
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey! I'm here every week to help you develop yourself, do the work, and grow into the person you want to be.
In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer.
As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the visionary behind GrowingSelf.com, I'm on a mission to light up your path to greatness. Every single week, we dive deep into your burning questions, chat with inspiring experts, and serve up fresh, actionable ideas for you to put into practice.
Don't miss out on your chance to level up your life! Tune in and let's co-create the love, happiness, and success story you've always dreamed of. It's time to unleash your potential! 💫🎙️
Latest episodes

Jan 9, 2024 • 46min
#383: F The Fairy Tale! Relationship Myths That Keep You Single
Are you navigating the single scene or maybe feeling a bit disheartened by relationships that just don't seem to click? You're not alone. Often, the biggest hurdle in our quest for love is the sneaky, self-limiting beliefs that quietly hold us back. These relationship myths are like invisible scripts dictating our love lives, and we've all got them. In today's episode, we're going to uncover these hidden culprits! You'll learn how to spot them and, more importantly, how to stop them from meddling in your journey to love. To make this conversation even more exciting (and meaningful) we'll have the amazing Damona Hoffman with us. She's a true expert in the world of dating and relationships, and she's here to share her insights on why it's time to ditch those fairy-tale expectations and focus on what really matters for creating a lasting, satisfying relationship. If one of your main life goals is to build a healthy relationship, this will be a game-changer for your love life. So tune in, get cozy, and let's dive deep into transforming your approach to love. You deserve a relationship as incredible as you are, and we're here to help you create it. Let's do this! 🌟💕 xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com PS: On the show we discussed a bunch of resources. Here's a link to a whole collection of free dating advice including a curated podcast playlist that I made for you. With love! xo

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Jan 1, 2024 • 42min
#382 - Signs Your Relationship Is in Distress
Learn about signs of a distressed relationship including displacement of blame and toxic conflict. Understand the importance of self-reflection and productive conflict resolution. Explore the narrative and sources of relationship problems, including shared responsibilities and intimacy. Discover the negative experiences and toxic arguments in distressed relationships. Emphasize the need for honest and courageous conversations with a couples therapist. Introduce discernment counseling as a different type of intervention for couples in distress.

Dec 25, 2023 • 53min
#381 - How to Discover Your Strengths
Discover the significance of living authentically by utilizing your strengths. Learn how to shift your focus away from external standards and embrace personal growth. Recognize and utilize your natural strengths. Connect with a specialized career therapist to understand your strengths and set yourself up for success. Embrace personal growth and say yes to joy and success. Explore personal growth and transformation and connect with therapists at growingself.com.

Dec 18, 2023 • 58min
#380 - Why Your Marriage Is Worth Saving
If you've been going through a rough patch in your marriage for awhile now, it's understandable if you're questioning whether you should continue fighting. But many couples get discouraged before they've had a chance to engage in the process that makes transformation possible in relationships. If you're interested in fighting for your marriage, this episode is for you. Our relationships are the most precious things we have, and your marriage probably has more potential for growth and renewal than you realize. On this episode, I'm telling you why your marriage is worth saving, and what you can do to turn a rough patch into a new beginning. I hope you'll join me. Love, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — If you are living through a marriage crisis, it's important to get help from a true relationship expert. Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/

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Dec 11, 2023 • 44min
#379 - How to Figure Out What You Want in Life
Explore the importance of getting clarity and confidence to achieve what you want in life. Learn about self-awareness and goal setting, taking action, and trying new experiences. Find out the significance of having a support person and reshaping your personal narrative. Seek guidance from a therapist or a life coach.

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Dec 4, 2023 • 1h 8min
#378 - How to Build Trust in Relationships
This podcast explores the significance of trust in relationships, how to build and maintain trust, the challenges in developing trust, and the multifaceted nature of trust. It also discusses the importance of honesty, emotional safety, and personal growth in fostering genuine and trustworthy relationships.

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Nov 27, 2023 • 50min
#377 - Growing Closer: How to Build Emotional Intimacy
Learn how to build emotional intimacy in relationships by addressing barriers, creating a safe environment, and fostering open conversations. Find the right therapist based on specific goals and access free resources to improve relationships. Develop a growth mindset and practice self-awareness for building emotional intimacy.

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Nov 20, 2023 • 1h 5min
#376 - Communication Issues? What to Do!
This podcast explores the challenges of communication in relationships, addressing hidden obstacles, ADHD-related distractions, differing communication styles, and the impact on empathy and conflict resolution. It also delves into personal growth, attachment styles, evaluating relationships, and offers resources for improving communication.

Nov 13, 2023 • 58min
#375 - What to Do When Your Partner Pulls Away
Learn strategies to overcome distance in a relationship. Explore the natural shifts in closeness and distance. Understand secure attachment styles and relationship dynamics. Recognize signs of pulling away and differentiate between normal turbulence and deeper problems. Rebuild the friendship and engage in activities that promote emotional intimacy. Take positive action to heal the bond and increase connection in your relationship.

Nov 6, 2023 • 1h 1min
#374 - How to Develop a Secure Attachment Style
Having a secure attachment style allows you to feel close and connected to others, while keeping your emotional independence and sense of self firmly intact. But if you weren't lucky enough to develop a secure attachment style as a child, how can you become securely attached as an adult? Luckily, there are some effective strategies for "earning" secure attachment, and this episode will show you the way. I am discussing the qualities of a securely attached person and the steps you can take to address your attachment patterns and gain connection and freedom. With love, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S. — If you would like support in becoming more securely attached, schedule a free consultation with an attachment-informed clinician on my team: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/