What‘s Your Position?

Ashley Weller
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Oct 24, 2025 • 37min

QUICKIE: You're So Vain, You Probably Think This Size is About You...

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Oct 14, 2025 • 48min

QUICKIE: What's New In Sex Research?

Hello Humans! In this awesome, stat filled, research driven quickie we dive into some of the sex research currently shaping our world! From menstrual bloods MAGICAL healing powers to the first time we have had male broth control make it past phase 2, to research on strippers and ovulation! This is an episode for all you sexy nerd lovers. Stay safe, stay kind, and stay sexy 🤓
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Sep 26, 2025 • 2h 8min

FULL FRONTAL: Light Bondage & Power Dynamics; How to introduce kink into your relationship with Sir Rucifer

In our first Full Frontal of Season 6 we talk to our FAVORITE BDSM sex-pert, Sir Rucifer, as he guides us on a kinky journey into gently introducing kink into your everyday routine. HE teaching Husband how to spank and teaches Ashley the "proper positions" (which we will post in our insta!). We also play "Guess That Toy!" where Rucifer gives the audience a sound and the blindfolded hosts and listeners have to guess the BDSM toy being presented! This episode is for anyone wanting to try an easy entry into kink and foreplay in the bedroom. 
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Sep 12, 2025 • 28min

WELCOME TO SEXY SEASON 6!

IN this first episode of Season six we breakdown some amazing stats from Season 5, some listener questions, some great topics we will cover in season 6 and more! The Quickies are quicker and the Full Frontals are fewer! We introduce a new segment called "What's Bringing Your Joy?" Get ready for a sexy, quickie heavy season with your favorite Sex Podcasters! We can't wait to discover new areas of love, life, sex and pleasure!
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May 12, 2025 • 1h 38min

FULL FRONTAL: Breaking Binaries & Living OUTLOUD; With Trans activist and educator, Jessica Lynn

In this unforgettable Full Frontal of What’s Your Position, we sit down with the incomparable Jessica Lynn—international speaker, educator, and trans rights advocate whose personal story has changed laws, hearts, and minds around the world. With raw vulnerability and unapologetic brilliance, Jessica opens up about her decades-long fight for truth, identity, and justice—including her high-profile custody battle that became a lightning rod in the global conversation around transgender rights.   We explore her evolution from a life lived in hiding to one of radical visibility, and how her scientific knowledge, emotional intelligence, and deep compassion have made her one of the most sought-after voices in gender education today.   Fewer than 30% of trans adults over 50 say they have strong support systems. Jessica is changing that—one conversation, one courtroom, and one country at a time.   This episode is honest, intimate, and full of the kind of truth that lingers long after the mic goes off. Whether you’re questioning, learning, or unlearning, Jessica’s story will move you to think deeper, love harder, and show up louder. Check out her website here: Jessica’s Website
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Apr 26, 2025 • 1h 32min

FULL FRONTAL: Tales From The Sex Shops; Brick, mortar and butt-plugs

Hello Fellow Humans! For todays Full Frontal, slip into something a little more comfortable and join us for a steamy stroll through the aisles of desire. In this episode, we get intimate with “V,” a fabulous friend and fierce expert from a local California sex shop, as we uncover the surprisingly scandalous history of erotic retail. Did you know the first recorded sex shop opened in London in 1738? That’s right—across the pond, folks were already in the mood for mood lighting and feather ticklers. But when it came to the U.S., things got a little… stiff. Cue the Comstock Laws, those Victorian-era vibe-killers that tried to criminalize anything sexy—including your grandma’s vintage vibrators.   We dish on how laws have tried (and failed) to police desire, and “V” dishes on why walking into a real, brick-and-mortar pleasure shop can still offer something the internet never could: human connection, trusted guidance, and a judgment-free zone to explore your deepest curiosities. We spill the tea, and the lube on just how horney Americans are. Did you know we are buying pleasure products by the millions? In fact, the U.S. sex toy market hit over $10.6 billion in 2024. That’s a whole lot of buzz, babes. So grab your lube and get comfy—we’re talking vibrators, vibrancy, and the value of keeping things real in a digital age. This one’s for the lovers, the learners, and everyone in between. 💋
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Apr 21, 2025 • 1h 33min

