That Sex Chick

Om Rupani, who teaches workshops in sensuality, tantra, and BDSM, discusses topics such as separate erotic journeys in relationships, the psychological aspect of BDSM, and the importance of consensual power exchanges, with a focus on personal growth and understanding the dominant-submissive realm.

Whitney Miller, sex and relationship coach and co-host of the True Sex & Wild Love podcast, joins Alexa for a real AF conversation on lessons she’s learned from open relationships and heartbreak, all while being public with it all. They also talk about boundary setting, deep friendships, great sex, and evolving in your relationships.Today on That Sex Chick:Being a sex coach & the “why” behind Whitney’s passionWhat Whitney learned about boundaries from her open relationshipAllowing the evolution of your desires in relationshipsWhat it’s like to have a public breakupApproaching tough conversations around jealousy & resentmentFollow Whitney:Website: whitnlove.com IG: @whitnlovePodcast: True Sex & Wild LoveRecommended resource: Kenneth Play’s Sex Hacker Pro CourseRecommended book: UntrueConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Click here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

As the author of The Evolved Masculine and founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek is a leading voice in conscious masculinity. Today, he shares his experience living the archetype of the “erotic rockstar” and how the evolved masculine was birthed from his life experiences. Destin unpacks what it takes to evolve your masculinity, how connecting to your feminine will make you a better lover, and how to lean into the face of pleasure as well as pain.Today on That Sex Chick:How Destin moved from erotic rockstar to evolved masculineConnecting to your feminine to be a better loverA practice for lasting longer in bedHow you can achieve sexual self-masteryBeing in awe of the feminine through pregnancy & birthHow society would operate when in the feminine vs. masculineFollow Destin:Instagram: @evolvedmasculine Website: evolvedmasculine.com Book: The Evolved MasculinePodcast: The Evolved MasculineConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Referenced Book: Spirit BabiesClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today’s episode is all about the world of sex coaching and how to become one! Learn how Alexa and Bryn each ended up on the path of sex coaching, different ways they help their clients, and the role of intention and integrity when you’re facing imposter syndrome. They unpack the process of becoming a sex coach, sharing resources and trainings to help guide you on your own journey.Today on That Sex Chick:Busting myths around being a sex coachAlexa and Bryn’s personal journeys to becoming coachesHow sex coaches help their clientsWhat it looks like to be a coach versus a therapistHow to get started & resources for becoming a sex coachFacing imposter syndrome, fear of failure, & being in integrityResources:Sex Coach Prep School: alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/prep-school Listen: How BDSM Changed My Sex Life ForeverRecommended Books: Come As You Are ; Vagina: A New Biography ; King, Warrior, Magician, Lover ; The Way of the Superior ManConnect with Alexa & Bryn:thatsexchick.com ; @bryndaylorIG: @thatsexchick Click here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Do you crave more from your sex life, but don’t know what that is or how to get it? Today, Alexa unpacks how to utilize one of her favorite tools, a roadmap to your sexual desires—the Want/Will/Won’t list. This worksheet will help you understand your pleasure and allow you to have a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).Today on That Sex Chick:What the Want/Will/Won’t list is & how to use itUsing the Want/Will/Won’t list to understand you & your partner’s pleasureStrengthen your communication & your connection to your partnerWays Jordan and Alexa have benefited from using the listNormalize sex talk by doing the Want/Will/Won’t list with friendsConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Want Will Won’t list: alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/want-will-wont Free Holiday Gift Guide: thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguide Click here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Stefanos Sifandos, love and relationship coach, has dug through the trenches of his own shadow, healing deep wounds that left him feeling fragmented. In today’s conversation, he shares the pivotal moment when he decided to stop numbing and begin healing, and tools to help on your growth journey. Stefanos unpacks what it looks like to heal infidelity issues when you’re the unfaithful one, and how to attract your ideal partner. Alexa and Stef also talk about non-attachment, de-armoring for deep connection, and building your self-worth.Today on That Sex Chick:The pivotal moment when Stef stopped numbing & began healingHealing infidelity issues when you’re the unfaithful oneTools for addressing & exploring your fears and core woundsHow to prepare yourself for a meaningful partnershipDe-armoring yourself for deep connectionsWhat’s the work men can do today to be better menFollow Stefanos:IG: @stefanossifandos Coaching: coachwithstef.com All-In-1: growwithstef.comLove Block Assessment: stefanossifandos.com/love-block-quiz YouTube: youtube.com/c/StefanosSifandos Facebook: facebook.com/stefanossifandos Connect with Alexa:thatsexchick.comIG: @thatsexchickFree Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguideClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready for today’s episode as Alexa brings you a fun crash course in creating a Sex Magick ritual! This practice can be a solo pleasure ritual or with a partner (or multiple!). Through these simple steps, you can begin to create your reality through your orgasms by attracting in whatever you desire. It not only connects you deeper to yourself and your partner, but it brings in new energy to your sex life, allowing you to play and spice things up!Today on That Sex Chick:Why you want to create a sex magick ritual (solo or with a partner)How to create your sex magick scene & set the vibeQuestions to ask when setting your intention for your sex magick practiceThe best type of breathwork for sex magickUsing a visualization practice with orgasmHow Alexa & Jordan use their sex magick practiceResources:thatsexchick.comIG: @thatsexchickFree Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguideClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

JP and Amber Sears take us on a journey through their love story, sharing how they built the foundation of their relationship, move through challenges, and allow their intuition to guide them. They explore how their parent’s marriage dynamics influenced who they are in relationships, teaching them about equality, not settling, and doing inner work. The couple also shares the evolution of their sex life, how they’ve improved low libido, and how they want to approach parenting when their son Wilder is born.Today on That Sex Chick:JP & Amber’s soul recognition when they metMaking their relationship work while living in different countriesFollowing the guidance of inspiration & your heartEvolution of their sex life, challenges, & masculine/feminine balanceCreating a ritual around sexHow they’ve cultivated a fulfilling relationshipFollow JP & Amber:Instagram: @awakenwithjp ; @amberleesears Website: awakenwithjp.com ; epicself.com Click here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Alexa is joined by her fiancé, Jordan Bowditch, to delve deep into his hero’s journey of reclaiming his sexuality. From his porn-watching days as a teen to him and Alexa’s monogamish relationship, they unpack how his journey has translated into the man he is today, and how you can utilize sex and relationships to self-realize.Today on That Sex Chick:The shameful hiding of masturbation and pornWhen Jordan began questioning his relationship with pornTools to approach sex from a conscious placeMonogamish & the nontraditional start of Jordan and Alexa’s relationshipHow Jordan’s journey has translated into the man he is todayManifesting through sex magicUtilizing sex and relationships to self-realizeResources:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchickFree Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguideClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa takes you on her journey of discovering BDSM, how it opened her mind to sexual possibilities, and helped Alexa find home within her own body. She recounts her first BDSM experience and how that relationship developed, sharing both the submissive and dominant perspectives. Grab a pen and paper because at the end, Alexa unpacks actionable steps for entering the world of BDSM!Today on That Sex Chick:How Alexa was challenged in her understanding of traditional relationshipsAlexa’s first BDSM experience & the relationship that developedThe submissive and dominant perspectivesWhat made Alexa’s BDSM experiences impactful and positiveRed flags in BDSM & how to create a safe experienceAction items for entering the world of BDSMConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Referenced Books: Playing Well With Others ; The Ultimate Guide to Kink ; Urban TantraReferenced Quiz: bdsmtest.orgClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions