Shameless Sex

We are IN LOVE with this episode! Buck Angel - Adult Performer, Filmmaker, Activist, & Sex-Toy Designer - joins us to tell us all about his experience as a trans man with everything from what it was like transitioning from female to male, why he stands by the belief that  "It's not what between your legs that defines you", and so much more! We also answer a sex q: Best tips for penetrative sex with a small penis?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. Buck Angel is a world-renowned motivational speaker, human rights activist, pioneering filmmaker and adult performer, and transmale sex-toy designer. While Buck was assigned female at birth, he never felt it in his core and struggled through life until he had the life-changing opportunity to transition from female to male and finally live life authentically. Buck’s mission is to inspire people to re-define gender and to foster a new generation as they discover the fluidity of sexuality and navigate gender politics. His message "It's not what between your legs that defines you" has sparked many a conversation and opened minds to the important message that gender is what you say it is for you, and that self-acceptance is not only what makes a person happy, it's how others come to understand you. Buck has made appearances on HBO, National Geographic, Netflix, The Tyra Banks Show, Dan Savage, AOL, Spike TV, The Women's Entertainment Network, Howard Stern Show, Much Music, Sirius Radio, and many others. He's been written about in  Forbes, Esquire, Cosmo, VICE, Huffington Post, ELLE, Buzz Feed, The Village Voice, Rolling Stone, Time Out, Maxim, New York Times, and other publications around the world.  In August 2016 Buck produced the world’s first pleasure product specifically for the transgender male community. His product, called The Buck Off, was produced in collaboration with Perfect Fit Brand as a means to re-imagine a transmale sexuality and the specific needs his community looks for. Buck also created T-Lube with Sliquid and is the first lubrication to be directly targeted to trans male vaginal health.  As an adult performer Angel made history when he received the prestigious award from Adult Video News (AVN) for Transsexual Performer of the Year in 2007 for his groundbreaking work in the adult entertainment industry. Buck is the first trans man to win this award. Buck created this genre and has since won a second award for his work, 2017 AVN award for Best Transsexual scene. Buck Angel Entertainment has been on the cutting edge of producing trans male sexual wellness products and films since 2002. Known for taking the subject matter of transgender sexuality and bringing it to the world. Award-winning films that have shown all over the world and now are used in many Universities to help educate about trans male sexuality. To learn more visit buckangel.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 20% off customized hair care at FunctionofBeauty.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Dr. Jason Karp, a competitive runner and expert in exercise and sexual health, dives into the fascinating connection between fitness and intimacy. He discusses how exercise boosts libido and enhances sexual response, even leading to exercise-induced orgasms. The conversation also highlights overcoming negative body image and the importance of embracing self-love. Karp shares insights on how workouts can amplify pleasure and offers practical tips for incorporating fitness into your romantic life. It's a blend of science, humor, and heart!

Mr Kristofer and Amp of the Watts the Safeword Podcast join us to talk about various aspects of kink including what it means to be a Daddy, puppy play, urethral sounding, and more!We also answer a sex question about a fur coat fetish. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.About our guests: Mr Kristofer and Amp are both sex positive educators who create kinky content under the brand Watts The Safeword. A sex positive youtube channel and matching podcast that destigmatizes and educates on all things kinky. Mr. Kristofer has been in the BDSM Community for over 30 years and considers himself “Guard Classic.” He has directed gay male porn for the last 30 years for Falcon and COLT. Where Amp is a blogger, sex worker, activist and producer of "Watts The Safeword," a sex education channel with a few kinks. With his background as a sex educator and sex worker he, along with guests of all abilities, backgrounds, experiences and kinky lifestyles, destigmatize topics on sex and other LGBTQ+ issues. To learn more visit wattsthesafeword.com Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet 20% off customized hair care at FunctionofBeauty.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is the adult industry really like? Tune in to hear all the juicy details from erotic photographer and podcaster Holly Randall. We also answer a sex question about how to find ethical porn. Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 15.About our guest: Holly Randall is an erotic photographer and host of the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast - a series that sheds light on those working in the adult industry and explores all topics of sex with authors, educators, and advocates. Holly interviews some of the biggest names in the adult industry, and various non-porn guests who touch on the subject of sex in one way or another. With an honest and humorous outlook on life, Holly strips away the misconceptions on people who work in the sex industry, and offers sex-positive discussions on various social and political issues. You can follow Holly on both Instagram and Twitter at @hollyrandall. To learn more visit hollyrandallunfiltered.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com   

Amy is grieving. She is going through the waves of heartache and breakup. April is in the process of reevaluating her current relationship. This episode is not about bashing partners or ex's or airing out anyone's dirty laundry. It's about expressing our vulnerability alongside tips and tricks on how to move through breakups and heartache. Whether you've been through heartache, are going through one now, or will go through one in the future, there is probably something here you will relate to. Because F*CK, breakups and heartache are hard.   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com      