CLITERALY IMPORTANT EPISODE: Full Frontal: WHAT"S IN THE BOX?!?! Arya; bringing intimacy and pleasure back into the bedroom

We are re-releasing some super important episodes to make sure you all got an earful the first time around! Be sure to check out our friends at Arya.FYI.com!   Is your bedroom getting boring? Need a spice in your sex life? In this Full Frontal we are joined by Arya's own Head of Relationship Research, Nicholas Velotta, to bring attention to this incredible, relationship changing subscription service. Arya is unlike any "date night" box you have ever seen, with constantly changing scenes that are tailor made for you and your partner by your very own "relationship concierge". From tame to tantric, Arya has boxes curated with high-end sex toys, sexy playlists, ideas for getting started, safe words, aftercare and so much more. Nicholas talks to us about how each box is made, how the scenes are created and the statistics they have learned from the couples who have tried and tested Arya from the start. We also discuss Kevin and my first box and take a look at the future of Arya. Wanna try it for yourself? Use code WYP15 for 15% off your first 3 months. This revolutionary relationship rejuvenator has the WYP sexy stamp of approval. Go check out Arya today, and reignite the passion in your romance.    To reach Nicholas: TikTok: mindonlove Instagram: mind_on_love website: mindonlove.com Arya contact: Arya's instagram and tiktok: arya.fyi Arya's website: Arya.fyi USE CODE WYP15 AT CHECK OUT FOR 15% OFF!
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Apr 7, 2025 • 1h 21min

Afternoon Delight Part 3: Contraception Confessions; Your voices, Your choices

Welcome to part 3 of Afternoon Delight: Birth Control Chronicles! We’ve talked about the facts, we’ve broken down the methods, but now—it’s time to dive deep into REAL stories from YOU, our incredible listeners. 🫶 Over 10 submissions came through when I asked for your stories, and I was overwhelmed with the willingness to share. We got a wild mix of call-ins, write-ins, and unforgettable stories that give us the inside scoop on everything from vasectomies to IUDs, and beyond. Huge thanks to everyone who took the time to share—you’re the real MVPs! 💖 💥 What’s on the table? 💥 🔪 Vasectomy Stories: We’ve got three different vasectomy journeys, each one as unique as the person who shared it. Whether it was a quick decision, a long contemplation, or a "why didn't I do this sooner?" moment, these stories bring all the feels. 😱🔪💥 💊 The Pill Chronicles: A few listeners walk us through decades of being on the pill—from being a teen to now. Spoiler: It’s not always sunshine and rainbows, but the lessons learned are priceless. 🌈💊 💉 The IUD Experience: Painful insertion? A breeze? Multiple listeners spill their IUD stories, each more different than the last. Did they almost pass out from the pain? Did they keep it in? Let’s just say, it’s a wild ride. 🚨😵‍💫 🌟 And let’s not forget... our amazing Erin is BACK to talk about life off the pill—what's it REALLY like, and did the grass turn out greener?  💡 Did You Know? 💡 🔹 IUDs are over 99% effective and last anywhere from 3 to 10 years—pretty solid for low-maintenance. 🔹 Vasectomies are 99% effective at preventing pregnancy, but remember—reversal rates can drop over time. 🔹 The Pill revolutionized reproductive health in 1960, but it wasn’t until 1972 that all women could legally access it in the U.S. 😳 Thank you a million times to our listeners for sharing these powerful, personal stories. You inspire us and we are SO grateful for you. 💖 This felt like going back to season 1 where the guests were my friends, so thank you for bringing it full circle.  🎧 Tune in for a raw, real, and hilarious episode full of love, laughs, and life-changing insights. We hope you hear your story, feel validated by similar experiences, or hear something that sparks you to take control over your reproductive health.  #WhatsYourPosition #BCConfidential #RealTalkReproductiveHealth #ContraceptionChronicles #mybodymychoice #listenerstory 
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Mar 24, 2025 • 1h 17min

