

Connected Parenting
Jennifer Kolari
Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions and increase order and balance in the nervous system. Reward chemicals, including natural opiates, endorphins, and a powerful hormone called oxytocin, reduce and inhibit stress hormones and bathe the brain in positive emotions that ripple through every cell in the body. The benefits of empathy and compassion have a strong base in science that cannot be underestimated. Simply put, it is brain food, the emotional nutrition all of us need, perhaps our children most of all.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Episodes
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Feb 27, 2019 • 10min
Connected Parenting Episode 8 – Bedtime Battles
Episode 8 focusses on bedtime battles, which can be epic! Jennifer will provide inspiration for harmonious bedtimes.
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Feb 12, 2019 • 20min
Connected Parenting Episode 7 – King of the Castle
This episode will give you insight into helping your bossy child have successful playdates.

Jan 29, 2019 • 21min
Connected Parenting Episode 6 – Staying Neutral
Want your kids to listen? Then turn down the volume and discover the power of being neutral. Jennifer shares how to respond instead of react to your children.

Jan 15, 2019 • 20min
Connected Parenting Episode 5 – When Parenting hurts…
Behind every anxious, acting-out child, is a parent who is suffering. This episode explores the very real, and rarely discussed issue of parental frustration and fears. These parents are watching their children’s lives flashing before their eyes. Jennifer offers hope and strategies to deal with this difficult problem.

Jan 1, 2019 • 22min
Connected Parenting Episode 4 – Parenting and The Brain
This episode explores interpersonal neurobiology with a fascinating look into what's happening in your child's brain when they get upset and how your reactions affect what happens next.

Dec 27, 2018 • 17min
Connected Parenting Episode 3 – Oxytocin, The Love Drug
Jennifer explains the importance of Limbic bonding and the power of connection.

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Dec 18, 2018 • 22min
Connected Parenting Episode 2 – CALM Technique
Dive into the CALM technique, which highlights the power of deep listening and emotional attunement with children. Discover how fostering connection rather than seeking quick fixes can build emotional resilience. Explore the importance of mirroring and empathetic engagement, supporting family bonds during tough moments. It's all about creating a nurturing environment where children feel understood and supported.

Dec 1, 2018 • 16min
Connected Parenting Episode 1
Jennifer begins the Connected Parenting Podcast with look at the background of Connected Parenting. Where its roots are and how it came to be. She outlines this unbelievable parenting philosophy and lets you know why its so powerful and why it is the best approach to parenting for everyone. She tells us how the power of love and connection can change your life.


