

Connected Parenting
Jennifer Kolari
Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions and increase order and balance in the nervous system. Reward chemicals, including natural opiates, endorphins, and a powerful hormone called oxytocin, reduce and inhibit stress hormones and bathe the brain in positive emotions that ripple through every cell in the body. The benefits of empathy and compassion have a strong base in science that cannot be underestimated. Simply put, it is brain food, the emotional nutrition all of us need, perhaps our children most of all.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
Although many parenting techniques stress the importance of empathy, Connected Parenting will show you how to use it skillfully to repair frayed bonds, deescalate tantrums, contain and correct difficult behaviors and help your child to become more confident and emotionally resilient. We use a collaborative and supportive coaching model and provide inspirational, easy-to-understand techniques grounded in neuroscience and attachment. In the end, your child will be more compliant, more relaxed, and – most importantly – happier. Connected Parenting will bring out the best in you and your child.
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Apr 4, 2022 • 1h 6min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 66 – [MY INTERVIEW ON “WHAT THE PARENT” ] Gladiator Kids Got You Feeling Crazy?
Today I am on "What The Parent" podcast with PJ and Cara - Listen in to hear me share how to approach prickly teens with love, intention, and most importantly ruthless compassion.

Mar 28, 2022 • 19min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 65 – [REPLAY] When You Love Your Kid But Don’t Like Them Very Much
We love our kids like crazy, but sometimes we don't like them. In fact, a lot of the time we don't like them, if they're a gladiator and being really difficult, challenging and aggressive and we're not supposed to talk about that.

Mar 21, 2022 • 23min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 64 – Controlling Anger So It Doesn’t Control You
Join me for this week's episode to hear the facts about anger and what we as parents can do to help ourselves while also teaching our children what it looks like to manage anger when it rears its ugly head.

Mar 14, 2022 • 21min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 63 – The Truth About Lying: Teen Edition
There are four different types of lying that we, parents need to be aware of.
Join me on this week’s episode to learn why teens lie and what we can do should it come up in our household.

Mar 7, 2022 • 25min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 62 – The Good, The Bad And The Lovely
join me and my guest Natalie in our get real conversation on what it means to parent even in hard times, especially when parenting our gladiator child who tend to be the more sassy, spicy, feisty kind of kids.

Mar 1, 2022 • 7min
CONNECTED PARENTING SPECIAL PODCAST EPISODE – Helping Our Children Navigate The Uncertainty of Current World Events
Today I want to talk about the difficult events that are happening in the world right now and how we can talk to our children about it.

Feb 23, 2022 • 18min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 61 – Is Your Child Struggling With Eco-Anxiety?
Parents report that their kids are dealing with eco-anxiety, and having trouble sleeping at night because of the stress that comes with it. Consumed by the fear that the world is not going to be a place they can live, work and or raise a family in.
So what exactly is eco-anxiety, what causes it and how can we as parents help our kids manage it?

Feb 14, 2022 • 15min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 60 – Your Child Is Stealing; No Need To Panic
What is happening in the brain when a child steals and how can we as parents can best love them into overcoming those strong impulses that often feel so overwhelming they take them over?

Feb 7, 2022 • 19min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 59 – Liar, Liar Pants On Fire
Don’t panic, lying is a normal developmental stage that children go through. How we respond or react to it can determine whether the behavior of lying is reduced or if our kids just become better liars. The key here is to remain calm, always listen to what our kids have to say and root ourselves in love not fear when it comes to addressing the lie.

Jan 28, 2022 • 16min
CONNECTED PARENTING EPISODE 58 – Taming Tantrums
In this episode, Jennifer explores temper tantrums, meltdowns, hissy fits, and other emotional outbursts.
Tantrums are a normal part of child development but they are challenging to deal with and can be exhausting for parents. Children have big feelings that don’t always fit in their little bodies. In this episode, we explore the purpose and function of tantrums and how to deescalate or even at times avoid them altogether.