Afternoon Delight Part 2: Hormonal Birth Control; From IUD's to poppin pills

We’re BACK, baby! 💃 If you thought we covered it all in Afternoon Delight Part 1, think again—because birth control comes in many forms, and we’re breaking them all down. Whether you’re popping a pill, slapping on a patch, or letting the ring do its thing, we’ve got the facts, the history, and the stats you need to make the right choice for YOU. Because when it comes to birth control, one size does NOT fit all! 🔥 What’s on the agenda? 🔥 💊 The Pill: ✔️ First hit the market in 1960—and changed everything. ✔️ With perfect use, it’s 99% effective, but typical use brings it down to 93%. 👕 The Patch: ✔️ Releases steady hormones through the skin—set it and forget it (for a week!). ✔️ Can be less effective in people over 198 lbs, so weight may be a factor. 💍 The Ring: ✔️ Insert it once a month—hello, low maintenance! ✔️ Contains a lower dose of hormones than the pill, but just as effective. 💉 The Shot: ✔️ Just 4 shots a year—talk about easy! ✔️ Can take 10 months or longer to regain fertility after stopping. ⚠️ REMEMBER: Not all birth control is created equal, and not all bodies react the same way. What’s perfect for your BFF might not vibe with you—and that’s okay! Your body, your rules, your choice. 🎧 Tune in, get the facts, and take control of your reproductive health like the badass you are! And come back for part 3 where we hear listener stories about experience on birth control! Stay protected. Stay smart. Stay sexy. 😘🔥 #WhatsYourPosition #BirthControlBoss #MyBodyMyChoice #SafeNotSorry #ReproRights #SexEdMatters #ContraceptionConversation
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Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 20min

Full Frontal: Backwards Bordello; Kink, Burlesque and Queer Spaces

Hello Fellow Humans! Get ready to crank up the fun and kink factor at Backwards Bordelo! Join us for a playful romp through LA’s most outrageous queer kink event, hosted by the fabulous Carter—your guide to everything quirky, sexy, and delightfully subversive. 😘✨ In this episode, we celebrate queer spaces as the ultimate playgrounds for self-expression, creativity, and a little mischief. We’re diving deep into the history of these vibrant havens—from the legendary gay and lesbian bars that lit up our nights to the sizzling alternative events that have taken over when COVID-19 forced many beloved spaces to close. Did you know that nearly 30% of LA’s iconic queer establishments shuttered during the pandemic? 📉 Across the nation, a similar 20% decline has left many feeling the loss of these safe spaces where laughter, love, and liberation once thrived. But hey, out of every challenge comes a fabulous comeback! 💪🏳️‍🌈 Backwards Bordelo is more than just an event—it’s a beacon of creative resistance. Studies have shown that over 70% of queer youth crave safe environments for authentic exploration and self-discovery, and this event is answering that call with a mix of kink, performance art, and unapologetic joy. 🔥💃 Carter brings their signature blend of humor and heart as we explore how celebrating kink in a secure, inclusive setting isn’t just about pushing boundaries—it’s about building community and fostering empowerment. Whether you’re drawn by the jaw-dropping fire dancers, the immersive Shibari, the dancers and knife play, the vibrant stories of resilience, or the need to reclaim spaces that nurture our true selves, this episode promises to be a rollicking good time! 🎭💖 Tune in for a playful yet powerful journey through queer history, sizzling current trends, and a vision of a future where every queer soul has a space to shine. Because when the going gets tough, the tough get kinked—and we’re here to celebrate it all! 🎙️🌈✨ Let's get this party started! 🎉💥

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