secure and loving connection. What sets the Gottman Method apart from traditional couples therapy? Unlike many approaches that focus primarily on past traumas, Gottman's method is rooted in extensive empirical research. He has studied thousands of couples to identify specific, measurable behaviors that predict relationship success. Instead of avoiding conflict, Gottman emphasizes constructive conflict resolution, equipping couples with effective communication skills to navigate disagreements positively. We’ll introduce the Sound Relationship House Theory, a structured framework that outlines essential levels for strengthening relationships, such as building love maps, nurturing fondness, and creating shared goals. This clear roadmap is unique to the Gottman Method, providing couples with actionable steps toward improvement. Did you know that according to Gottman’s research, couples who regularly exhibit the Four Horsemen are 80% more likely to break up? However, couples who practice his techniques experience a 94% success rate in improving their relationship satisfaction! Join us as we share three actionable tips to help you build a stronger foundation: Practice Appreciation – Make it a habit to express gratitude for your partner. Learn to Repair – Develop skills to recognize and address conflicts before they escalate. Foster Emotional Connection – Prioritize meaningful conversations and engage in shared activities. Tune in to discover how understanding and applying Gottman’s principles can transform your relationship into a thriving partnership!

🎄🎙️ Christmas Quickie: The Naughty List Edition! 🎁🔥 Ho, ho, ho, you naughty little elves! In this festive quickie episode of What's Your Position?, we're slipping into something cozy (or maybe barely there) and unwrapping the spiciest holiday facts you didn’t know you needed. ❄️ Winter is Coming... and So Are You 🥵 Did you know science says people have way more sex in the winter? Turns out, those shorter days and longer nights aren't just for Netflix. We'll break down the hormone shifts, seasonal moods, and actual research showing why your bed gets more action when it’s cold outside. 💋 Meet Me Under the Mistletoe 🌿 This innocent-looking holiday plant has a wild history. We’re talking ancient fertility rituals, forbidden kisses, and some very sexy origins. Spoiler: It’s not just about stealing a smooch at the office party. 🎁 Stuff Their Stocking... Literally 🔥 Forget socks and gift cards. We're talking vibrators, lacey little numbers, and gifts that guarantee you'll both be on the nice list this year. We'll give you tips on how to pick the perfect pleasure-packed present for your partner. 📽️ Holiday Rom-Com Smackdown ❤️🎬 We’re ranking our Top Holiday Rom-Coms and serving up juicy facts about these festive flicks: "White Christmas" – Did you know this classic was never intended to become a full-length movie? The iconic Bing Crosby song was actually written for a different film entirely! "The Holiday" – Fun fact: Kate Winslet’s cottage was so cozy, fans tried to rent it… only to find out it’s fake. So grab your eggnog, light a fire (in more ways than one), and let’s get holly, jolly, and hella frisky. 🎧 Tune in, turn on, and let’s sleigh this holiday season. 🔔🔥

Episode Title: Get Intimate with Athena and Arya! Hello Fellow Humans! This week on What's Your Position, we're thrilled to bring you a Full Frontal episode featuring the radiant and sultry Athena! As a product tester, playlist curator, and content creator for the oh-so-spicy Arya subscription box, Athena dives into the ins and outs of her fascinating job. We’re unpacking it all—new boxes like Edge, Adore, and Pose—and why adding a touch of music to your intimate moments is a total game-changer. Athena shares juicy tidbits about why orgasms should be on your daily to-do list (yes, please!), how to cultivate deeper intimacy with your partner, and the research that backs it all up. Did you know that couples who have regular deep conversations report their relationships are 33% more satisfying? Or that vulnerable communication can lead to a 60% improvement in your sex life? But wait, there’s more! We dive into the art of sexting—how it’s not just a spicy addition but a powerful way to stay connected. We also explore how showing intimacy in front of others, like holding hands or sharing loving glances, can translate to even more closeness and passion in the bedroom. And because music makes everything better, we discuss how the right tunes can set the mood, deepen your connection, and enhance your relationship in unexpected ways. With over 15 customizable boxes, personalized quizzes, and a concierge service to spice up your connection, Arya is revolutionizing date nights. Tune in as we explore how Arya takes the guesswork out of intimacy while adding layers of fun, passion, and, let’s be real, orgasms! Don’t forget to snag your Arya box with our exclusive code WYP15 for 15% off your first three months. Head to Arya.Fyi, take the quiz, and start creating unforgettable moments. Come join us for a steamy, insightful, and oh-so-fun episode. Let’s play! Athena created a What's your position Playlist JUST FOR OUR LISTENERS!  WYP Sexy Playlist Check out Arya and get your first box here and use our code WYP15 for 15% off your first 3mo! Arya, your erotic concierge for a sexy date night

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 2: Ever wonder how your attachment style affects your relationships, from sparks to emotional hiccups? In this episode, we’ll dive into attachment theory and explore the four main attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (also called Disorganized). We’ll break down how each style shapes our behavior, communication, and emotional needs in relationships and why knowing your style can be the ultimate game-changer in building healthier connections. Did you know that studies show about 50% of adults identify as Secure, while 20% report an Anxious attachment style, 25% are Avoidant, and the remaining 5% fall under the Fearful-Avoidant style? Understanding these stats helps us see that everyone has attachment-related tendencies, but it’s possible to grow into a more Secure attachment. We’ll also share practical ways to move toward secure attachment, whether through self-awareness, therapy, or relationship adjustments. By the end, you’ll have actionable tools to make your connections more balanced, fulfilling, and less reactive. Join us as we dig deep into the psychology behind attachment and offer tips for growth and mutual understanding!

WE ARE THANK FUL FOR YOU!  Enjoy this bonus episode of WYP for your long weekend of family gatherings!   Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming a monastic retreat? Trust us, you’re not alone. The dating scene is a bit of a rigged game, and we’re here to unpack why! HELLO ANXIOUS HUMANS! Did you know that over 80% of the population will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their lives? That’s right! Anxiety is basically the overbearing parent of mental health—always hovering, ready to critique your every move! In this quickie, we’re diving deep into how this sneaky little gremlin can throw a wrench in our love lives, sex lives, and relationships like a bad rom-com plot twist. Ever tried to be romantic when your heart feels like it's doing the cha-cha? We’ll talk about the physical sensations that come with anxiety, from that delightful stomach flip that starts as butterflies but quickly turns into a full-blown hornet’s nest. Then there’s the mind game that can turn a sweet date into an internal monologue of “Do I look okay? What if they don’t like my choice of pasta? Am I talking too much?!”—and just when you think you might seal the deal, anxiety decides to crash the party, leaving you feeling more like a deer in headlights than a seductive starlet. But wait—let's get steamy! Did you know that nearly 30% of men report experiencing performance anxiety? Yes, that pressure to perform can turn a night of passion into an episode of “Survivor: Bedroom Edition,” where the stakes are high, and the tension is palpable! We'll explore how anxiety can mess with your mojo, making that path to pleasure feel like running a marathon in stilettos—difficult, wobbly, and downright amusing. Join me as I share my personal rollercoaster of living with anxiety every single day. We'll break down tips to not just survive, but thrive in your relationship while juggling those anxiety-induced challenges. And if you’re the partner of someone wrestling with this beast, I’ve got your back, too! We’ll discuss effective ways to support your loved one—no, you don’t need to don a cape, but maybe bring a little humor and lots of empathy to the table. After all, laughter can be the best aphrodisiac when navigating the murky waters of anxiety. So, buckle up for a fun, sexy, and insightful ride as we navigate the ups and downs of love and anxiety together. Remember, in this wild journey called life, stay safe, stay kind, and—most importantly—stay sexy!