What are some of the misconceptions about bisexuality? What is the power of sexual fluidity, and can people learn to be more sexually fluid?Also, what is “The Power of the Pause-Up level with edging” and how can you use a pause to increase the power of orgasm?Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.About our guest: Monique Gomez is an intimacy and embodiment coach, educator and TEDx speaker. She serves others to support clarifying their relationship with their intimate selves to live in deep satisfaction with their sexuality, relationships, body, mind, spirit and heart. She speaks about the Power of the Pause and intuition as a tool for living authentically. Her passion is helping others heal sexual wounding, live consciously and embodied. To learn more visit moniquegomez.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com   

Wow, what a powerful episode! Marlee Liss joins us to share her story about why she chose the restorative justice route with her rapist and how it helped her heal her trauma. Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual violence and therefore it may bring up some intense emotions. Reminder - all emotions are welcome, be sure to reach out for your resources if you feel you need support, and please be gentle with yourself. About our guest: Marlee helps women claim sacred sensuality so they can live in self-love and inner wholeness. As a women’s embodied love coach, author and retreat facilitator, she has worked internationally to inspire transformative healing. Marlee’s work is deeply shaped by her background in social work, trauma-informed yoga, somatic sex education, and body image facilitation. In 2019, Marlee founded an organization called Re-Humanize, focused on uplifting cultural standards of empathy. Marlee has shared her story of restorative justice for sexual violence worldwide across major platforms such as Forbes, Huff Post, Buzzfeed, Mel Robbins Show and more. Marlee is getting ready to launch a sacred sensuality course that you can learn more about at www.marleeliss.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com   

What is swinging and what are the biggest misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle? What are the benefits for non-monogamous couples, and how can partners dip their toes into swinging? We also answer a sex question: How do I come out to my partner about my desire for non-monogamy?Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23.About our guests: Brenna and Brian are the hosts of the sex-positive podcast, Front Porch Swingers, where they chronicle their real-life adventures in consensual non-monogamy. They've shared their passion for the swinging lifestyle in many formats, including countless lifestyle podcasts, online publications, Hustler Magazine, and sex education platforms. They are recipients of ASN Lifestyle Magazine's Sexiest Lifestyle Resource in January of 2020, proving that you can educate and titillate at the same time. They host seminars on an array of lifestyle topics, including handling jealousy and how to properly vet potential play partners. Their YouTube channel, also called Front Porch Swingers, provides resources on everything from sex toy recmmendations to the basics of swinging. Brenna and Brian are admittedly far from your average couple: Between their twenty-year age gap, involvement in the BDSM lifestyle, and future plans to "swing around the country," they are never afraid to forge their own path and do things differently. Brenna and Brian share their work with two goals in mind: To normalize the nonmonogamous lifestyle, and to encourage YOU to seek out "Sex on Your Terms." To learn more visit frontporchswingers.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comTake affordable yoga, pilates and even a pilates teacher training all online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com 

Why is it important for couples to acknowledge and address blocks in communication and connection? How can they properly communicate their feelings and needs, and how does this affect sex?We also answer a sex question: My wife no longer gets wet during sex.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22. About our guest: Wellness Work, Dance, and Event Production have been Kelley Mountain's main outlets of service to the world and personal creative passions for nearly 20 years. She uses these mediums to create beauty and inspiration in the world, from the individual to the masses. Coaching, bodywork and healing sessions, empowerment work, creativity, dance performance, spiritual circles, art & dance events, sensuality/sexuality and intimacy, and wellness retreats are some of her specialties.Kelley is a certified Master Herbalist with a BA in Holistic Health. Since 2015 Kelley has been working primarily with men for Tantric Bodywork and Coaching. 2001-2015 she mainly worked with women for wellness, spirituality, belly dance, and healing work. Her life and work experience has been devoted to the health and harmony of the feminine and masculine, and her offerings can range from working solo, as couples, in small groups, in larger events, or online. To learn more visit https://goddessmodern.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet 20% off customized hair care at FunctionofBeauty.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Comedian Nick Scopoletti joins us to shamelessly ask his sex questions about how being shamed during one of his first sexual experiences is affecting his adult life, challenges orgasming from oral sex, and why almost all of his exes have gone on to marry the guy right after him.  About our guest: Maybe you are looking for a mumbling entertainer for a kids birthday party. Or maybe you are looking for an emcee for your next swingers bash in the suburbs. Comedian Nick Scopoletti is your (funny) guy. His high-energy interactive entertainment is sure to bring — not just fun — but antibiotics and experience to the party.  Safety 3rd. Nick is also co-host of The Mangina Dialogues - a sweltering combo of hot topics and hot fun hosted alongside Comedy DJ TheGregalicious. The show's unique variety of content is hilarious and insightful features an array of refreshing personalities finding the humor in real life situations. Every week The Mangina Dialogues bring discussions on comedy, music, lifestyles, pro sports- all aspects of pop- culture. With their keen eyes for the comedic, Greg & Nick spend time getting to know their guests, leading to hilarious, and also often touching, discussions. To learn more visit https://themanginadialogues.com/